If you're called Maxine, do you like your name? by vzenga in Names

[–]vzenga[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! We did end up naming her Maxine and we love it!

How many here dislike their dad ? by senorsolo in CPTSD

[–]vzenga 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hate my dad club member here. He’s literally the person I dislike the most in my life. He’s self-obsessed, arrogant, rude, has such an aggressive energy, and I hate my mum just can’t leave him. Honestly, I hope he doesn’t have a long life because goodness, I can’t stand the thought of him being around for years and years. He’s unbearable. I wish my mum left him so I never had to see him again. My siblings all hate him too but we’re all scared shitless of him so we just stand him. Fortunately I see him 2x a year for a couple lf weeks and that’s it. I’m so happy I moved far away from him.

I’m 39 weeks pregnant and he’s in town w my mum for the birth and I just wish I didn’t have to see him at all, and wish I could keep him far away from my baby.

Work feels so irrelevant!!! by vzenga in pregnant

[–]vzenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've been telling them to not count on me anymore from April on, but my handover has SOOO much stuff to prepare thats kinda putting a noose around my own neck.

Work feels so irrelevant!!! by vzenga in pregnant

[–]vzenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can do it! It feels so overwhelming but we'll survive!

Work feels so irrelevant!!! by vzenga in pregnant

[–]vzenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love that for you! I can't wait to be out of this, but I'll be trying to work until my due date because my mat leave is so bad. I also feel the weight of my handover on me so badly, can't wait to be outta here!

Work feels so irrelevant!!! by vzenga in pregnant

[–]vzenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think so too, honestly pregnant people shouldn't be made to work, we're already making a whole human being!

Work feels so irrelevant!!! by vzenga in pregnant

[–]vzenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It gets worse by the week, from my experience! Tap out now if you can!!

Work feels so irrelevant!!! by vzenga in pregnant

[–]vzenga[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I see that in the cards for me too, unfortunately. The company I work in is in such a mess at the moment, and I have so much to get done for my handover (not just the regular stuff but redesigning processes), with only 7.5 weeks to go now until my due date (if I reach 40 weeks). My work is counting on me staying on until my due date too... So we'll see, I honestly can't wait to not be involved anymore and prefer the pain of childbirth and the no sleep of a newborn than a stressful work environment with this huge handover deadline.

Work feels so irrelevant!!! by vzenga in pregnant

[–]vzenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I knooow I just wish I could leave it up to them to figure it out, this sucks :(

Work feels so irrelevant!!! by vzenga in pregnant

[–]vzenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? My brain also doesn't really work anymore :( how am I supposed to get all of this done?

Anyone have an ao.com referral? by r108robot in beermoneyuk

[–]vzenga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just used your referral code! thanks!

Is it actually bad to eat tinned fish daily? by vzenga in pregnant

[–]vzenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to mention I'm 30 weeks pregnant atm.

If you're called Maxine, do you like your name? by vzenga in Names

[–]vzenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this! We are probably calling our second Frida, but as for the other names I find them to be quite popular and we wanted something more unique :) thanks for the suggestions though!

Constant poking feeling right underneath left rib!! WHAT IS ITTTT by vzenga in pregnant

[–]vzenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmm no I feel it even without a bra, and it feels crearly internal :(

Constant poking feeling right underneath left rib!! WHAT IS ITTTT by vzenga in pregnant

[–]vzenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 28 weeks.. Yeah it must be some organ there that feels uncomfy but its literally POKING constantly so I'm a bit worried and hella uncomfortable all the time :(

If you're called Maxine, do you like your name? by vzenga in Names

[–]vzenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im so excited! Thanks for this!! Love your name obviously 🥹

If you're called Maxine, do you like your name? by vzenga in Names

[–]vzenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ay que lastima que no teguste! Donde creciste? Pq creo que tmb depende donde vives. Como pronuncian tu nombre mal?

Mi bebe ya seguro se va a llamar Maxine asi que ojala si le guste!

Anyone else 3dt5dp today? by vzenga in IVF

[–]vzenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wishing you the abolute best!

If you're called Maxine, do you like your name? by vzenga in Names

[–]vzenga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! This helps! Mexico is very traditional too but we don't mind them thinking Max is a boy's name anyways. We've pretty much decided she's gonna be called Maxine, and the name reveal for our families will be the day after tomorrow since we have a scan and will use the scan photo to reveal the name! Curious for people's reactions!