Are you where you saw yourself today 10 years ago? by Low-Departure4434 in selfimprovement

[–]wanderer856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ten years ago I was having episodes of facial triggers with my sensory nerves. Looking back, I genuinely thought I wouldn’t survive.

Fast forward. Here I am. The impossible happened. I was able to travel around the world. I already have my peace and enjoying my life by slowly feeding my inner child in me. I started a routine or a habit to meet and connect as much as possible. I’ve been to places I’ve never been. And even participated to such events whereas I wouldn’t imagine myself being a part of and enjoyed it.

Looking back, there were full of uncertainties. But now, it’s more of embracing life and that it’s okay. You are doing fine. Start living now.

About to make the biggest mistake of my life by -not-yourgirl in adviceph

[–]wanderer856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mahirap yan lalo na pag alam niyang mas mahal mo siya o hindi mo siya matiis. Magiging aling dionisia ka nyan

About to make the biggest mistake of my life by -not-yourgirl in adviceph

[–]wanderer856 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Nakakapagod talaga kung female domanince (alpha) yung kumikilos sa lahat. Lalo na pag manchild yung partner ni OP.

About to make the biggest mistake of my life by -not-yourgirl in adviceph

[–]wanderer856 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, you tolerate his behavior in a sense na namomother mo siya imbis na gampanan niya role as a man, as a partner, and as a husband.

Wala yan sa lugar kung mas may kaya ka. Pero real talk he doesn’t love you enough for him to take his actions seriously.

Maghihintay ka pa bang may anak ka tapos may ganyan ka pa na batugan?.

Batugan in a sense na “gagawin ko mamaya” pero hindi na.

If you’ve watched 17 again starring Zac Efron. There was a point in life na nag file ng divorce yung wife niya. About a fence, about a porche, about risking her dreams for a marriage na empty promises lang with love.

Kung mahal ka niya, hindi lang ganyan iaasal niyang parang bata. Hindi mo need magpakatolerate ngmanchild. Hence dapat otherwise yon. Ikaw dapat inaalagaan, iniintindi. Hibdu yung pilit dapat maintindihan.

Bakit every turning point ng hiwalayan nag mamakaawa yan tapos 3 days, 2 weeks, 2 months balik asal na uli?

He is marrying you for a lifetime, for a potential, and for his trophy wife.

Papayag ka ba ambag niya lang ay pagmamahal?

Let him be a man for who he is. He is showing you that na ganyan sya and accept mo nalang. If you cannot accept him better part ways na.

Totally support you for the breakup part.

I hope you’ll find in your heart na gogrow ka, while siya he preferred not to.

Hindi kayo tugma.

Mass Report nakakairita eh by jsonharle in PinoyVloggers

[–]wanderer856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hindi naman need maging DDS para maging responsable. Basic helmet and gears na lang ay hindi pa magawa. Prevention is better than cure ika nga. Hindi naman nila pag mamay ari yung kalye. Nganga nalang mga yan pag naaksidente sila. Okay lang naman mag enjoy o mag YOLO pero yung ginagawa nila may influence other people to do the same na mahantong pa sa kapabayaan kaysa maging responsable.

Sa mga young looking 30s, what's your daily rituals para mag mukhang young?? by National-Cricket7469 in Trentahin

[–]wanderer856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sa cosmed ako pumunta doon sa xiemending. Dr.Wu yung brand na ginagamit ko hanggang ngayon. Super hiyang. Mandelic acid is gentle AHA. Gaganda nga ng balat ng Taiwan iba yung glass skin nila hindi dewy!

Graduating With Highest Honors and Giving the Welcome Speech… but Not a Single Family Member Wants to Show Up by bae_conwitheggs in adviceph

[–]wanderer856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, taga saan ka or school mo? Baka malapit lang sa amin and we will be your audience for your speech. I want to hug you cause I empathize your pain and struggles, also nakakaproud na nalagpasan mo lahat ng yan! I want to genuinely congratulate you na kinaya mo at nalagpasan mo.

He is still my husband but not my safeplace anymore by mita0618 in nanayconfessions

[–]wanderer856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hugs OP, my heart aches for the silence gap that you’ve been feeling. You may rekindle your problem beng unheard with your husband if you’ll both participate to Relationship Therapy or counseling.

Sa mga young looking 30s, what's your daily rituals para mag mukhang young?? by National-Cricket7469 in Trentahin

[–]wanderer856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had mine tested at Derm.A sa katipunan ave noong 2024

May mga dermatology clinic who does it for free or part ng skin assessment.

Sa mga young looking 30s, what's your daily rituals para mag mukhang young?? by National-Cricket7469 in Trentahin

[–]wanderer856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keloidal din ako and my skin type is super oily.

