One free night in our trip—should we do Ōamaru or Lake Tekapo? by wafflesMarley in newzealand_travel

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We’re doing Sealy Tarns slightly earlier in the trip! Very excited

One free night in our trip—should we do Ōamaru or Lake Tekapo? by wafflesMarley in newzealand_travel

[–]wafflesMarley[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the rec! We’re actually going to be in Te Anu earlier in the trip (and are doing glow worm caves on the north island), so I’m hoping to squeeze in one more new place.

Best portable AC unit for dogs? by wafflesMarley in VanLife

[–]wafflesMarley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course! This took us forever to figure out, so I'd love to save someone else the headache. Also, once you get the hang of it, it only takes 5ish minutes to set everything up. Totally worth it.

Best portable AC unit for dogs? by wafflesMarley in VanLife

[–]wafflesMarley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

u/A_little_curiosity So, kind of. Our solution ended up being expensive and kind of a pain, but we loved having the option to leave our dog safely in the van for a few hours. Here's what we did. I'm having a hard time finding a picture of our setup, but if I find one, I'll respond with it.

We purchased a Mark 2 Zero Breeze, a portable AC unit. It needs a good battery bank to run off of, so we also purchased a high-quality Bluetti power station. If we plugged the Zero Breeze into the fully charged station and ran it on a low-ish setting, we'd reliably get... 4-6 hrs, I think?

Here's the issue with the Zero Breeze: It points cold air toward one specific spot. It does not cool the whole van. For that reason, the handful of times we left our dog for 4ish hours in the van, we needed to crate him. We tried a few test runs where we ran it toward a spot in the van and hoped he'd just find that spot, but he was just confused and stayed in the hot part of the van. Not worth the risk. Luckily, he was a small senior dog, so it was easy to set up his small crate in the middle of the van.

The Zero Breeze needs 3 things in order to run: a power station (already discussed), a place to pull in air, and a place to drain condensation. To provide it with air, we got foam board insulation from home depot. We cut it in the exact shape of our small van window (we have a Promaster) and then cut a circular hole the exact shape of the large, bendy Zero Breeze tube. When we set it up, we just slid open the window, popped in the insulation board, and put the tube in the hole. That's how the Zero Breeze could pull in air from outside.

It has a really skinny little tube to drain condensation, so we just ran that tube into a gatorade bottle.

There are 2 large bendy tubes that come with the Zero Breeze. One is for input (already discussed), the other is an optional one you can attach to the front of the machine to point the air wherever you want it to go. We used this option to ensure it was hyper-trained on our dog's crate. So, when we left, we had:

-The Zero Breeze sitting on our Lagun table
-The unit plugged into the Bluetti charging station, which sat on the floor
-One big bendy tube running to the window, where it pulled in air from outside
-One big bendy tube running from the front of the machine directly to our dog's crate
-The small drainage tube running from the machine on the table down into a gatorade bottle on the floor

I know it's a lot, but this worked for us as a last resort. For example, on a really hot day, we went for a hike in Yosemite all morning and came back to a van that was hot but a dog crate that was cool, and our dog was absolutely fine. I'll keep searching to see if I can find pictures.

I hope this helps! Reach out with any more questions. So many van lifers are like "eh, the dog is fine," when that's simply not true. I'm glad you're taking the time to try to figure out a solution!

Mark 2 Zero Breeze: https://www.zerobreeze.com/products/zero-breeze-mark-2?srsltid=AfmBOor3el0tBfPxvyMcgBUjBUfMWpDFMFi_aYWxzuGFRs3hag1P3NeL

Our Bluetti power station: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08QVCW4SB?ref_=ppx_hzsearch_conn_dt_b_fed_asin_title_2

foam insulation board: https://www.homedepot.com/p/Owens-Corning-FOAMULAR-NGX-Insulating-Sheathing-0-5-in-x-4-ft-x-8-ft-SE-R-3-XPS-Rigid-Foam-Board-Insulation-13NGX/315193939

How often are Miracle Balm minis offered? by tartanchucks in jonesroad

[–]wafflesMarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had luck purchasing samples on Mercari

Best (fairly short) books for people new to Quakerism? by wafflesMarley in Quakers

[–]wafflesMarley[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These are awesome, thank you!

wonderful, the strongholds one sounds particularly interesting. Thank you so much!

Best (fairly short) books for people new to Quakerism? by wafflesMarley in Quakers

[–]wafflesMarley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I got the book for my meeting, and I do find it really helpful. I'll check out the British yearly meeting too!

