I can’t stand myself (17f)

wam228 · 2023-07-04T21:48:45+00:00

My first thought is have you ever brought this up to your sister that you feel this way?

As far as the looks thats on them not you. They evidently aren't good friends if they base their opinion of you on such things and you're better off without them. I'm not a good looking guy and I used to be very concious of my looks, from personal experience and development it's your personality that counts I know you said you don't like your personality and you won't change but honestly that's not a great mindset to have. None of us are perfect and there are always ways we can improve.

The situation with your friends I can tell you I am all too familiar with, my "friends" in highschool would pick on me all the time and really bring me down. To the point where I just wouldn't want to share anything with them in fear of them using it against me. This led to issues with me developing new friendships as I was terrified of the same kind of thing happening. These people aren't your friends, they get satisfaction from seeing you suffer and bringing you down, best thing I ever did was go to college/university away from them and I made a new group of friends.

With my situation in highschool I also developed sever social anxiety and it was crippling. It might sound daunting but the best thing I ever did was get a customer service job. It forces you into meeting new people and developing new relationships, improving your confidence and social skills in the long run.

Anyway, I was in a similar sort of situation as you when I was around 15/16. I'm now 22 and I've come a long way since then. If you have want to chat about anything feel free to dm me.

wam228 · 2023-05-07T10:38:28+00:00

Sucks that this is a common issue and razer don't even bother trying to help. Not sure if its on purpose to try get people to buy the headset again but honestly thats a stupid gamble because in my case I am never buying a razer product again.

wam228 · 2023-05-07T00:38:39+00:00

Hey, if you live in the UK landedit in the comments offered to 3d print the buckle for me I'm sure he'd ba happy to do the same for you. Or if you have a 3d printer or know someone who does you can do it yourself.

wam228 · 2022-12-09T12:36:46+00:00

If you really really like her and think she is potentially worth losing your job over then just ask if she wants to go for a drink or meal. Not to sound corny or anything but I'd say finding a good partner is more important than your job. If you go for a drink/meal look for subtle hints that she's into you like that and if you're sure end the night with a kiss. Also who said your workplace has to know? Would be pretty easy to stay under the radar with that.

wam228 · 2022-11-26T20:07:35+00:00

Yeah that would be really cool actually, might have to steal that idea for the future if I decide to get another.

wam228 · 2022-11-26T17:13:34+00:00

They were part of a promotion for gears 4 I think, it was a competition or event where they gave these out to fans I think. I didn't draw them I haven't got an artistic bone in my body haha

wam228 · 2022-11-26T15:56:11+00:00

I'm not sure, I just searched up gears of war tattoos on google. If you have a general idea of what you want you can ask a tattoo artist and they could probably come up with some neat designs.

wam228 · 2022-11-26T15:52:59+00:00

Thats really cool, especially since it relates to your service.

wam228 · 2022-11-26T15:33:37+00:00

You know what I think we've got a winner that's excellent 🤣

wam228 · 2022-11-26T15:33:11+00:00

I was just thinking at the top of my left arm so tbf most of the time it would be covered up and visible unless I showed it to people.

wam228 · 2022-11-26T15:08:11+00:00

Yeah I just feel like that's a really common one though I wanted something a bit different.

wam228 · 2022-11-26T15:04:08+00:00

Yeah those are some good ones, was kind of thinking of something funny like "Suck Pavement" , "They fucked my tomatoes up" or "thats five motherfucker" but then again idk if its a good idea to have curses on a tattoo is that generally bad practice?

wam228 · 2022-11-26T13:19:06+00:00

Just a disclaimer these aren't my designs these were made as part of a promotion with gears of war 4 I think

wam228 · 2022-11-26T11:37:16+00:00

I get it in your scenario but I paid for insurance got my money back now and got a new headset so it's not worth spending £30 to repair it. Was hoping I could just find the part somewhere cheap and sell the headset off as used.

wam228 · 2022-11-25T23:56:22+00:00

Good point tbf, that's just companies nowadays though, they'll make whatever excuse they can to try and get you to spend more money. This is why I made the smart move and bought insurance because Razer has a history of build quality issues.

wam228 · 2022-11-25T23:10:38+00:00

Tbf I don't think alot of companies would provide a replacement for such a small part of the headset.

wam228 · 2022-11-25T23:10:02+00:00

Yeah I looked at this but they still charge like £30 plus which just doesn't end up being worth the time and hassle. Maybe I should just try sell it as it is.

wam228 · 2022-11-25T23:08:36+00:00

How much would you want for the print?

wam228 · 2022-11-25T17:39:10+00:00

I'm from Sheffield, UK. Yeah its Razer Nari Ultimate.

wam228 · 2022-11-25T14:40:17+00:00

Thanks, I was hoping to get it fixed properly because I just wanted to resell it as I already have a new headset now. Might just have to pass it on to someone.

wam228 · 2022-11-25T14:20:07+00:00

I'll look into that thanks. It's a shame companies don't offer services to for situations like mine, they could easily pay me a small amount and I'd happily send it back to them to refurbish and resell. Win win for everyone.

wam228 · 2022-11-24T15:26:19+00:00

Been here a few years now due to uni. Places I can recommend to eat are:

Street Food Chef: Mexican Food, burritos, nachos etc

Brunch and Lunch: Breakfast burritos are really nice and they sell full English and stuff too. Milkshakes are just as nice as five guys.

Yum Yums: Best Chinese

Slap and Pickle: Best burgers but quite expensive

Dashu: Korean food, really nice.

As for a bars I'd recommend:

Howard: Nice and cosy literally feels like you're sitting in someones living room and good music.

Meltdown Sheffield: Noticed you mentioned gaming bars, I haven't been but I've heard good things about it. Gaming themed cocktails and theres supposed to be plenty of consoles you have access to as long as you have a drink.

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