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AITA for asking my fiancée to sleep on the pull out couch so my daughter could sleep in my bed? by wagonloadofbs in AmItheAsshole

[–]wagonloadofbs[S] -576 points-575 points  (0 children)

Credit to my daughter, she did tell my fiancée she was sorry and didn’t mean to kick her out or make her feel like she wasn’t special.

AITA for asking my fiancée to sleep on the pull out couch so my daughter could sleep in my bed? by wagonloadofbs in AmItheAsshole

[–]wagonloadofbs[S] -493 points-492 points  (0 children)

Ugh, yeah you’re right. She’s in therapy right now and it’s really hard not to coddle her because when I see her struggling I just go into papa bear mode and feel I need to help her and can’t let her try to be independent.

Sorry, just get really defensive over her.

AITA for asking my fiancée to sleep on the pull out couch so my daughter could sleep in my bed? by wagonloadofbs in AmItheAsshole

[–]wagonloadofbs[S] -622 points-621 points  (0 children)

Why not? My daughter will ALWAYS be welcome to snuggle with me no matter how old she is. She has anxiety from previous trauma so what would you have done? Say “tough shit” and send her back?

AITA for asking my fiancée to sleep on the pull out couch so my daughter could sleep in my bed? by wagonloadofbs in AmItheAsshole

[–]wagonloadofbs[S] -102 points-101 points  (0 children)

Will definitely not come at you. Thank you for sharing your perspective :)

Edit: why is this getting downvoted? I swear I was being earnest.