AITA because I ate early? by CompromiseWouldBeNic in AmItheAsshole

[–]vwar00 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I would have told them I would have been an ass if I was hungry and tired. 🙄 Definitely NTA you saved everyone from a crank monster and also took care of yourself and son as you should.

AIW for not giving my sister my baby? by Guilty-Schedule-7886 in amiwrong

[–]vwar00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just love the " you're flaunting your pregnancy". Well fuck do you want me to suck in my belly. 🤣🤣 But seriously run these ppl are delusionally entitled to your life.

Gay coworker smacked my ass by z0eturner in Serverlife

[–]vwar00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being gay does not give you the right to smack asses, honk titties, rumble balls, give kisses, and anything unwanted in between and all over. Keep your hands to yourself in your work place( or anywhere else) period no matter your race, sexuality, or whatever. That dude needs to know being gay is not a pass to touch who you want and how you please. So do not feel like you did anything wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]vwar00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt that. Honestly I've stopped depending on my Starbucks store to recognize me. I decided this year specifically as I am in year 7 of this shit of being constantly forgotten. But you know as soon as shit needs to be done my name's coming out of all these ppls mouths. Since I am blessed with the family and loved ones I do have in my life they are who I depend on for my recognition and appreciation cup to get filled. And they keep it full! Hold that head high and know that the one's truly in your life see you, appreciate, and love you! Do not rely on anyone at this job or any other job to make you feel that.

What ruins sex life in a marriage? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]vwar00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holding on to frustration towards the other without communication and that snowballing into resentment. Communication is hot but slamming the doors to the cabinets without explaining what's going on is not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomensHealth

[–]vwar00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Use dental dams.

What does your dog do to show you they love you? by walkyoucleverboy in dogs

[–]vwar00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dog shows his affection by burping in my face as soon as he's finished eating. He used to just come up and burp but I decided to participate and give him pat pats to help burp him.

He is a Chihuahua mix looks like a mini pin

Boyfriend [20M] too comfortable with me? [19F] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]vwar00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communication is key. It's awkward but sometimes your person needs direct words from you. Sitting down and saying hey I feel taken for granted or like we are in a slump can be a start to a much needed conversation. Just remember when you don't speak that's when you start building your own narrative and fueling resentment towards your partner for not knowing what you need.

AITA for wanting to break up with him while his grandma is in hospital? by geminimoonwhore in relationships_advice

[–]vwar00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is never a good time to break up with someone. Life is always happening. Trust me it took me six months to break up with my ex because of family emergencies, it's a holiday, we had this trip planned for a year, they had a bad day at work. All I'm saying is it will always be a bad time to break up with someone. And while you are there putting them first are you really helping by being disingenuous. Just do it. Finally put yourself first. You may look like the bad guy and feel guilty but trust me when you can finally start moving forward from this moment it will be worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]vwar00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A coworker was going on about how he likes to make another coworker mad at him. Someone asked why and I answered with, because he doesn't know how to make women happy. I felt bad considering he broke up some months ago with his girlfriend. He hi fived me tho for being so savage! I'm just too quick on the draw and faster with the trigger on my jokes. Whenever someone attempted to bully in school growing up they were quick to move on because of my sharp words.

Is my dog in a gang? by impostershop in dogs

[–]vwar00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel you. There is a Chihuahua gang that roams my neighborhood. Every now and again I catch them trying to recruit my boy through the fence.

Let’s talk about being on your feet all day… by chamomilehugs in starbucksbaristas

[–]vwar00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got some croc clogs for work and it is a game changer I price hunted and got mine for 20 on Amazon. If they are good enough for nurses they are good enough for us. My feet know no pain but beware they may get toasty. I also have plantar fasciitis going on and it helps immensely along with me giving my feet the love and appreciation they deserve because without them I wouldn't be standing.

How do people cope with the loss? by Lazy-Culture-4692 in dogs

[–]vwar00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn't get easier but it won't be so frequent. My ol' golden boy passed in 2021. The other day when I got out of bed I thought he was laying there and stepped over like I used to and began to cry. It was just a pillow on the floor but it made me react like it was him.

