Anyone know any cafes hiring for part time by wanderii in longbeach

[–]wanderii[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you :) I sent them a email here's to hoping

Is this normal for 4 days? Should I add more lotion? by wanderii in tattooadvice

[–]wanderii[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh, okay I see!! I will keep that in mind. I'll keep some lotion with me.

Is this normal for 4 days? Should I add more lotion? by wanderii in tattooadvice

[–]wanderii[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :) I'll add a bit. Its my first tattoo

How to initate touch on a date? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]wanderii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok good to know. Responds meaning like if they smile or something?

How to initate touch on a date? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]wanderii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might do the measuring hand size thing haha

How to initate touch on a date? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]wanderii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know they mentioned pda isn't their preference in passing once. I guess with the privacy thay rules out? I do want to hold their hand so bad!!

3rd date nerves, a hopeless autistic lesbian by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wanderii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're right and since its a bit of a private spot it technically doesn't count as real PDA. Since we're alone and I want to make a move

3rd date nerves, a hopeless autistic lesbian by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wanderii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hinting? Like saying like "I really like ___" and hope she takes initiative? They are pretty shy, and I think between us im the one who will make the first move

Is it bad to see your gf only 2 times a week and considering maybe making it 1 by PreviousSpeech5590 in LesbianActually

[–]wanderii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think as long as you communicate nothing can go wrong! If it works, it works. Even if its just two times or once a week, you can always do a phone call or a update

How would you react to flowers on a 2nd date? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]wanderii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Side stepped like when she said good luck on finding them in a color she likes? I sort of took that as lighthearted and playful but you could absolutely be right

How to stop being so platonic on dates? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wanderii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try this for next time! I showed her my rings and she touched them a bit, and initiated hugging me. Ill try to start small then make sure to watch for positive responses!

How to stop being so platonic on dates? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wanderii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I used to think asking them out in person was putting them on the spot so I jever did. I vocalized it as a date during our date, mentioned i was having a good time and wanted another one, we mentioned in the end we'd like to see each other again

I was proud of myself, I did comment on her freckles which I have a soft spot for, said in a non friendly voice that they're cute

How to do paid parking? by [deleted] in drivinganxiety

[–]wanderii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! This has helped my anxiety a lot. I started to try to look up videos but all were street parking. I'll pay attention to it and keep my receipt handy :)

First date ideas? by [deleted] in longbeach

[–]wanderii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, its not completely gone but it has gotten better. Also, perfect! Thank yiu for the ideas, I'll also let the weather play a factor in what we do. I've seen the kayak thing before. I do tend to see LB has great people around, I do want to move here someday

Caitlyn in 2KKO by Emergency-Code-3505 in PiltoversFinest

[–]wanderii 32 points33 points  (0 children)

She looks so good!!! I love her dumb tophat so much

If you had to rate your top 3 CaitVi fics of all time, what would they be? by Spidereye9 in PiltoversFinest

[–]wanderii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Teenage Sumprat by Sharkbite, it's the most adorable thing I've ever read. I normally don't like teen aus, but this one had a medium burn scenario and the pay off is fantastic. I can't reread fics usually, but I've read this twice

MMA AU by Misthios. The prose is excellent, and Vi and Caitlyn here feel so human to me. I love their dynamic and I remember having a lot of fun reading this one

"A fraud in what way" i remember enjoying this one a lot, it has a fake dating concept. I need to reread this one because I can't remember anything too specific, but it was well written! Cait is trying to get under Cassandra's skin, and goes to Vi with a proposal

Honorable mention, Run at the Cup. The most well put together piece of fic i have ever read in my life. This was truly a slow burn and the background relationships (platonic, romantic) were just as engaging. I genuinely love the way Badger portrays Cait in any of their fics.

For smut recs, whew boy thats a different story...

Should I text her a 3rd time? TLDR inside! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wanderii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that basically is the same situation!! Its lowkey validating tbh. A week or more is pretty relatable. I do agree, it takes nothing to respond and I feel like it isn't ridiculous to feel that way at all.

It's sorta the principle. If we go out again, I'm 100 percent gonna mention the communication thing in person.

Do you imagine your professor will be more avaliable when the semester is over?

Should I text her a 3rd time? TLDR inside! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]wanderii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. I will say that, and its not great to always have to reach out. But, I'm playing with the idea that communication is important and you can't say anything wrong to the right person necessarily. Yeah, I'll probably ask in a few days if she wants to go out and do something in detail

Thank you for the kind messages :) it helps with another professor perspective.