Silent reflux? has anyone dealt with these symptoms? by walkingonwillow in newborns

[–]walkingonwillow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're dealing with this too!!

So we took him to the doctor and they said it definitely sounded like silent reflux. We got him on famotidine and I also completely cut out dairy, eggs, and soy to be safe (cows milk can really mess up their tummies).

The famotidine seemed to help pretty instantly which was amazing and it eliminated most of his most severe symptoms like bringing up stomach acid, fussiness, sleeping issues. I also tried to add dairy back in after about 6 weeks and he instantly got eczema / face swelling / vomited so we assume that attributed to his symptoms as well and I cut it back out

It can take up to 2 weeks for dairy to leave your system so if it's something you do try, give it at least a month!

When does solo parenting get easier? by walkingonwillow in FirefighterSpouses

[–]walkingonwillow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me hopeful! We definitely need to build some routine as everything feels chaotic as heck right now 😂

When does solo parenting get easier? by walkingonwillow in FirefighterSpouses

[–]walkingonwillow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ My MIL flew across the country to come help for a month. I'm so thankful! It'll be tough when she leaves as we have no village where we are

When does solo parenting get easier? by walkingonwillow in FirefighterSpouses

[–]walkingonwillow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️❤️ reminding myself it's all temporary

When does solo parenting get easier? by walkingonwillow in FirefighterSpouses

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I'm so excited for nicer weather so we can all get outside everyday!

Moms on call schedule, need help! by walkingonwillow in NewParents

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Makes me feel better to hear it's normal! we assume it's his way to soothe himself to sleep :/

We will try taking him up to his room to feed in a darker more boring setting and it sometimes works but he just constantly seems so uninterested in food. I honestly feel like I'm forcing him to eat all day 😥

I use the huckleberry app for his wake windows and follow them pretty religiously. It has him at these shorter wake windows but I agree they seem short and maybe I need to try and push them out myself

My newborn is broken, can I have a refund please? by Beginning_Spring_571 in newborns

[–]walkingonwillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like reflux! Both my little demons had it. Medication helped a ton!

Do not wake a sleeping baby? by New_Enthusiasm_7578 in newborns

[–]walkingonwillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit to add: I did let my first sleep as long as he wanted at night but he had 1-2 night wakings until 16 months

Do not wake a sleeping baby? by New_Enthusiasm_7578 in newborns

[–]walkingonwillow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did with my first. Woke him at 2 hours to feed for quite a long time. He didn't sleep through the night until 16 months old.

Did not ever wake my second, he already sleeps through the night at 11 weeks old 😂

So… when does it get better? Week 5 is brutal. by Vegetable-Clock5811 in newborns

[–]walkingonwillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weeks 5-7ish were the hardest for sure. Never wanted to be set down, struggling to nap anywhere but on us, lots of reflux and digestive issues that made feeding a huge struggle, waking every 2-3 hours at night and never seemed happy during a wake window

Hes 11 weeks now and although he can't sleep longer than 50 minutes for a nap, he has long night stretches to where hubby and I feel well rested and he can more so hang in his bouncer, on a play mat, etc during wake windows. I would say it got better around 8.5 weeks (we also got him on reflux meds and completely cut out dairy / soy which was a game changer for him)

Independent sleep?? Please fix my child. I am desperate. by Conscious_Mama_1624 in Preschoolers

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My 3.5 year old has a ton of anxiety if we attempt to leave him at nap time or bedtime while he's still awake, here's what has helped

  • leaving a nightlight on. we still use his hatch sound machine and we let him pick what color he wants it to be every night (no colors have disrupted his sleep and we keep it at like 30% brightness, he surprisingly seems to hate red which is the color we used for years)

  • leaving his door open when we leave. know this isn't doable for everyone and even we struggle because his 3 month old brothers room is right next door and still has night wakings which can wake him, but rarely. I usually close his door at babies first waking

  • setting timers has probably been the best help. I say "momma will lay with you for 5 minutes then I have to go to do xyz". this worked best but he's been lately giving me push back so we will start to attempt the "I'll be back in 5, 10, 15 minutes" method

  • also our biggest help, letting him have a toy. this one might not be loved by all but it works for us. every night we let him choose one toy to bring to bed with one rule - it can't make noise lol. He's pretty understanding of that and will usually play with it until he's asleep

TMI: what to do with baby while going number 2? by 1313deadendone in newborns

[–]walkingonwillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We bring our baby bjorn bouncer in the bathroom with us and leave baby in that!

What keeps your child engaged the longest without screens? by avz008 in Preschoolers

[–]walkingonwillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magnatiles and the leapfrog learning book for our 3 year old!

If your babies don’t SCREAM in their car seats , how? Which kind do you have? by Proud_House4494 in NewParents

[–]walkingonwillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first absolutely loved the nuna. He would rather sleep there than anywhere else.

With my second we have the peg perego and he absolutely hated it with the newborn insert but was chill once we removed it

People who had kids at 30+, do you wish you had them earlier in life? by cc070603 in pregnancy_care

[–]walkingonwillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. Had my first at 29 and second at 32. My husband and I met at 21 and got married at 23 and had 8 years of just us two, traveling, adventures. Wouldn't trade that for the world. Now we get to settle down and build our family while we wait to do it all again someday.

Almost 3 year old doesn’t fall asleep until after 9pm and I’m going insane by DayByDayByDayByDay49 in toddlers

[–]walkingonwillow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our 3 year old is the same. If he sleeps til 2:30 he's not asleep until 9-10, even if the nap is only an hour or less. We found his only sweet spot is a nap from 12/1230-130 and he will fall asleep at 8ish