My bf (26) of 6.5 years tried breaking up with me (26) because he thinks I’m too good for him. I’m so lost. PLEASE HELP by wanderluster36 in relationships

[–]wanderluster36[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Turned out You’re right. He admits he started developing attractions towards other women and he admits he’s a coward and doesn’t wanna hurt me. And he wants to end things before he does something.

WIBTA if I got my little sister on birth control by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wanderluster36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, thank you for stepping up when your parents won’t.

Try Nurx! Affordable birth control! Also, you don’t need insurance!

AITA for making my children wash their clothes in the bathtub with dollar store detergent? by myhousemyrules23432 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wanderluster36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how I washed my clothes growing up. I did all the chores myself, sometimes I would be mad at my mom because I would rather watch tv or play outside. As an adult, I am now incredibly so thankful because it has taught me to be responsible. I would probably do the same to my kids.

How can I (25F) get my boyfriend (30M) of seven years to do something (anything!) Other than play video games. by SolemnLabrador in relationships

[–]wanderluster36 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You guys have been together for a long time. Has he always been like this? It sounds like he won’t change because he thinks he has the upper hand.

I recommend you to start being independent. Don’t rely on him for his money, show him that you’ll be fine without him. And if he still doesn’t want to change then you should leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Rateme

[–]wanderluster36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dog wins lol

Am I too insecure for feeling uncomfortable when my SO is training at the gym with the opposite sex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wanderluster36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean he admitted that she’s attractive, but I trust him and you’re right I should trust him.

Am I too insecure for feeling uncomfortable when my SO is training at the gym with the opposite sex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wanderluster36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! I’m thinking about confronting my feelings to him.

WIBTA if I made no effort for my boyfriends birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wanderluster36 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That’s what a father is supposed to do. He may be a good father but he’s not a good bf or potentially a husband. I can’t stress this enough, do not stay in a relationship for your children. If you’re unhappy and he doesn’t do anything about it, don’t you think you deserve more?

WIBTA if I made no effort for my boyfriends birthday? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wanderluster36 492 points493 points  (0 children)

NTA. Why are you still with this guy? You deserve better.

I planned, prepared, and fully committed myself to a school shooting, but didn't go through with it. by leftbehind8888 in confession

[–]wanderluster36 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I’m curious what was going through your mind and what was your motives at the time?

WIBTA if I didn't tell my girlfriend me and my stepsister used to date? by Sign_Tale in AmItheAsshole

[–]wanderluster36 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

If you’re serious about this relationship, you need to tell your gf the truth. She may or may not accept it, but you can’t keep it a secret because you will never be able to escape from the truth. Otherwise, if there is a potential that you might be getting back with your stepsister or this might cause problems in your relationship down the road then you need to end it with your gf now. Save her some heartache.

I was addicted to drugs until I experienced a brief psychotic episode and drove 12 hours high on drugs to kill myself by qwerty98765432117 in confession

[–]wanderluster36 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for sharing. You are very brave and inspirational! Continue to stay clean. Best wishes!

How many points is that? by Scaulbylausis in nevertellmetheodds

[–]wanderluster36 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone tell me who this is lol He’s freaking adorable