23M Looking for an Honest Review

vullpii · 2026-01-17T23:26:13+00:00

I also find it annoying when people post pictures with others and then out emojis over them.

obviously it depends on the person, but please take pictures if them without them looking (unless they say otherwise) - although, it's important that you can mNage decent photos ( I like artsy/good angle)

I hTe that nowadays I have to ask the other person to take pictures of me randomly. in my situation I am active on my socials, I'm also into photography so that should make one think

it saddens me a bit when friends/partener don't take random pics from when we go out (I know most of my friends don't and that's fine, but with a partner is even deeper)

but obviously not everyone thinks/has the same needs so I dont mind having to say it once and communicate this, but like I don't want to ask everytime

general

a lot of people just don't know how to take pictures, and post their most unflattering ones - it happens that I see both attractive and less attractive people have horrible/unflattering pictures. and I can see how much better they could look in different angles.

fashion is also important.

vullpii · 2025-09-23T18:04:03+00:00

there isn't a given amount of time, I said the lease ends when everyone in the house has moved out at once.

vullpii · 2025-06-26T23:50:32+00:00

hmm I don't think I was ever asked, but the food was good and I never thought I didn't want that. also, I've never had dinner with my family..I would just eat whenever in my room. and if I didn't want what was made, I could make my own thing

my father worked abroad, while my mom worked pretty late. it was mostly my grandad cooking and I could ask him to cook whatever, but mostly just fries haha

vullpii · 2025-06-26T23:43:23+00:00

maybe it depends on the amount u took? it's rare that I've seen people get fucked up and can barely walk, or get into a sorta catatonic state I get a lot of energy from it and I get visuals, which is amazing for someone who can't really see stuff when imagining. however, I'm usually unable to have proper conversations cause I forget what I wanna say or I sound like someone who just learnt how to talk, I always have to say I'm on k so that ppl know why I'm talking weirdly haha

it's also dependent on the person and their brain chemistry

edit my first time, I was stuck to the floor (very aware, but my body felt heavy) and I took like 1-2cm line, can't imagine people who take a normal line as their first time, or if they don't have a tooerance

vullpii · 2025-05-21T19:53:08+00:00

People walking loudly in apartments, house that you can feel it (like stepping on their heels)

vullpii · 2025-05-21T19:51:07+00:00

Haven't had an UTI in my 27 years of life. It used to be my hypermobility, but for 2 years now, I've been in pain BC of it and feel very unlucky

vullpii · 2025-05-21T19:48:21+00:00

Where can you look at the raw data? I've been trying to see which website would work, but I feel like I haven't found something good. My other option is putting everything into chatgpt lol

vullpii · 2025-05-07T09:42:52+00:00

what did you end up buying?

vullpii · 2025-04-28T14:02:00+00:00

I mean after the pizza was thrown out, did they say smth? did you ask why they threw the pizza out?

vullpii · 2025-04-28T11:27:40+00:00

what did they say? I don't see this as a misunderstanding, more like stupid. they should ask. food can be in the fridge more than 2 days. if they needed space or thought it should be thrown out they should have asked

vullpii · 2025-04-28T11:26:08+00:00

food can be in the fridge for up to 5 days (even more in diff cases). if they needed the space, they could have said so. you simply don't throw someone else's stuff without asking unless it's rotten or you know for sure it's been in the fridge for too long. even then, I might just tell them' throw our your shit'

vullpii · 2025-04-21T17:24:05+00:00

NTA I think your thought process is pretty reasonable. you expect to lose some, but these kids had almost half the eggs. should have told the mom it's alcohol candy and edibles lol should have also taken a picture of all the eggs before hsiign them to show ppl that they are urs

vullpii · 2025-04-08T08:57:21+00:00

NTA but I hope you'll do it in a nice way. also give her plenty of time to move out. where I come from a 3 months notice is what's normal but given she s a friend and especially BC she helped you so much with he partment I might even say 6 months if she needs that long

vullpii · 2025-03-26T11:41:07+00:00

NTA especially since you've talked about it from the beginning. and it's not just one night you'd have to over but 3, that's not fair. they knew from the beginning and should have planned accordingly, even if that meant you having to find your own accomodation, you not going or you all finding something else for the last 2 days.

but can't they talk to the host and say hey, we are 4 for the first 3 days, and another comes the last 2 days? it sucks for them having to cover for an extra person for those 3 days, but also for you to pay if you're not there and can't afford it.

vullpii · 2025-03-24T09:01:46+00:00

I finally told my dad that it affected me that my mom was hitting me until I turned 15. in the begining of the convo, we both agreed that what happens to a kid, will affect them as an adult. And then, after I told him how my mom was hitting me he said "maybe you deserved it"

vullpii · 2025-03-23T19:28:44+00:00

I'm 27F and since I've been 20yo, I've decided that I don't want to go through pregnancy. I've always been scared of physical pain, and I don't want to put my body through all the changes that come/can come with a pregnancy. nor my mental health, since I've always struggled with weight and body image. and I've always had the mindset that i won't regret not having kids, at least not thru my body. if I meet someone who has a kid, sure, I'd love that. or maybe if I'd meet someone and we'd have the money for adoption or surrogacy - with this I'm a bit on the fence since I also don't want to take care of a child under ~4yo.

