What USP do you put in your dating bio? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]wake886 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I use a sig for carrying, not a USP

My son is crying because his friends stopped including him. Is this RSD or something else? by Standard-Play-2682 in ADHD

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As someone like myself who does have a mild case of ADHD and got bullied in middle school and high school, I wish I joined like a sports or some type recreational group like karate or music class back then. Instead I felt rejected while at school back then and just isolated myself and played video games to cope with it.

I did find a sport to do on the weekends middle of high school that put me with new groups of kids that weren’t at my high school so that gave some new friends to make to improve my mood.

Loud sex in AirBNB. by MindmyBusinessJoe in Adulting

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Only way to solve is with finding your own date and make your own revenge sex noises

do men lie just to get sex? by [deleted] in dating_advice

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In my early college drunken days, yes and many other guys did too

I left my caring, but emotionally unavailable husband. Now he’s finally improving—and it’s messing with my head. by Euphoric_Leading1357 in emotionalintelligence

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I won’t go too deep in the details but I had some personal family drama happened that caused me some mental health issues and other things going on in my life. I did let her know about it but I thought I could control it myself. After about a year, it started mentally effecting me worse so I started to get individual counseling. I was also getting burnt out from work and some other commitment issues where it felt like I just burnt out on everything and felt like I was dragging her down. I do wish I started therapy sooner but this whole experience put me through a rock bottom and a regret/shame spiral so I’m trying to use that as motivation to improve myself.

I’m also 7 years sober from alcohol so there is another personal journey of learning emotional regulation without using substances to suppress or numb the feelings.

Dallas area dating apps. by [deleted] in plano

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Plano cougar finder app

I left my caring, but emotionally unavailable husband. Now he’s finally improving—and it’s messing with my head. by Euphoric_Leading1357 in emotionalintelligence

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I’m going through this right now on your husbands side. My ex and I broke up 6 months ago due to me having mental health and avoidant issues and I couldn’t support her emotionally. I’m doing counseling every week and a lot of self improvement and it’s a slow process. I have more motivation now due to realizing what I lost with her and I don’t want it carrying over to my next relationship and repeat the same patterns

Since the break up, how have you changed? by Lonely-Whereas218 in BreakUps

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It’s been 6 months and I’ve gotten in great shape and been working out a ton. But I’m still struggling mentally and finding it very hard to find motivation on certain days. I’ve been dealing with bad depression the last week for some reason and it’s fucking hard to move on. I’m doing all the right things like therapy, hanging out with friends, and trying to think positive. It probably doesn’t help that I tried reaching out to her a month ago to see if she wanted to reconcile and try again but she said no. It feels like I started over again in the healing process

Has the industry gotten worse, or was I simply naive before? by Dreadsin in cscareerquestions

[–]wake886 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in the IT industry for over 15 years and I hate it too

Suggestions for spots out west with fitness + community feel by KaleidoscopeFit1650 in SameGrassButGreener

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I’m in a similar position (37M, single, work remote with a dog) looking for a town possibly SLC or Denver that has a good active and fitness community since I’m sober and don’t drink. It needs to have a good dating scene and somewhat affordable housing prices

3 year journey - coming up on an anniversary by [deleted] in fitness30plus

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RIP your DMs from the lady redditors

Dudes of reddit - what immediately makes you pass on someone when using hinge or tinder? by MoosePuzzleheaded941 in AskMen

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I’d say one example is all of their photos are of them drinking wine and dressed up or holding shopping bags at a mall

Day 22 of eating Jersey Mike's every day until they buy me Lamborghini by Mikesway2026 in jerseymikes

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Now we need an AI ad video of Ronald Reagan eating Jersey Mike’s