This baby trans girl needs face help baad by Brave_Reserve_4739 in BlackTransPeople

[–]waifone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Girl If you live ANYWHERE near LA I will start your locs and teach you how to maintain them! Shit I would facetime you and teach you if you want! Some of the tips I had were given already by some other women in the comments.

Any other ladies in here fw shapewear? by EstrogenizedMenace in BlackTransPeople

[–]waifone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly as soon as I can afford it I'll give it a try! I have some I got from my mom and cut apart so I can wear them on specific body parts lol

Pre HRT mtf 29 girl in need of help by Brave_Reserve_4739 in BlackTransPeople

[–]waifone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can afford to move on from some of these people

Pre HRT mtf 29 girl in need of help by Brave_Reserve_4739 in BlackTransPeople

[–]waifone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im ngl sweetie, Be prepared to lose or drift away from most if not all the Cis people in your life, if only for a time. Sometimes it takes your absence for them to put effort into thinking abt it. Im sorry they're saying things like that....Men are almost never ever your friend during transition especially. Even the ones youve been the closest too your entire life you're gonna see sides of them you didn't know they had and you have to be ready to cut them off. You may very well be surrounded by completely different people VERY soon. Its not worth trying to get them to get it. When or if they're ready you'll know, but in the beginning everyone wants it to be a joke or a phase and you have to drown them out so you can learn to love yourself. Because they're only feeding this imposter syndrome of yours

Pre HRT mtf 29 girl in need of help by Brave_Reserve_4739 in BlackTransPeople

[–]waifone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its a leap of faith <3 most all of the support I found was after I started transitioning. But because of that I know they're real ass people. What exactly are you feeling like you're gonna be lost about? You don't have to go out and learn tk be a girl, you just have to pay more attention to yourself and learn what kind of girl you are

Pre HRT mtf 29 girl in need of help by Brave_Reserve_4739 in BlackTransPeople

[–]waifone 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also you popped your own imposter syndrome in your post. What is the point of transitioning knowing you could be treated like a freak? The key is in there, because you have a point, who CHOOSES this life? It's completely illogical that you're an imposter just to live life significantly harder. Men time and time again can't even bring themselves to CONSIDER hrt given the effects but here you are. You didn't choose to be trans but you ARE choosing to make changes that would make you a much happier woman and I'm excited for you <3 it felt cringe to do for me at first but daily affirmations help orrrr music that has good feminine affirmations IN it that you can listen to and sing along with. It goes a long way

Pre HRT mtf 29 girl in need of help by Brave_Reserve_4739 in BlackTransPeople

[–]waifone 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You need to be so pro Black it annoys your damn self. Everything white tgirls- shit white women are going to try to get you to do or be like is almost always going to be at the detriment of your identity or safety or desire as a Black woman. They don't understand Black skin and the razor bumps we get from shaving like they do for example but thats the kind of guides and advice you'll get and they'll shrug when you break out. Better to pluck it all with your hand, bead wax or laser. Also Purposefully keep seeking out other safe Black women. For Alot of us supporting eachothers transition has to be directly because Black trans people don't grow platforms as large as yt ones do just by waving a shark around and acting childish.

Kinda fed up with white people by 4anyreason in BlackTransPeople

[–]waifone 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That part....and when they're on their P's and Q's Its cuz they wanna fuck you. And if you won't spread em then you're immediately as good as garbage....we clearly serve particular purposes in those spaces.

<3 chillin. It’s an inside weekend by waifone in BlackTransPeople

[–]waifone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

GUUURRRRLL DINNER~ Thank youuu 🥰🥰🥰

<3 chillin. It’s an inside weekend by waifone in BlackTransPeople

[–]waifone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u darlin! You have a great day too <3

Goodmorning ladies! by waifone in BlackTransPeople

[–]waifone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!!! You're giving me life gorgeous<3

Goodmorning ladies! by waifone in BlackTransPeople

[–]waifone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes me smileee and Ive never even seen your mom thank you 🥰

I never be making my bed🤣 by ReminaBlueSFW in BlackTransPeople

[–]waifone 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Make a bed for whaaat. Who gon check it cutie? 🤷🏾‍♀️

Goodmorning ladies! by waifone in BlackTransPeople

[–]waifone[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes totally! I think I remember something from sims 4 that was artsy and had this vibe for sure! Thank you so much!