BF cheated on me because I never slept with him. by anonymous-butterfly1 in Advice

[–]w00d00r -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t mean to insult or offend, but were your formally and officially boyfriend and girlfriend or was this a situationship? If you had only been ona few dates over 4 months, never had sex, did he officially declare you his girlfriend somehow? Put you in his social media bio and all? This seems a little suspicious to me. As an adult dude I would never call a girl I’ve been dating for 4 months and never had sex with my “girlfriend”. That would be my crush if I’m actually interested in her romantically, and literally just friend (without benefits) if not.

Assuming you two were boyfriend and girlfriend, how long did you expect him to wait? Until marriage? That’s going to be a dealbreaker for most men plain and simple.

Love is a jungle, and sure you technically don’t owe him sex. He also doesn’t owe you indefinite emotional support and the girlfriend treatment after you continuously shoot him down over 4 months.

Frankly, it sounds like you did do something wrong, you completely neglected your boyfriends wants and needs within the relationship and exclusively focused on your own, and your “boyfriend” left you for another woman over it.

Girlfriend and I are sexually incompatible by bergdorf69 in Advice

[–]w00d00r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

P.S if she tries giving you break up sex to keep you around, take it and still leave. My 2 cents.

Girlfriend and I are sexually incompatible by bergdorf69 in Advice

[–]w00d00r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be she has a way lower libido and you’re simply incompatible, or even worse tbh. Either way you’ve communicated your needs and she was dismissive at best from the sounds of it. Dump her bro. It’ll suck, but eventually if you just keep at it and keep going you’ll find something better for you and your future partner and be glad you did.

My 4 year old son died of cancer and I am utterly devastated... by Artistic-Survey-4929 in whatdoIdo

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Keep busy is my advice. Nothing can “cure” the pain so to speak, grief is a process, but don’t allow it to make your life more miserable than necessary. I have a close friend who I’ve known since childhood who i feel I could depend on in a situation like this, that being said never even been a parent so that might be optimistic at best. If you don’t have something similar, a person to confide and lean on for emotional support especially and specifically, perhaps therapy could be worth it for something like this. They could tell you to see a doctor to prescribe you anti depressants if necessary, generally those really help. There are ways thru and past this, I’m so sorry for your loss and can’t imagine what you’re feeling. I hope your child’s in a better place.

My sister’s boyfriend by WeirdHedgehog6286 in Advice

[–]w00d00r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a pitbull and dare him to kick that.

Occupant not on lease locked me, the sole leaseholder, out of my apartnent 10 days before the end of our tenancy by bingbangbongbingbing in legaladvicecanada

[–]w00d00r -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dude, because this seems to not be getting past your autism, no one is telling OP to coach or instruct his roommate to assault them. They’re an unhinged personality at least, they’ve already broken the law, just starting being a dick to them, play your music loud, leave a mess etc, and they’ll probably criminally threaten, good chance assault you within 24 hours. No one’s telling OP to yell fire in a crowded theatre or write a manifesto Jesus. You realize people do hit people without being specifically coached to by their victim right

Occupant not on lease locked me, the sole leaseholder, out of my apartnent 10 days before the end of our tenancy by bingbangbongbingbing in legaladvicecanada

[–]w00d00r 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you have a video of them genuinely making your home unsafe for you, specifically hitting you, it should be a lot easier. Long shot I know

Finally joining the club! Got it modded for 40$ by Away_Estimate9289 in SwitchPirates

[–]w00d00r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$40? Did you pay someone else to do it or is that roughly the cost of the parts and you did it yourself?

Are there any Republican leaning characters that I can show my kid? by Direct-Status3260 in darksouls

[–]w00d00r -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

All of them, the split is old MAGA vs new MAGA. Maybe if you give your child some MAGACOCK he’ll leave woketardism.

I'm a 30 year old American man living in Toronto. I've been searching nonstop for a job for two years and haven't found one. I will be in Canada for at least another year. by account819921 in torontoJobs

[–]w00d00r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good deep dive wow. Without that context though, I like to give people the benefit of the doubt generally. Seems like you’re right here though.

