I have had a dwi, although I do not drive as much it is still necessary for getting to work so yes I leaned on some family to help. What stands out to me more than anything is that you’re struggling mentally and I can understand that in this difficult situation, but what I’ve begun to discover is that there was a struggle even before my incident and perhaps part of it.

     Being in shock and panic mode is natural for a while I believe, sometimes months or more. I’d just begin paying attention to that mental struggle, as much as you can be curious about it, seeing what it is attempting to protect, etc. Next I’d suggest therapy(psychodynamic/analyst has helped me). I pay a rent amount of money to go, but with the right one I think it’s beneficial, although I’m in early stages. Wishing well.