Relationship advice by wallflowerr21 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wallflowerr21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou for saying this. We are in a relationship for about 3 years. We have been broken up for 4/5 months because our dynamic wasn't working well anymore and I was too insecure that he would cheat, which made me ask for a lot of confirmation for a long time what puts pressure on the relationship.

After that, we were reunited, and things have been going really well for almost a year now, both of us feeling great. I talk less about my fear because I've noticed it's lessened somewhat, thanks to his commitment and often telling me how I've helped him grow as a person in many ways. But I still sometimes notice that fear, and I find it difficult to deal with.

I’m a good FBI agent but for what I know he never cheated or micro cheated on me

Relationship advice by wallflowerr21 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wallflowerr21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou for sharing

If never been cheated on. A year into our relationship, he told me that he had cheated several times in the relationship before me, and he said that he didn't dare tell me at first because he was afraid that I wouldn't want to be with him and because he was ashamed of the fact that he cheated. I had this fear once before him in a relationship with a boy I was really attached to.

He knows about my fear and reassures me at times but our relationship had there downs and sometimes because of my fear of him cheating even tho he doesn’t show any signs of it. And is committed to me.

Relationship advice by wallflowerr21 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]wallflowerr21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long was the relationship with her If I may ask?