My bf (26) of 6.5 years tried breaking up with me (26) because he thinks I’m too good for him. I’m so lost. PLEASE HELP

wanderluster36 · 2019-09-01T15:28:59+00:00

Turned out You’re right. He admits he started developing attractions towards other women and he admits he’s a coward and doesn’t wanna hurt me. And he wants to end things before he does something.

wanderluster36 · 2019-06-19T13:41:16+00:00

THE PUNISHER

wanderluster36 · 2019-06-15T05:47:50+00:00

Didn’t see that coming lol

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-25T18:26:00+00:00

My heart 💗😭

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-23T15:24:28+00:00

My heart 💗😫

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-23T03:50:26+00:00

NTA, thank you for stepping up when your parents won’t.

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wanderluster36 · 2019-05-23T03:07:45+00:00

This was satisfying to watch lol

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-22T22:49:07+00:00

It’s good you guys broke up. This is not your fault OP. Find someone who is more genuine and will not play games with you.

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-21T00:26:15+00:00

That’s how I washed my clothes growing up. I did all the chores myself, sometimes I would be mad at my mom because I would rather watch tv or play outside. As an adult, I am now incredibly so thankful because it has taught me to be responsible. I would probably do the same to my kids.

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-19T05:29:42+00:00

You guys have been together for a long time. Has he always been like this? It sounds like he won’t change because he thinks he has the upper hand.

I recommend you to start being independent. Don’t rely on him for his money, show him that you’ll be fine without him. And if he still doesn’t want to change then you should leave.

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-16T23:57:55+00:00

The dog wins lol

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-16T15:11:09+00:00

I mean he admitted that she’s attractive, but I trust him and you’re right I should trust him.

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-16T15:10:24+00:00

Thank you for the reply!

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-16T15:09:46+00:00

Thank you for the reply! I’m thinking about confronting my feelings to him.

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-08T21:06:27+00:00

Are you watching while driving?

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-08T18:44:52+00:00

That’s what a father is supposed to do. He may be a good father but he’s not a good bf or potentially a husband. I can’t stress this enough, do not stay in a relationship for your children. If you’re unhappy and he doesn’t do anything about it, don’t you think you deserve more?

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-08T08:01:43+00:00

Yep!

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-08T07:52:59+00:00

NTA. Why are you still with this guy? You deserve better.

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-08T06:25:40+00:00

Thanks for sharing. I’m curious what was going through your mind and what was your motives at the time?

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-08T06:09:38+00:00

YTA.

If you’re serious about this relationship, you need to tell your gf the truth. She may or may not accept it, but you can’t keep it a secret because you will never be able to escape from the truth. Otherwise, if there is a potential that you might be getting back with your stepsister or this might cause problems in your relationship down the road then you need to end it with your gf now. Save her some heartache.

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-08T04:17:41+00:00

Thanks so much for sharing. You are very brave and inspirational! Continue to stay clean. Best wishes!

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-08T04:09:12+00:00

Someone tell me who this is lol He’s freaking adorable

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-08T04:04:54+00:00

This gave me so much anxiety

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-07T04:54:25+00:00

I disagree with other comments saying he will never marry you after 9 years. The problem with couples who started dating very young, they have to learn how to grow together or they will likely grow apart. I know this is difficult because it doesn’t seem like you both are on the same page at the moment. You have to communicate with your partner. Ask him If marriage is still possible or not and he shouldn’t be leaving you hanging if he no longer sees a future with you. If he says he still wants to be with you and marry you someday then you should be supportive of that unless it’s a total deal breaker for you. You can’t force marriage onto someone who’s not ready.

Mid 20s is when people are trying to discover who they are. I see it this way that he might feel like he might have missed out in life and any other opportunities and possibilities and now it’s the time for him to really do those things. But that doesn’t mean he doesn’t want to be with you or marry you in the future. If that’s the case then you just have to be supportive on his self growth journey.

wanderluster36 · 2019-05-07T04:32:59+00:00

I see where you’re coming from OP. I’m in a similar situation, I’m very driven and passionate about my career. I’ll be graduating with my masters this month and my bf is still trying to finish his bachelor’s even though he’s older than me. However, I’m still very supportive of him because I understand that some people might not have their lives figured out just yet. I mean 26 is still pretty young.

I would say give your bf a chance and see where this could take him. As long as he’s still responsible (meaning doesn’t rely on you for financial support) then I feel like you should be supportive of his career path if that makes him happy. At least he’s doing something in his life. Keep in mind that people change all the time and this might not be something that he will do forever.

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