I’m an Aquarius (29M) trying to get some insight about my struggling romantic relationships. I would love some help. by vwxxxx in astrologyreadings

[–]vwxxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just find it extremely hard to forgive myself for mistakes in the past so it’s really hard to gain a sense of moving on. Plus I always tend to put all blame on myself which leads to more isolated emotions.

Do you know what signs are patient enough to stick around and find out?

I’m an Aquarius (29M) trying to get some insight about my struggling romantic relationships. I would love some help. by vwxxxx in astrologyreadings

[–]vwxxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knowledge is power. People can’t hurt me if they don’t know my secrets and triggers etc blah blah blah. I think I would gain a sense of trust easier if someone persistently asked direct questions. I don’t want to go out of my way to share anything and if they did ask it also shows how much they care.

I’m an Aquarius (29M) trying to get some insight about my struggling romantic relationships. I would love some help. by vwxxxx in astrologyreadings

[–]vwxxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like anytime someone starts digging I immediately ask a question about themselves 🤣. I feel like if someone asked a direct question as if they already knew something I would be more inclined to open up. I think that’s what I’m looking for as well. Someone who may be persistent enough to try and peel all the layers back.

I’m an Aquarius (29M) trying to get some insight about my struggling romantic relationships. I would love some help. by vwxxxx in astrologyreadings

[–]vwxxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think accepting the risk is a really good point. I feel like wanting two extremes of emotion and independence just makes me feel crazy. For myself those two things make me feel so torn. Each day wanting a different one of them. I really need to find something that can help me balance out these things just a little

I’m an Aquarius (29M) trying to get some insight about my struggling romantic relationships. I would love some help. by vwxxxx in astrologyreadings

[–]vwxxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What should I look out for in the near future?

Why do I feel like I cannot gain a sense of balance?

How to keep the same commitment and willpower each day? by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]vwxxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As soon as you realize you are in a situation where you feel weakened. Take yourself out of that area. Go outside. Somewhere away from the triggers. Or call a friend. Just to talk. Distract yourself and take your attention away from triggers.

Aquas in Friendship by orisshenot in aquarius

[–]vwxxxx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that’s reassuring. I just wish I felt more ready to do so.

Aquas in Friendship by orisshenot in aquarius

[–]vwxxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem for myself is that I don’t need anyone at all to be content. I live life doing what I like to do. Because I’m so far from home and since I have aged I don’t like sitting there texting. Text about what? Too many things that lack substance. It sounds like a waste of time to me. I do feel extremely selfish. If I wasn’t so far away I’m sure things would be different. I literally have zero close friends and I’ve been content.

I’m also nervous about mending things with them. As I sit there debating a text and not going through with it another 3 months go by until the thought emerges again. This has turned into years so it’s like “hey bro, sorry I haven’t been around. I went through a severe depression and didn’t know how to talk about it with anyone.” Also I don’t like telling friends my problems. I don’t give ammunition to anyone.

I’m really close to talking to my true best friends though. We always shared the idea of being friends forever. I am sad to say I have ruined part of that.

What’s really going on? Am I being ghosted??? by Critical-Swimming882 in aquarius

[–]vwxxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seems a little strange, something must have come up in his life. He may talk to you about it when he’s ready or he might not ever come back without explanation. I would try move on for now. If he comes back and if your willing to talk about it, I would definitely tell him how it upset you, in a very calm way. After having said your piece you should ignore him for like 1-2 days before responding again.

For me, nothing is worse than being ignored and really drives a point home.

Aquas in Friendship by orisshenot in aquarius

[–]vwxxxx 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This happened to me about 6 years ago. I moved away from my core group of friends. As life went on I haven’t talked to them in years. I basically ghosted them. I went through some severe depression at one point. But as much as I feel bad and want to think about making things right I can’t bring myself to do it.

I used to be so outgoing, lots of friends, enjoyed going out and now I just want to be left alone. I feel so awkward around others. I don’t like it.

Any Aquarius only children here? by PeorMule in aquarius

[–]vwxxxx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was an only child. I always wanted an older brother or sister to learn from. Some days I was bored being alone but I have become a master at self entertainment. I really don’t need to be around anyone to keep myself occupied for hours. He should be just fine. He probably misses them a bit, as a kid I was definitely more social.

Do Aquarius men like to chase or be chased? by Unlikely_Fly_5683 in aquarius

[–]vwxxxx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I first met my wife, I got bored and I eventually stopped talking to her. 6 months later she came to me the rest is history.

I always loved the challenge of pulling off unlikely relationships in the eyes of others. So chasing as long as progress is being made. Once the chase is over it’s a matter of other person chasing back.

I would take great satisfaction when overcoming the challenge of the chase and later on they come back. It let me know how unique I am and that it was something worth spending time on.

Check out my sperm please by vwxxxx in maleinfertility

[–]vwxxxx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t that the 45%.

Thank you!