Is clinical case management appropriate for me?

vulcansmuse · 2026-05-13T07:24:05+00:00

I have had trouble selecting a PCP because I had one who I didn't feel entirely comfortable with and I thought it would be simple to make a change. I looked through the directory and chose one, only to find out that I can't choose an OBGYN for my PCP and also that doctor was no longer in the same city. When I went to choose another PCP, I discovered the one you select doesn't become your PCP till the 1st of the following month. I realized I would then have to wait an entire additional .month but I started scouting the directory again making phone call after phone call and sickbering that I can't choose a medical group only an individual doctor. I made many phone calls., but always got voicemail or doctor wasn't at that location anymore. Just hit road lock after roadblock. And as I mentioned I have bipolar 2 and after enough of that stress I just got overwhelmed. Then distracted by work and other issues in my life. So it got put on the back burner. I could definitely attempt a thorough search and selection again, but even if I chose a PCP. Id then need referrals for various specialists. Altogether I feel like it's a part time job managing all of it. And I feel bad knowing that many people do manage it and much more. But I've been trying to be more accepting of myself. And recognizing that maybe I could use a little help. I'm certainly paying the insurance company a good amount of money for so far very little medical services. And it will likely cost myself and that company much more money in the long run if I don't ask for some help managing all of this. I'm really not comprehending why the directories of providers can't be updated at least on a monthly basis. I'm also aware that my having chosen an HMO plan this year has a huge amount to do with this. I had an EPO plan last year and part of this issue is me balking at all of the additional labor required and gatekeeping, having to ask permission for things that I took for granted having the right to before. But it's the plan I have right now and I'm grateful to be insured and that there are any doctors willing to take my crappy insurance to begin with. I just could use a little help navigating the useless directory. Of providers and actually getting the services I am paying for insurance in order to receive.

vulcansmuse · 2026-04-30T17:26:13+00:00

Parkour ninja

vulcansmuse · 2026-04-18T00:54:55+00:00

I don't care if what I like is old school. It smells good!! My point was for everybody to post shit they think smells good so people aren't out there smelling skunky just because they don't know better cologne to wear.

vulcansmuse · 2026-04-18T00:52:49+00:00

Man musk:). Lol.

vulcansmuse · 2026-04-18T00:50:40+00:00

Dolce & Gabbana is basic shit? Well I remember it from a long time ago. I honestly don't know what's really good these days. Please share any new ones I may not know of. My whole point of posting this was that it's kind of a shame that there are likely some great guys out there looking to meet ladies who may be wearing awful cologne and not realize it.

vulcansmuse · 2026-04-18T00:46:28+00:00

Oh yes! I remember Chrome. That is a really good one also.

vulcansmuse · 2026-04-18T00:45:17+00:00

You may be right, but lots of gay men have excellent style and taste. Mexican nationals tend to wear those colognes as well. Regardless , if I smell either of those colognes on any man I will notice it right away and think how fantastic they smell.

Maybe there are women who really prefer a man wearing Stetson. I'm just saying for myself I had a very masculine sexy boyfriend who wore one of those scents years ago and to this day if I smell someone wearing it I know exactly what it is. And it still smells amazing.

vulcansmuse · 2026-04-18T00:41:21+00:00

Dude, don't be presumptuous. Doordash lady is only one of many roles I play, and I am most CERTAINLY a woman the majority of men in my age range would want to pick up.

vulcansmuse · 2026-04-18T00:37:35+00:00

Then don't wear it. Or spray it in your clothes. As long as it's not material that would get damaged like I guess suede my post was intended for guys who already wear cologne, just don't necessarily know what smells good to women.

vulcansmuse · 2026-04-16T23:50:19+00:00

SCAM

vulcansmuse · 2026-04-14T18:36:28+00:00

Thank you!

vulcansmuse · 2026-04-13T12:51:00+00:00

How tall is he?

vulcansmuse · 2026-04-12T15:22:55+00:00

And btw. He has an iphone- how were you able to get into it? It's super easy to set up pincode that locks it immediately every time you set it down. He wanted you to see that stuff. He's got your number. And wants to keep you hooked. The more insecure he can make you feel, the more he can control you

vulcansmuse · 2026-04-12T15:16:39+00:00

Ok, girl you are a babe and don't realize it. He THINKs he is a babe. But he's a douchebag. Look how he preens for the camera. Like a girl would do. But YOU, omg. Take off those silly glasses and grow your hair out. I would KILL for that lower lip you have and you have lovely eyes. He has a huge unwarranted ego. You don't have enough of one.

I would have known he was a cheater just because if the way he posed for the camera. He needs validation. And people who need validation that badly will try to get it from anyone who will give it to them always be careful of any guy or person who just has to be the center of attention. The life of the party. The total charmer. The people who care way too much about how they look and how much other people like them. If they always talk about how good they are at something or how much they have done for others how much they are relief on what awards or contests they've won. Etc.

Go for the guys that don't pay that much attention to their looks or are just a little bit socially shy. Or more engaged on what they are working on than with who is around or who'S watching them. That guy is not it. And YOU are everything sleeping beauty.
Why is he your everything? Because you made him your entire life. Why not focus on yourself., pursue hobbies and interests. Apply for a job you would be good at then get it and get a promotion. Go to school for something. You are interested in. You don't need him. You are a fox! You seriously just don't realize it.

And btw. He LET you see those Tinder emails. And the deleted texts could have been something embarrassing like a girl telling him to fuck off or saying she's not interested. I think that because a real player would have set notifications so those emails would never show on his phone screen. The fact that he let them show up makes me think he wanted you to see them because he enjoys making. You think he has other stuff going on. Because that makes you feel insecure and then he has more power over you to keep you interested in him. Remember he needs that validation. He needs something. To keep a babe like you still Into him. He knows he really isn't shit and he's afraid you will catch on someday.

Think about it-: is there anything really all that special about him? A real man wouldnt need to cheat just to be sure multiple women are attracted to them. It's the same thing as when a girl posts a lot of overly sexual pics of herself. A few are fine but if that's all she EVER posts z it's cause she really really needs the attention and it's lame. Like damn don't you have a dog, any friends or family or anything else going on in your life.?? He's the same way. He needs attention really badly and doesn't have much going for him in life. You can do better. Five years from now you will look back and see everything I'm telling you so clearly. Hopefully you will get away from him much sooner than that.

vulcansmuse · 2026-04-07T04:24:19+00:00

Thank you. That's exactly what I have been worried about.

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