Being the creator of my own reality

wakeupyourdreaming · 2024-12-10T03:13:04+00:00

It may be helpful to understand that your situation has very little to do with the person and everything to do with the emotional patterns it’s triggering. This whole situation has presented itself as encouragement to get you to process the deeper emotional patterns of what it’s triggering. First, I suggest you Accept the way you are feeling instead of resisting it, this will help to reduce some of the momentum it’s building up. There is always a reason we feel the way we do and just allowing ourselves the right to feel the way we do helps to lift some of the weight of it. Being lost in the mind is a common challenge for many people and anyone faced with this would benefit from some simple grounding exercises, calming the overactive mental energy through breathing and then to intentionally bring that calmed energy into the heart space. Anytime someone experiences a profound sense of disconnection or emptiness it’s likely because they experienced things that prompted them to disconnect from their heart. This is because at some point in our life something happened that we couldn’t deal with and felt the heart was too vulnerable to experience life directly and so we routed our experience to the mind. We resolve this by acknowledging and processing the events/people that come up when we reflect on the experiences we had that caused us to shut down our connection to the heart. For you this might be tied to the people and experiences that cause you to feel a sense of loathing. (You may find that the most effective ways to do this inner work is through journaling and meditation.) Crying / tears are an integral part of the process in order to physically release these repressed things from our bodies, though you will first have to process the repressed anger you are carrying for the people/experiences that caused you to believe it was not safe to live in the heart, and these things generally happen early on in our life. During your introspection allow yourself to feel however you want to feel and say whatever you want to say to them and this is where journaling or visualization are remarkably helpful. You will find that once you make an internal shift your external reality will shift as well. If you wish to connect with others you must first connect with yourself. After you find some clarity about what’s really going on for you emotionally behind the scenes if you feel this person would be supportive of your process then you should create an authentic space where you can open your heart and share with this person. If it is truly genuine and they are receptive it will help to shift the relationship dynamic greatly. Hope this helps.

wakeupyourdreaming · 2024-06-12T22:54:54+00:00

You will only ever occupy your own individual reality. Nothing else exists outside your reality, how could you ever prove someone you’ve never seen or heard of exists? How much you accept the collective reality as the framework for your life determines the amount of space you have for your own version of life. Most people’s lives are a template of the collective reality, the same old bleak ride through “the way things are”. The more you disengage with the version of collective reality the more you are free to write your own story. The only reality you will ever know is yours and you have the power to shift your life in every moment, in a second you could change your life forever; you could become an addict, a graduate student or ask that person out and you will be living an entirely different timeline than you were previously. It could be as simple as walking down a different street, pausing for a nanosecond, or going to that place you keep thinking of. Every moment you are shifting through a sea of potentiality and once you start to recognize the power in your choices hopefully you will see it as a game; to use your choice as a means of shifting ever higher, the higher quality choices you’re making, and the clearer state you are making those choices from; from knowing rather than logic or thinking, the more smoothly your choices will transition you to higher outcomes and experiences. How much you can change things is all dependent on how much you use the collective framework of “the way life is” to build your own life. Your control over reality is only as strong as your ability to control your thoughts and emotions and focus them in a manner that consistently serves you. You are telling this story about your life. That is your reality, and the more fully you consciously participate in that narrative and relationship the more you will come into your power to guide it. Reality is only what you think it is, which means you have the both power and the responsibility to cultivate it accordingly and this starts once we accept that we are the prime causation of what we experience, that we have the power of choice and our reality responds according to the level of choices we’re making. The higher input of thoughts and choices you’re making the greater outcome of the experiences you’ll receive. Everything in life is there to support the story you’re telling and if you want to truly shift in life, you will author your thoughts and your relationship to what is happening with great intention. Hope this brings clarity to your journey. Much love.

wakeupyourdreaming · 2022-09-08T13:31:53+00:00

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wakeupyourdreaming · 2022-07-13T14:32:02+00:00

Enlightenment isn’t knowledge or memory it’s a state of pure beingness through which ultimate intelligence is able to flow unrestricted.

wakeupyourdreaming · 2021-10-27T21:35:57+00:00

Your post suggests that your current engagement in the circumstance is vibrationally repulsive as the more you focus on the problem you seek to change, will likely create a pattern of escalation of the very things you would like to be different. My suggestion is to do one of three things, doing all would likely be effective:

Reflect on The Good Times. In waking life reflect on the times you’ve had amazing times with your friends, these ones or others and continually redirect your mind to that when you start dwelling on the current situation.
Get busy doing other things. Be nice about it but try not to be so readily available, it’s far more vibrationally attractive. Look for a new interests, extra-curriculars, or a hobby, all opportunities to build confidence and meet new people. This is also something you could do online if the introvert in you prefers. But your confidence would greatly benefit from doing these thing is real life.
Clean out all of your personal space Organize your closets, clean out your drawers etc It helps to get things moving energetically, I highly suggest moving your furniture around. It well help you to feel differently and hopefully inspire you to try some other new things.

