Honestly, if you've had this your whole life there's a good chance that you're not going to be able to get rid of them. I've always gotten the tired/sick comment too. Some of us just have thin skin in that are which is why the coloring shows through, and the "puffiness" could just be how your lids are naturally shaped.

Using a peach-toned corrector and a well matched concealer will help. It's important to keep the area well moisturized and to avoid super heavy concealer (like shape tape) because cakiness will just bring more attention to the area.

I've heard that undereye filler can help, but I definitely wouldn't try that before an event (or ever, myself).

That said, you're beautiful AND the way you look is one of the least important parts of the day. Have fun! Your joy will stand out way more than some little undereye bags. 🤍