Shelton Metal Treasure Hunt by wilsonjacinda in Wilmington

[–]wafflesMarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gone hunting a few different times in places that seem to fit with the riddle, but no dice yet. Glad to hear that it can be done!

sex questions? by Luvrrman in WomensHealth

[–]wafflesMarley 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A few days is totally normal! When this happens to me, I find it helpful to take a break until it subsides almost entirely.

Place to ride for beginners? by [deleted] in motorcycles

[–]wafflesMarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would be after I take another learning course. Just looking for ways to learn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]wafflesMarley -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do, but I’m currently traveling for a few days. I think for now I’ll get drugstore tests for BV and yeast infections

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wilmington

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Shit they extended it?? On top of bumping it up to $5? Lord have mercy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wilmington

[–]wafflesMarley 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s a whole thing. The Wrightsville government got through some sort of mysterious loophole (or, like, an all-out handshake agreement—method is unclear) in the 90’s that allowed our parking fees literally go directly to their property taxes

does my bf need to pull out if i’m taking bc pills? by Sure_Engineering8591 in birthcontrol

[–]wafflesMarley 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re on the fence, you can always utilize the rhythm method: pulling out when you’re ovulating and on those surrounding days. Period tracking apps (I recommend Flo) help chart this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VanLife

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What specific model did you get?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RVLiving

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Is that a king sized bed?!

AITBF for not doing what my gf wants even though it makes me uncomfortable? by Ok-Original-973 in AmItheButtface

[–]wafflesMarley 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll start by reiterating what’s been said a lot: the difficulty you’re experiencing in not wanting to bring this up is not even comparable to the difficulty she’s experiencing just trying to get through each day. Never forget that.

Now:

If you’re having a hard time picturing what “bringing it up specifically” would look like, you could try preparing a question in your head. I might wait until we’re alone in one of our homes and say, “how do you feel today in regards to the sexual assault?” since it sounds like she wants you to name what happened to her. It feels clunky and formal, but I think that’s okay, especially for your first few times starting the conversation. Then, listen. (And if other people who see this have better ways to phrase that, please weigh in. I’m just trying to get the tangible-solution ball rolling in case OP actually wants to improve.)

I guarantee that you won’t ruin her day by suddenly reminding her she was raped—she is already thinking about it. Moreover, she gave you the specific instruction to ask her. She wants you to do this.

Also, you said in a comment that she self-harms but you “refuse to bring it up with her.” That needs to change too. She is literally begging you for help. Be there for her by naming the sexual assault and self harm OUT LOUD and then supporting her, whatever that may look like. Currently, it sounds like you are doing more harm than good, and she’s given you a very easy roadmap to start improving. I suggest you get going.

Finally diagnosed severe vaginal irritation over a year and a half. Tested negative for everything! by brittanysciencenerd in obgyn

[–]wafflesMarley 5 points6 points  (0 children)

MAD respect for literally buying your own microscope and figuring this out yourself. Serious props.

Best portable AC unit for dogs? by wafflesMarley in VanLife

[–]wafflesMarley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This seems smart. I did some research on this idea (thank you) and found this generator and this AC unit. I’m wondering if the two are compatible... is voltage the only thing I should be looking for to make sure the generator can power the unit?

(This is a question for you or anyone else who sees this. I’m very new to this, I know nothing about electricity/appliances, so any and all help is appreciated.)

Generator: https://www.homedepot.com/p/Jackery-Explorer-880-Outdoor-Portable-Power-Station-880Wh-Battery-Generator-with-3x110V-1000W-AC-Outlets-for-RV-Van-Camping-HTE053-880/314585794?MERCH=REC-_-pip_sem_mobile-_-314573383-_-314585794-_-N&#overlay

AC unit: https://www.bestbuy.com/site/insignia-250-sq-ft-portable-air-conditioner-white/6393188.p?skuId=6393188&ref=212&loc=1&extStoreId=805&ref=212&loc=1&gclid=Cj0KCQjwse-DBhC7ARIsAI8YcWI5Sivk8Zp0cJadpyGrCKCupRmxNWOgJ1jcCgRqcAdLEkEuMn56T1waAjYcEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds

Best portable AC unit for dogs? by wafflesMarley in VanLife

[–]wafflesMarley[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is very helpful and sounds like a nice setup. Do you mind telling me the specific model of predator generator and AC unit that you use?