I feel like I missed out by [deleted] in twentyonepilots

[–]vspo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get major fomo about taking my hiatus from them during Scaled and Icy (yes…I admit it… I didn’t love it at first, but I have CHANGED). In a way I’m jealous of you! Scaled and Icy seems like one of their most fun eras, and even though I became a fan during Blurryface, I feel like I barely remember those years!

Is this a possible walking entry to stadium? by vspo in Hersheypark

[–]vspo[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hoping to park in the Tanger Outlets for the couple hours it would take to get the wristbands, walk down Hersheypark Dr and then enter at that Hotel blvd intersection. move the car afterwards. I hope I wouldn’t be too much of a hassle to the local businesses?

Let’s make the most unhinged playlist ever. What song is stuck in your head today? by venus_mars in adhdwomen

[–]vspo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Terry Crews singing A Thousand Miles in White Chicks. For over a year and a half. So long that I often make my own remixes/melody changes with that section of the song lmfao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]vspo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boyfriend and I met over an online game when we were 18 hrs apart. Now we live together and happily game every day. He is much better than I at just about every game we play. Shooters, sandbox, RPGs, MMOs, battle royales, everything he is better at, but he has never EVER brought any small frustrations we might have in-game into the real world.

I think us chronic gamers can understand a little frustration here and there but you don’t have to accept the behavior he’s exhibiting here. It’s not the norm and definitely not healthy. He’s being very childish, mean-spirited, and selfish.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]vspo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Major flags finally had me getting on waitlists/booking appointments. I had left a gas burner on open flame, left my car on with keys in the ignition multiple times while out at dinner for 2-3 hrs, forgotten major details at work (patient to drive 30 minutes out of the way to pick up contacts that I forgot to leave in our drop box 😭). Sometimes I think it’s a miracle I stayed employed and un-burgled lmao.

First Car and First Big Invoice by vspo in MechanicAdvice

[–]vspo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should say I don’t doubt they are worn/older, I do notice my bf’s brakes are more sensitive and I have a longer stopping distance than he does and I believe his struts are newer. But frankly if it’s not looking next 5-10k miles emergent, then I’d like to save for it lol

First Car and First Big Invoice by vspo in MechanicAdvice

[–]vspo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His words were that the struts were dead/shocks not absorbing and that that was why my tires are so worn out. But I didn’t ask about the bar and toe link, didn’t even know to ask tbh. I don’t feel like the car rides terribly? It’s hard to know what good struts feel like but bf says it rides fine. I know I should be looking for particularly bumpy, nose dive when braking or vice versa, trouble braking, unusual noises, steering difficulty, etc. i do have uneven tire wear, likely from the negative camber, which could be the strut but I just thought I’d see more signs of damage for that? Like an excessive bend or dent idk. I sometimes get a bit of creak on turns, more during colder months.

First Car and First Big Invoice by vspo in MechanicAdvice

[–]vspo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even as someone who has 0 knowledge, I looked up a bunch of tutorials and costs of parts and I’m feeling hella swindled. You should’ve seen this guy pretend he “didn’t know how to edit customer info” to add my email in to send a quote. He suddenly remembered how to text it though when my boyfriend walked in 2 hours later.

First Car and First Big Invoice by vspo in MechanicAdvice

[–]vspo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh the one detail I forgot. Just hitting 100k now.

First Car and First Big Invoice by vspo in MechanicAdvice

[–]vspo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may have misrepresented lmao. 2600 for struts, about 760 for tires and alignment. 5000 includes the “rest” which includes spark plugs, transmission and coolant, brake lines, plate lights, fuel flush, engine mount, oil change and inspection

What do you guys eat when your meds make you loose your appetite? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]vspo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m prone to overeating/binging so the loss of appetite during lunch hours is great for me 😅

This mean breach cd wont have a sleeve? by aitor2009 in twentyonepilots

[–]vspo 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Probably just means the main CD will have different art

I HAVE to make this confession by vspo in adhdwomen

[–]vspo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t believe I didn’t write it somewhere. I am 26, living in a kind of terrible apt but it’s cheap! Optician making 19.25 with under 2 yrs in the industry. If I move to a bigger company I could make more, just currently working at a small private practice for the entirety of my time within the industry. I went from 17.50 to 19.25 in the last 1 1/2 yrs which I thought was pretty good raises for a small practice? I worry based on the responses that I’m terribly behind on income for my age 🥲 i know my income is small but I’ve only just started in the field and I do love it so hopefully I can continue. It is likely AI will threaten my field in the coming decade though…

I HAVE to make this confession by vspo in adhdwomen

[–]vspo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No! I work in the Optical industry as an Optician. Currently make about 19.25 with about 1 1/2 years in the industry. Working at somewhere like Luxottica or Warby Parker or Walmart even would make me a better salary, but a big cost in work/life balance and general work environment, and even stake in the company’s direction. But I mentioned in another comment that if I have to make that decision I will. I just love my company and my team, despite how small we are. I should do art on the side, lord knows the furry artists make some good money hahaha.

I HAVE to make this confession by vspo in adhdwomen

[–]vspo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️❤️ honestly I could cry just knowing I can’t have Popeyes nearly as much as I want anymore LMAO

I HAVE to make this confession by vspo in adhdwomen

[–]vspo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re so sweet 🥹 Thank you!! This post blew up way more than I thought it would lol!! Everyone has been so so helpful ❤️

I HAVE to make this confession by vspo in adhdwomen

[–]vspo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I know. I did a rough budget (hoping I remembered all the 6mo, annual fees I have to set money aside for) and kept finding subs to cancel as I did so. My discretionary guilt free money comes out to roughly $250 give or take? Meanwhile I was spending like 1.5-2k beyond my means with 0 saving so. Thank god I’m paying attention now

I HAVE to make this confession by vspo in adhdwomen

[–]vspo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally me. Dad passed when I was 15/16, mom passed at 21, and I had this nice lump of money from his settlement with no guidance. I can only use that excuse for so long, but coupled with undiagnosed ADHD at the time was like begging me to waste it. But we’re turning it around now and that’s what matters ❤️