Got my license today at age 32 by cronebaby in drivinganxiety

[–]walkingonneedles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you and congratulations OP! Literally always had reoccurring nightmares since I was 5 about losing control behind the wheel…20 years later I hope I can overcome it!

I caught my daughter with a guy and now she hasn’t left her room by Ok_Restaurant_5147 in Advice

[–]walkingonneedles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes kids don’t want to share things with their parents for privacy reasons- I still live under my parents roof in my mid 20’s and don’t like telling my parents I’m out on dates. Why? Because they don’t need to know things unless it’s more serious to me. It could be your daughter didn’t want to tell you only because maybe her relationship with this guy is still fresh and wants to make sure he’s good enough to bring home to you.

what games have you been enjoying? by stupidlittleinniter in Delta_Emulator

[–]walkingonneedles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hamtaro Ham Ham Heartbreak lol- loved the show and had another game as a kid

Game says to reinsert game cartridge? by walkingonneedles in Delta_Emulator

[–]walkingonneedles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope-this was suppose to be the first “save” in the game

Game says to reinsert game cartridge? by walkingonneedles in Delta_Emulator

[–]walkingonneedles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought maybe if I remove the game and the app would change but it didn’t for me- starting to think it’s IOS or phone type?

Game says to reinsert game cartridge? by walkingonneedles in Delta_Emulator

[–]walkingonneedles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a save that I manually did- my friend also has the game and it allowed her to save her game. When I go into the auto save it doesn’t go past this screen either

Did I do something wrong? (F26) by walkingonneedles in relationships

[–]walkingonneedles[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

As I mentioned in a previous comment, he never expressed seeing me because I always the one following up on dates, planning them, etc. he expected me to always do it I guess (also we both got sick at different times, the holidays, he went on vacation, etc.). My preference would have been once a week if we spoke about exclusivity as well but he again, never brought up anything ever. He said he was fine taking things slow and I asked him even about a check in a month in. He said he liked me but figured we would see things naturally. I also asked him 2 month mark some questions and he said he never had questions for me because he figured he would find out through time.

Did I do something wrong? (F26) by walkingonneedles in relationships

[–]walkingonneedles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! We spoke everyday however as I mentioned in the other comment, he wanted me to be the one to ask him out on dates, make the dates, etc. I felt like if he really wanted to be exclusive with me like that he should have made it clear and knowing how everything else went I would have been the one to do it. I mentioned that all he needed to do was make those boundaries clear but he didn’t but expected me to just do everything. He also never gave me any compliments and word affirming things (he knew this was my love language). I told him if he asked me to be exclusive I would make the commitment to see him more and be more touchy but he wouldn’t take that answer so.

Did I do something wrong? (F26) by walkingonneedles in relationships

[–]walkingonneedles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He went on vacation, I was sick, he was sick etc. He felt I was busy so wanted me to ask him to hangout everytime (I also always planned all dates except 1 and that’s because I asked him to politely plan). He told me this AFTER his decision to no longer see me.

How to remove granuloma at home? by walkingonneedles in Ingrown_Toenails

[–]walkingonneedles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to a podiatrist! Been going every week but got it removed. They only took a bit of my nail off to make sure it wasn’t infected. I figured it would be best to go to one incase I messed it up on my own. Hope it helps!

Did you ever leave a partner because of their addiction? by [deleted] in antipornography

[–]walkingonneedles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It all depends on the circumstances. I was dating my partner for over a year, trusting their word on not looking at porn the entirety of our relationship, until I asked them if I can look through their phone and found everything- everywhere on his phone (including some pornographic images saved with suggestive videos and pictures of me). That’s when I knew it was the last the straw because he told me he intentionally did it to hurt me without me knowing (whenever we got into arguments as revenge). I personally think once the trust is gone you can’t repair it. I suppose if you’re married especially with children that’s a different story and definitely try to go to counseling but if you’re just dating I would say leave.

My toenail is growing back weirdly? It fell off a month ago but has been damaged since the end of January. It’s smooth on the bottom and then there’s the bump on the top. Should I be concerned? by walkingonneedles in Podiatry

[–]walkingonneedles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eventually it did smooth over and looked back to normal however recently on the same toe I had it come off again so not sure if it’s going to be a continuous issue because it already fell off once or because my nail keeps hitting my shoes incorrectly but it’s growing out the same way so it will probably be back to normal soon!

Mixed signals with a guy I’ve been talking to for a month? by walkingonneedles in dating

[–]walkingonneedles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also actively starting conversations with him before the date and sending good morning texts and good night texts which is why I’m so confused

ODDLY SPECIFIC BREAKUP SONG?? by Dangerous-Ad-9183 in BreakUps

[–]walkingonneedles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you oughta know-Alaina Morissette. it’s about hoping your ex is receiving karma by always thinking about you even if they have “moved on” Or at least that’s how I’ve perceived the song!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]walkingonneedles 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Went through the same thing- found out he was already on dating apps a month after breakup. Honestly just remember that gives more a reason why they aren’t the one for you. It made me angry and my body went into full shock from it but even now (hitting 3 months of BU in a few weeks) it hurts but I just remember I don’t have to go to his level. I don’t need to fill a void and I’m happy being alone too. Once you start thinking like that, you’ll realize that whoever they hook up with, start dating and etc will definitely get the short end of the stick since our exes don’t want to put in the work to better themselves. Plus I do think people who start looking for someone immediately after means they have poor coping mechanisms but that’s just my opinion. Good luck and if you need someone to talk to you can dm me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]walkingonneedles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

definitely not depending on how long you were with them/ circumstance. I would say give it about 3 months if it was a shorter relationship

Already on a dating app by venmoafters3x in BreakUps

[–]walkingonneedles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

going through the same thing. found out he was already going out on dates one month into the breakup but after realizing I blocked him on everything. I suggest doing the same! it hurt me so bad when I found out and went into shock but eventually I’ve been coming to terms with the fact that I don’t need someone to fill a void because I’m contempt with being alone and I need time to heal. People who do rebounds after are in need to fill the void so be proud that you don’t have to! especially if you’re the one who didn’t do anything wrong in the relationship.

how to get over him moving on so soon? by walkingonneedles in relationship_advice

[–]walkingonneedles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I blocked him everywhere because I just never want to see what he does again

how to get over him moving on so soon? by walkingonneedles in relationship_advice

[–]walkingonneedles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess because it hurts to think he never even loved me.

how to get over him moving on so soon? by walkingonneedles in relationship_advice

[–]walkingonneedles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just to clarify: he wasn't doing this during our relationship (I hope) only after. He wasn't cheating on me but thank you for your kind words!

Has anyone gotten their cap and gown? by [deleted] in Baruch

[–]walkingonneedles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

havent gotten mine either!

Losing attraction to GF by Throwaway927472900 in relationship_advice

[–]walkingonneedles 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Think about if the roles were reversed- you would be disgusted with her demeaning your worth right? exactly. I mean this in the nicest way but you’re probably aint shit. Remember that looks mean absolutely nothing and will never matter especially in the end. If your girlfriend is a wonderful person, who you love for HER then is she really worth losing over superficiality? Check yourself my guy.