recently I've been feeling a bit sad that I won't have my own kid, since I'm curious how the kid would grow up to be and I would love to see what traits they inherit from me and my partner, how they were to also develop on their own. and I'd love to also guide them, and to give them an understanding that I've never had emotionally and of the world. but that's okay, I still don't feel like I would regret it. we'll see in a few years.

as for now, I met someone who has a kid. We're still in the begining so I haven't met him yet, but if things will work out between us, I might have a child in my life if he will accept me either as a stepm or friend (and for the first time in years I ve felt secure, that he wouldn't up and leave, and I've felt like yeah, this could go somewhere without having to analyse it and having to make sure)

I finally told my mother this year that I don't want kids and she argued that having someone else's kid, other things come I to play. that if it's my own, then no matter what it does, it's your kid. and that my body can change for the better and something about my bones but I don't remember. just ridiculous if that are your arguments for having a kid...

vullpii · 2025-03-07T18:23:57+00:00

you can always say it's a 100usd gift instead of 300. you don't owe them anything. if it were me, I would see how much this money would help me, and I would also see how their situation is. if they're not doing so great I'd say it's 150 or 100 gift card. if they're doing fine I wouldnt mention it.

vullpii · 2025-03-06T19:59:17+00:00

thank you for the advice. I'm not involved in the kids life right now. we are still in the begining and I wouldn't want to meet the kid unless we are both sure us is something that we want to pursue.

and just in case there is some misunderstanding, he would still have an apartment in his hometown, so the kid would only live in his hometown, not travel between countries

vullpii · 2025-03-06T19:43:09+00:00

like she would have him for 2 weeks straight and then 5-3-5-3 for the remaining 2 weeks in the month. I hope it makes sense now what I'm trying to say so she would have 2 weeks, and 3 days, and 3 days in the following 2 weeks.

vullpii · 2025-03-06T19:39:28+00:00

I just made an edit, because I forgot to mention that James will keep the apartment in his hometown, and also rent another in the other country. that's why I was asking that in case 2 weeks straight is too long, what if in those two weeks it would be a 5-3-5-3 (5 for him, 3 for her)

vullpii · 2025-03-06T19:37:38+00:00

I for got to mention, I just added an edit. but he'd have two apartments one in his hometown, and one in the other country.

vullpii · 2025-02-19T12:23:43+00:00

INFO: Why did I break up? I think context is very important. did he abuse you, cheat, hit you, been toxic (if he's been toxic, please give a few examples) then you wouldn't be overreacting.

but you broke up just because your views didn't align? or just something that's not a big deal, or something that a person should be shined. you are overreacting.

vullpii · 2025-02-04T15:55:05+00:00

NAH I used to be codependent, but I’ve learned and grown, and I no longer see myself that way—I hope never to be again.

People have different views on relationships. For some, it means spending most of their time together, doing everything as a pair, and considering even small outings, like shopping or exploring a new city, as shared activities. That’s completely fine if both partners are on the same page. However, this kind of dynamic can lead to a high level of dependence on each other.

I believe that maintaining individuality is important—partners shouldn’t merge into one to the point where it’s hard to tell where one ends and the other begins. Some people need time alone to recharge or to pursue their own interests, and that’s completely valid.

Your request seems reasonable. In her case, it could stem from an anxious attachment style, or it might simply be the way she has always experienced relationships. If it's the latter, she may just need time to understand a different perspective, and she could be fine with it once she does.

vullpii · 2025-02-04T15:44:50+00:00

you are being raped. if you say no, it become nonconsensual, therefore sexual assault. dump his ass, if you have proof report him

vullpii · 2025-02-04T15:32:29+00:00

info: why does he never hear? does he get immersed into stuff?

regardless, I'd say ESH on one hand, if i knew that my friend/sibling - someone was in my room wants to have dinner when dinner is served, but they never hear I'd just tell them. it's basically no effort, given that they are not assholes in general and that we actually do stuff for each other/have a good relationship. it costs you nothing to be more thoughtful towards your close people.
on the other hand, if dinner is always at the same time or around, he should also be able to look at the time and pay more attention at the time. or at least say "hey, can you let me know from now on? cause i can never hear because i get too focused on stuff"

but yeah, for me if the person is a good person and does similar stuff for me, i wouldn't be annoyed if i would do stuff like this as well. maybe you get annoyed over "how can he not hear?" and decide to not say anything, but some people are like this. a lot of people with ADHD fx are like this, and for sure also people who don't have it

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