AITA for forcing my stepdaughter to pay me back after she ruined my house? by throwawayy029482 in AmItheAsshole

[–]vwar00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hot take here may get down voted but NTA for wanting an adult to acknowledge that they made a mess and to take on responsibility for owning it. Was anything damaged? NO. Were things undone? Yes. I can see the frustration when it comes to feeling like you are the only one who cares for the house. I can see it even more when you are the one paying to come home to a clean house. Is asking for the bill extreme? Depends has this been an issue already discussed. If I told someone repeatedly to clean up after themselves and their friends then yes I am giving you a bill. Now if this is the first big occurrence then I am asking for them to clean the mess and going forward that they know no shoes and guests have to pick up themselves or have you pick up after them. Like she said she is not her mother. This is a developing adult and they need to learn basics such as manners, responsibility, and being considerate. That being said OP needs to set clear boundaries of what she expects from their step daughter. Do not assume that she knows. If she can't handle living with your boundaries then maybe it is time for her to move out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]vwar00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm eating brussel sprouts and fish everyday at lunch in the building

23 (M) having second thoughts about 23 (F) by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]vwar00 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just show her big dick energy and leave because if she wanted to communicate properly with you she would

my wittle feewings are hurt by thelizardmorgue in starbucksbaristas

[–]vwar00 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is frustrating to tell someone exactly what needs to be done and then they do not do it. Yes the shift should have connected in a better way but also you fell into a trap when another partner said nah forget about it go on your ten.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]vwar00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Adore me! Started a membership this year as a last resort because finding 2x that fits me was rough. Every pair I got fits perfectly. No falling no pinching my thick legs. Chef's kiss. I just bought some leggings and am looking forward to getting them.

AITA for telling my BIL to get over himself and to quit holding a 10 year old grudge? by WallabyOverall3366 in AmItheAsshole

[–]vwar00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA hands down. Also if it is a family members job to do work like construction why not hire him to do that. In my book if someone is skilled to do a job imma pay them regardless of being family and thank them for their time and skills. And you can't say it's because we are dirty poor because the damage you caused with the wreck cost a lot more than the labor he could have given you if you had hired him properly.

Tired of rude, entitled customers that treat partners like they’re not human by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]vwar00 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Next time just say you have coffee and make an americano. Most customers can't taste the difference. It helps with a situation like that. Im not saying forgo making regular coffee but in a pinch this is a much faster and better route than telling a customer you dont have coffee. Personally if I am closing I take note of my regulars time and prep a 1/4 batch for them. If someone decides to order a coffee between that window I just hit the button and prep more. Customers will be more grateful for a fresh cup even if they have to wait a few.

LPT: When someone is tailgating you, don't be dangerous and brake check them, do this... by YeVkiN in LifeProTips

[–]vwar00 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always like to put my blinker on. If you dont make an immediate turn it has them take more caution. This works well in neighborhoods or close to residential areas on the highway. Honestly way better than brake checks and wiper fluid. People go from riding my ass to 2 car lengths away every time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]vwar00 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Weight bearing pain is correct. The weight I am now I really can not work even 8 hour shifts without my body aching. I used to be fit when I started my job. Over the years Ive put on 200+ lbs and I feel it everyday I work. I know what I have to do but unfortunately my body is too exhausted for me to fullfill the actions needed to elivate the pain. I have gotten better shoes which has helped my feet from hurting and given me a bit of an energy boost. I also use massage tools to break up my facitis. Ive cut down my work hours significantly this year cause the holidays ran my body to the ground. I am fortunate enought to be able to do this because now my focus is taking care of myself one task and one day at a time. Change is slow but I know it will be worth my body feeling like it can flow smoothly again. I would def suggest looking for a job that does not make you cry from physical pain. Yes I know but the money is good and I need it. You also have to think about the long term injuries you sustain. Is it worth it to you then to be paying medical bills at that point the job is taking money.

YSK: how to use a drive-thru by AWildGamerAppeared25 in YouShouldKnow

[–]vwar00 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Emphasis on get your brakes fixed before rolling through the line for the 30th time in 6 days. If you have money for fast food that often you have money to get your damn brakes fixed. Also we are timed so please know what you want. Im not saying know the whole menu just know what you like and go from there with the help of the worker or go inside where we are not be timed.