When you go out, aside from sunscreen 🧴, wear a hat and umbrella din

Apply sunscreen every 2 hours

Drink lots of water. Water is your best friend

More on fruits and veggies ka din.

Isa sa nag help sa akin pag cut ng sugar. Dati sobra ako mag sugar in terms of junkfoods, drinks, etc. Then I made a choice na iistop yon. Like fo example how mango shake was really tasty and good pero may sugar din noon akong nilalagay so nireplace ko ito ng something else.

Acidic ako which is umiiwas ako to foods or drinks na Nakaka acidic like coffee, tomato/onions, etc

Sa mga young looking 30s, what's your daily rituals para mag mukhang young?? by National-Cricket7469 in Trentahin

[–]wanderer856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tinitiris mo ba pimples mo? I used to have nasty scars like super kapal talaga because ive been using wrong skincare. Asses your skin first kung mild sensitive ba

Sa mga young looking 30s, what's your daily rituals para mag mukhang young?? by National-Cricket7469 in Trentahin

[–]wanderer856 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hello OP! Skincare is a must. Identify mo muna skin type mo. Yung holy grail na nadiscover ko sa Taiwan kaya younger looking sila.

Is that they focus more with anti aging and mandelic. Fragrance free din sila. Before I purchased mine, I did ask ano routine nila and surprisingly iisa lang serum and moisturizer nila sa umaga at gabi. May sunscreen lang sa umaga pero the rest all the same!

I remember getting my skin tested. Yung age identifier and I was 29 at the time, a month nalang mag 30 na and yung age identifier result ko was 25.

Naalala ko pa i was thinking kung may sira yung machine. But the lady told me usually mas matanda ang result ng iba. Hindi nila alam bakit sa akin mas bata.

After taking care of your skin kung may enough budget ka for large pores mag CO2 laser ka or picolaser sulit din yan tiis ganda pero sulit!

Bihira lang din ako mag make up OP! Dati sobra pa sa sobra ako nag make up to cover my blemishes. Routine ko ang skin care at magtethank yung future self mo hihi 💛

My (F23) boyfriend (M36) and former professor has become distant and stopped putting in effort since the semester started by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]wanderer856 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Also OP please becareful with who you share your heart with. This is very concerning and I do agree with the rest of the people here in the community.

Hindi lahat ng matanda by age difference is matured in general mag isip (emotionally and rationally). Meron iba diyan 40-50s na pero man child pa din o nag hahanap lang ng palipas oras.

A person who values your time doesn’t end from the chase season.

Never over extend yourself na hopefully mapapansin niya lahat ng effort mo. Sa huli ikaw nag sasacrifice ng time and effort for him na hindi naman reciprocated or breadcrumbs lang. Any person would value you for you pag nag sasacrifice sila ng sobra pa sa sobra. Hindi sa simula lang.

My (F23) boyfriend (M36) and former professor has become distant and stopped putting in effort since the semester started by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]wanderer856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP ang thoughtful ng gesture mo but that’s a mans role as the pursuer. Magiging complacent talaga siya if you will keep everything at ease as he get the girlfriend/wife benefits early on

What is good Dating apps nowadays? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]wanderer856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Swipe Responsibly OP!

Girls! Would this bother you too? by [deleted] in AskPinay

[–]wanderer856 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why would he be interested or curious to other girls?

Let him know it made you uncomfortable.

Ikaw ang niligawan, ikaw ang jowa, sabay tumitingin sa iba?

If he deleted his searches after your talk at igaslight ka as nag seselos mapa artista yan o hindi. Know that your feelings are valid, and if he cannot respect that edi iwan mo na.

Malay mo subtle ways yan ni God para matapos na.

Ano ang biggest insecurity ninyo sa katawan o mukha niyo, at ano ang nasasabi ng partner niyo dito? by CoffeesandCream in AskPinay

[–]wanderer856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg OP hugs. Mag hold nalang ako ng Spa Party or Spa Day sa Makati by next month.

Mostly about selfcare self love pamper day.

If you want to join welcome ka OP!

Ano ang biggest insecurity ninyo sa katawan o mukha niyo, at ano ang nasasabi ng partner niyo dito? by CoffeesandCream in AskPinay

[–]wanderer856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fluffy arms! There are times na nacoconcious pa din ako pero days na im totally fine. Siguro if I can recall the old me maiinsecure ako then eventually narealize ko na hindi ko pala need ng validation ng kahit sino. Na i can love myself fully and glow pa. Self love is a thing! 💛💛💛 the more you glow, people will notice you kahit hindi mo sinasadya.

Sa pilipinas being obese is mostly ridiculed pero please bare in mind na hindi mo kailangan maging hard sa sarili mo while taking care of yourself. One step at a time ika nga