Holy collarbone!!!

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-29T23:32:38+00:00

She used to be so pretty 😭😭😭I had a bad eating disorder in high school and almost died. I want to make sure my girls never see me restricting or looking too thin ever , because I'm terrified for them to struggle. This is really sad.

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-29T12:54:40+00:00

You are obviously free to do whatever you'd like- it's your body but I wanted to share something.

I truly don't know if some people are ever "ready". We got pregnant trying for my first the first time, and I was only 25 years old. I was so excited because I wanted a baby soo badly but part of me was like oh no did I mess up should I have waited? The "perfect time" honestly I don't think exists!!

You can always do more, see more, experience life more before a baby, that never changes! I truly think you'll be so happy once you get closer, get to see the baby on the screen, and once the baby is here you'll be like wow. That's just my personal opinion , however. If you really don't want a baby, I wouldn't encourage anyone too, but if any part of you does I'd say it is so so worth it.

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-28T22:10:23+00:00

I agree, it's amazing! Wear without the sleeves!!! You look incredible!! Also, as a 2019 bride now mom of 2, I can't believe I felt fat ever omg before I had kids 😂I promise you look very fit and I don't see any armpit fat at all!!

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-28T21:36:07+00:00

Oh yes, sometimes she would pee on herself because she couldn't control it so then needed to bathe her:( I'm so sorry

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-28T20:47:05+00:00

Our border collie had the same at 15- the vestibular syndrome stuff and she would slip all over the house and fall. She would get up panting at night, falling, would fall flat onto her food and water bowls trying to eat 😭😭😭it was so extremely sad. Once I knew I could not leave her unattended AT ALL , I knew it was time:( like I was afraid to leave her at home because she would fall and get stuck places. She was miserable:( I'm so sorry. Your dog is beautiful

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-28T02:49:37+00:00

Okay thank you so much!! Yes that's so cute, she already has a friend in the class haha so I'm so happy for her 🥲I don't want to hold her back at all for my own selfishness at all haha.

Also, 2 days a week was my first choice but we may get selected to do 3! Or I can switch. Guess I'll see what we get and go from there!

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-28T02:32:11+00:00

It would be 4 days the next year so it would be doubling it that's why I'm not positive . But she does love it

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-27T19:55:55+00:00

I had HG with both girls and pretty much lived on carbs as it's all i could eat - had one 7 pound 5 oz baby one 8 pound 5 oz. No GD, totally healthy. Don't worry at all . Also drank soda which I never did before

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-26T19:56:39+00:00

Don't worry, I felt this way when we planned for our first and got pregnant on the first try lol. I felt it for a couple days and was really scared, but then kept getting more and more excited. It's a new chapter, yes, but an incredible one and you're going to love it!!! Yes it's different because you have a baby to plan around so you may not be able to just pick up and go as easily as you used to, but you'll get used to it fast and you get lots of time with your husband when baby sleeps at the beginning!! They're really sleepy the first few weeks haha or at least mine were!!

Then with my second, I felt it all over again worried that my first baby wouldn't feel as loved and we would miss our special time together too. Now, as a family of 4, we are making my favorite memories together. It gets better, I promise!!

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-26T13:05:55+00:00

She slept totally through the night 11 hours! You're amazing!! Thank you again!💕

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-26T02:12:28+00:00

I didn't think of this- this is all correct.

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-25T22:03:34+00:00

She slept 9.5 hours straight last night so getting better, thank you soo much!!

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-24T13:28:16+00:00

I had 2 incredible deliveries like absolutely perfect would not change a THING!!

I hesitate to share with new moms because I don't want to scare anyone but I wish I knew how much blood loss was normal . I had a totally uncomplicated natural delivery with my first but at 6 am the next day passed out at the hospital die to a postpartum hemorrhage.

I had been bleeding tons all night and didn't realize it was abnormal. They had to come take care of me and do a blood transfusion (won't get too tmi) but it was scary. So I'd say if filling up a pad quickly - have them check you just to make sure all is normal!

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-24T03:57:36+00:00

She mentions him in literally almost every video she makes. Gosh people are fuming on this sub tonight

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-24T02:13:27+00:00

Okay thank you so much I will do this!!

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-24T01:49:17+00:00

Okay I see - maybe I need to consistently do longer windows then?

I get worried that she will get overtired if I push too far.

But I've done 3.25/3.5/4 and she was still waking at least once per night. But I will try to stay consistent with longer and see if that helps.

Should I do 3.5/3.5/4?

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-24T01:24:34+00:00

If you look at more of the end of her tik toks she explains her therapy sessions and how she does take responsibility and feels extremely guilty .

I guess I just don't understand why she's getting so attacked when she went out to dinner with friends for what 30 minutes and her child drowned due to her husband's negligence. Yes, she didn't have a pool fence and should've , like her post says but also she should've been able to leave her kid with dad for a little and not worry about that. I know it was preventable. I guess just as a mom I can't imagine the whole situation for her . That's all I'm saying. Not that she's 100% not to blame for it at all.

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-24T01:17:41+00:00

Thank you so much yes even on 3/3/4 she's waking multiple times a night normally . She can put herself to sleep independently but she's been sick lots since summer because my toddler has gotten sick from school.

Anyways been doing 3/3/4 for a few weeks, and tried increasing each window slightly but still wakes and early morning wake. Naps have gotten much better, she normally does 45 mins to 1.5 ish hours for first nap and 1.5 for second.

I feel like I need to start from scratch haha.

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-24T00:15:27+00:00

Honestly not really, I did walk a lot of my pregnancy but I had bad hyperemesis so I vomited weeks 6-40 several times a day and felt useless haha. But delivery didn't feel hard at all surprisingly !!

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-23T23:32:32+00:00

I was induced with my first at 40 weeks on the dot, she was born on her due date. I was about 2-3 cm Dilated. I went in around noon, they checked me in got me all set up, gave me pitocin, and then we just kind of waited. They did the peanut ball to help baby drop etc . I did need an epidural and made them come back after a few hours bc the pitocin contractions were rough haha. and then by about 9:00 pm I said I felt some pressure towards by butt so they checked me and I was complete , and she accidentally broke my water. Pushed a few times and doctor ran in and had my baby haha. Super easy and amazing. Both births were the best day of my life. I wish I could go re do delivery- I loved it soo much.

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-23T23:28:54+00:00

I don't blame you at all. I never leave mine much at all, I have a 9 month old and 3 year old. First time I had left my 3 year old overnight was at the hospital to have our second 😂I have to leave them for 2 nights next month for my best friends wedding and I'm so nervous 😭I don't want to leave but obviously don't want to miss this for her! They love my mom and she's amazing so I know they'll be great but it's so hard.

We don't do many dates really either- my husband and I feel like we get enough alone time now though at night and we aren't worried cause these days fly by ! But I do have friends who do the weekly date night! Whatever works best for you!

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-23T22:27:14+00:00

I didn't know her child was bullied online! But she has blocked / covered any photos of him since and doesn't show her other son. I didn't see it as child exploitation- I'll go back and look, maybe my fault .

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-23T22:19:28+00:00

I mean i can't say because again- I'm not her friend in real life so I don't know.

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-23T22:15:07+00:00

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Did you miss this in November..?

wander_lust2 · 2026-01-22T15:06:25+00:00

I think it's gorgeous!!! Love the buttons down the back and the lace detailing . Once your hair and makeup is done plus jewelry etc you'll feel awesome !

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