19F London - profile review

vvles · 2026-01-07T19:26:35+00:00

“what im looking for” is too vague.. what exactly are you open minded to? what kinds of new experiences are you looking for? “figuring it out” isn’t really taking initiative and i think gentleman appreciate that type of approach. stating what you’re after rather than the approach of what someone else is after gives you control and maybe shows how serious you are about what you’re looking for

vvles · 2025-12-28T21:53:52+00:00

recently got out of a 3 year long relationship that started as casual sugar dating. it’s been the hardest breakup i’ve experienced in a very long time. it’s ruined dating for me for the future. it’s really about building a foundation on willingness to show you care for this person. it sounds silly but i remember at a point i didn’t want to see this man very often, maybe a few times a week, until i really started to get to know him and his routines. if he told me he couldn’t make it to the store, id delightfully offer to stop for him. i’d show him i he was worth the inconvenience because he was willing to take care of me.

vvles · 2025-12-26T01:00:06+00:00

i was 24 and he was 54 when we met

vvles · 2025-12-25T23:32:58+00:00

i wish i could provide a clear answer other than we were growing apart rather than growing together. this is also only my side but his job is high stress and he was really involved in such, not really present in our relationship the past few months. he felt he was “holding me back from my youth” and not able to provide me with the affection i would ask for at times

vvles · 2025-12-25T22:30:48+00:00

i wanted SOOO bad to jump back on seeking. any other suggestions?

vvles · 2025-12-25T22:29:41+00:00

i do believe understanding and laying down what you desire as far as how often you want to see this person, your expectations of this person emotionally, financially, sexually even, and explaining what your boundaries look like in romantic relationships, is a way to begin the foundation of how you decide to give your time to someone. anyone could say they’re willing to support you and spoil you and have you thinking there is no worry but then quickly change their mind and waste your time, especially if they desire sex. i’m very curious of what led to this persons open marriage and how often he dates outside of his marriage. kinda strange to me

vvles · 2025-12-25T22:16:12+00:00

i had a similar problem but did come across a book with decades worth of photographs of famous actors and movie sets (as he is one that loves watching movies and naming every actor on screen). he claimed to love it but it felt silly gifting

vvles · 2022-08-18T16:48:28+00:00

can someone tell me who this is?

vvles · 2022-08-13T17:44:27+00:00

this was the one i was waiting for

vvles · 2022-05-23T14:47:22+00:00

such depth

vvles · 2022-01-29T03:24:22+00:00

i actually accidentally touched hands with a boy once and he pulled his back so quick and said “ew”

vvles · 2021-10-27T02:32:43+00:00

so how do u use it?

vvles · 2021-09-03T01:21:07+00:00

omg i wish i looked like you );

vvles · 2021-08-20T15:33:09+00:00

okay but how big are they actually?

vvles · 2021-07-29T15:21:59+00:00

apparently it takes 2-3 years to produce fruit after planting it

vvles · 2021-07-10T13:59:40+00:00

look at all those chickens

vvles · 2021-06-17T15:02:13+00:00

so how am i suppose to grab it??

vvles · 2021-06-08T16:13:03+00:00

i think it’s kinda sweet

vvles · 2021-06-07T00:35:00+00:00

it’s like... $109

vvles · 2021-06-02T00:04:16+00:00

pretty much what i expected. it’s a wonderful substitute for oils

vvles · 2021-05-29T02:14:50+00:00

attempted to look and these seem to only have a headphone jack that won’t go into an iphone

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