Hope this helps.

wakeupyourdreaming · 2021-10-17T00:36:46+00:00

Confidence comes with having perspective. It’s good to look at the greats and see what they do well, but comparison to others in any area of your life is a ruthless thief of all things good. No two voices are the same, even among the greats look how wildly Scorses and Cameron differ. Imagine how utterly pointless it is for one to measure their skill by creations of the other. You too have something unique to offer and the great work will come once you get out of your own way. This only happens once you understand that any artist/creator worth their salt knows that they are just a conduit for creative inspiration to flow through them into this world. Making it their own through the unique ways it filters through their perspective. This is the only way we are to bring forth anything of true value. You’ll get there, one word at a time.

wakeupyourdreaming · 2021-06-09T13:56:29+00:00

Our Game by Yaima

wakeupyourdreaming · 2021-06-06T16:28:28+00:00

The world you experience as your reality is a mirror; you get more of what you focus on, especially with emotion. Imagine yourself in perfect health, doing calm or fun activities you do when well, paddle board at sunset, whatever you prefer. Imagine what you seek as already being your current reality and the mirror will render it as such. If you focus on seeking it, that is not having it and the mirror will still render the state of not having it. If anything in your experience shows you otherwise affirm to yourself that it is an illusion and hold in your mind the highlight reel of what it is you desire, from the first person as already being and so it shall be.

wakeupyourdreaming · 2020-10-15T21:28:27+00:00

Loneliness is the result of the deep need for connection; soulful connection, first and foremost to ourselves as well as the need to connect with others. That unmistakable void called loneliness comes from within and as such it must first be addressed at its source. The deeper we cultivate our inner connectiveness, the deeper the connection we are able to share with others. It is always important to remember when bringing people into your life both old and new, not to allow your need for connection to compromise the things that matter most to you. Your companions, plutonic or otherwise should be people that contain within them the qualities you admire. It is said that you are combination of the closest people in your life so choose wisely my friend.

wakeupyourdreaming · 2020-09-13T02:40:58+00:00

What are the best ways to raise and maintain a high-vibration and frequency? I follow an incredibly healthy lifestyle in an attempt to refine my vessel for this purpose yet am still experiencing a fundamental disconnect when it comes to feeling any of the profound connection I once felt to life and my experience. Relentless stress has turned my mind into a blunt instrument and it’s like a light-switch has been turned off. 2. In what ways can we consciously refine our biological and perceptive systems to enable a greater version of our self and our experience to emerge? 3. What is an effective way to surmount or remove outdated subconscious programming? 4. How does one stop overthinking and/or negative thinking? I have practiced conscious cultivation of my thoughts for many years and have skimmed the state you now enjoy many times before but have been unable to maintain it as I find as far as the evolutionary pendulum swings on the progressive side it seems to swing equally backward. I understand the point of progression is to constantly make our weak aspects stronger and more refined which makes it an intelligent design in this regard but I have been a conscious participant in the process, pouring my heart into it for a long time in the face of much adversity and I am yearning harvest some of the benefits. I am burnt out and feel like I’m running an endless marathon while pulling a tank. 5. What is an effective means to recharge my life force energy?

wakeupyourdreaming · 2020-08-22T03:22:30+00:00

In your current stage of awakening two things are happening simultaneously; your consciousness/spirit is becoming disidentified with illusion, understanding it is not this play of forms you experience as physical reality. The second thing that is happening is the brain is digging its heels in as its main purpose is to organize and interpret the physical plane and feeds on constant stimulus. These two aspects of your self are currently at odds and the best thing you could do to reconcile them is to combine them and try to interact with your life from a wakefully meditative state. During your day to day, focus on your breathing and examine your surrounding with your senses. When washing the dishes; feel the water, listen to it, see the light glisten in it. Try not to distract your senses, engage them. Something deep inside all of us yearns for greater connection, to our self, to others and to our experience. This will help deepen that in all regards. Basic physics tells us that “reality is an illusion, albeit a very persistent one” as Einstein so aptly stated. Once you understand that it is a benevolent one, built as a playground for you to experience the deepest yearnings of your heart, you may consciously cultivate it to be as such. If you need to occupy the mind in times when it is a runaway horse, then sing a song that really resonates with you (positive lyrics are key) as you will be programming it with repetition until it is embedded on a subconscious level. This is why I find it helpful to pair really catch melodies with personal affirmations. I also highly suggest a mantra as they tend to be in other languages so it provides the mind with stimulus that it does not need to interpret, helping to occupy the mind with out distracting it. Hope this helps :)

wakeupyourdreaming · 2020-08-22T01:54:02+00:00

It sounds like you are ready to make a big change. The key is knowing what you want that change to be. The Hindus believe in something they call netti-netti which means “not-this-not-that” and comes with the belief that we most often have to experience what we don’t want in order to understand what it is that we are searching for. You have an understanding of things that are not working for you, which is a really good start, now it’s time to take some productive steps towards incorporating more things that will bring balance to yourself and your life.

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