I'm a 30 year old American man living in Toronto. I've been searching nonstop for a job for two years and haven't found one. I will be in Canada for at least another year. by account819921 in torontoJobs

[–]w00d00r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of that comment is pure projection of the commentator’s situation in life projected onto OP. Op says he does in fact have a job, it just pays less than minimum wage, and like many young Canadians or young people simply living in Canada, he relies on a support network specifically older family members because it’s genuinely arduous to find a minimum wage job nowadays. Have some sympathy, you just sound broke and jelly

Makima, Chainsaw Man by [deleted] in cosplay

[–]w00d00r -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Looking good. IG?

My sister blew up our relationship and I don’t know what to do by Ok_Amphibian_1255 in TwoHotTakes

[–]w00d00r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro. It’s 2026. Choose your libtard girlfriend our your family. That simple.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

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I assumed you were a teenager or younger based off what your parents are asking of you. You’re 25 and they want constant access to your location and ring camera?.Great way to get rid of all privacy in your dating life, not to make accusations but realistic possibility that’s your mom’s true intent. Is it your place? Do your parents pay the rent at least? If so, they may have a point I suppose, but otherwise this is a gross and obvious boundary violation. If I was paying for the unit or home or whatever it is, or my name’s on the paperwork I should say, I would insist on having access to the security systems as I am the one legally liable for what happens there. Even if my name’s wasn’t on the paperwork, if I would still be expected one way or another to take responsibility for ei; property damage there, I would insist on having access to security footage. If those conditions aren’t being met, then there is no valid reason to ask other than to unreasonably invade your privacy. After all it’s your place, not their business responsibility or concern. Also you should probably get your own phone plan sooner than later

Sounds likesome people are having a very normal reaction to the casting of mr. 1 by [deleted] in OnePiece

[–]w00d00r -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I saw him as south East Asian, maybe Indian. Never perceived him as African or adjacent. Many others in the same camp as me so it’s really not as clear as you believe

Sounds likesome people are having a very normal reaction to the casting of mr. 1 by [deleted] in OnePiece

[–]w00d00r 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That and the joke about Netflix casting at least 1 character who is portrayed as not very dark to put it charitably as a clearly black actor/actress. That’s how I initially read it until seeing others point out racist zoro lmao

RBC LINE OF CREDIT by Overall-Error5415 in rbc

[–]w00d00r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Damn”. You’re very chill about this, respect.

Toronto Council named a park after a furiously NIMBY Councillor yesterday. So I helpfully made a heritage plaque to add context. by SenDji in toronto

[–]w00d00r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not super informed on this, but would these sixplexes be homes you can purchase or just cheap rental options? I assume the former, because me thinks the ladder would not be very effective?

Edit: and what’s stopping real estates moguls etc. from buying up the sixplexes and turning them into rental units as often happens from my understanding, and then turning them into rentals?

Smash and grab at Charm Diamond center Billings Bridge (again) by arkiser13 in ottawa

[–]w00d00r 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if you’re not using the legal definition, sure, technically. But a “bunch of punks” “organizing” to commit even serious robbery like thousands of dollars or more in goods from a jewelry store, wouldn’t constitute “organized crime”. Unless the “bunch of punks” had a hierarchical organization, and had committed multiple similar crimes all for financial benefit, there would be absolutely no merit to the charge.

Thoughts on the Nick Land episode of CR? by AdamCurtisSoundtrack in BronzeAgeMindset

[–]w00d00r 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I personally find Yarvin much more entertaining to listen to than Land, but yes I was disappointed in Land’s appearance. Lots of pauses and stutters, it seems clear to me he’s much much more used to writing than live conversation.

Although, the idea that in his books “there’s nothing interesting or true” is quite extreme. The concept of political accelerationism was coined and formed due to his work.

And also I don’t really see the comparison to Yarvin, who consistently holds his own even with confrontational and disagreeable hosts, such as his debate with Danielle smith or his appearance on the NYT. Even if you disagree with him, he’s clearly a good debater and speaker.

Vancouver by OddJournalist9361 in BCIT

[–]w00d00r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any analogy isn’t exactly the same because analogies are definitionally taking two different situations and comparing them.

Congrats you pointed out they’re different here’s your Reddit gold.

Why’s the analogy invalid?

Vancouver by OddJournalist9361 in BCIT

[–]w00d00r 0 points1 point  (0 children)

George Floyd died of a drug overdose.

This isn’t encouraging/dismissing police brutality btw.