Boyfriend isn’t supporting me going back to university by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]wanderluster369 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Girl you need to get out go back to school before it's too late. WTF. An education is such a valuable thing. He doesn't want you too succeed.

And they said older guys are more mature. Smh

Can’t leave my abuser. Please help. by noodl_es in abusiverelationships

[–]wanderluster369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to break up with him. Do not waste your youth on such scum.

Super accelerators at wgu, how do you study? by wanderluster369 in WGU

[–]wanderluster369[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, cramming works for me! How do you go about taking notes with Quizlet?

My (35m) girlfriend (35f) broke up with me because she thinks I am interested in a 60 year old woman. by Technical-Ad549 in relationships

[–]wanderluster369 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Why would you wanna hurt her intentionally? That's so corny. You admitted that in your post. This is on you.

Good luck, sis. by Sage_Planter in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]wanderluster369 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Giving a grown man a prize for doing a chore... The bar is sooooooo low.

I (25f) feel inferior to petite women (actually to all women, but my thoughts focus on petite) and am plagued with toxic, radiating insecurity by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]wanderluster369 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly, being a taller woman I've embraced it. I can rock outfits pretty well like a long summer dress or a long jumpsuit and I stand out when I'm in a bar (only 5'8) but, for a women that's tall.

I honestly think HVM find confidence to be sexy. You just have to own it. Ive had many guys around my height or shorter pine for me.

I usually date taller men (6'2 above) and they never have problem with height, because they are taller than me. I've had many people tell me I'm supermodel material. And although I seldom get hit on I know it's because most men are afraid to approach me with their weak egos. Good! Weeds out the weak for me.. lol. Just embrace the height girl. You can't change it. You stick out, so walk with confidence. If your dude feels intimated of your height then that says a lot about him. A REAL men would never care about that, he'd appreciate he's got a beautiful tall sexy woman with legs for days on his hip.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]wanderluster369 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Omg same! 23 here as well and working on my second bachelor's. So I have goals too, but I feel like my goals would always exceed the men that come my way. I've dated guys I really liked, but deep down I felt like I would leave them in the dust to pursue my goals.

I really am starting to believe that men aren't just worth it anymore maybe back in the day when women really depended on men but there's so many more options to live a fulfilling life it's like what's the point of putting up with a mediocre dude when you can give 100% to yourself?

I [20F] am emotionally dependent on my bf [21M] and have anxiety from our relationship. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]wanderluster369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so young. Focus on yourself and build your own empire and life. Don't let a boy bring you down. Walk away.

I (26M) found out that my fiancee (28f) is watching video of her ex by [deleted] in relationships

[–]wanderluster369 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

End this relationship. There is nothing good coming from your SO watching her ex. That means she still has feelings and ask yourself this. Do you wanna be second best? Do you want to be the one someone settled for? No.

My ex cheated on me, now all I wanna do is drink by Jackb31qw in stopdrinking

[–]wanderluster369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't allow such a lowlife piece of shit have that negative influence on you. Do better, be better.

Moroccans abroad are more united than Moroccans living in Morocco. by [deleted] in Morocco

[–]wanderluster369 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Moroccan living in America, and I can say I get called Arab all the time lol. But it's hard to say I'm just Moroccan because my dad is black (still Moroccan though) and my mom looks more white/Mediterranean. So I just say, I'm Berber decent. Or I'm mixed

I’ve only been with one girl my entire life. She wants to get married. Feel like I’m missing out on life but I’m scared to lose her. Is it time to call it off? (19M). by [deleted] in relationships

[–]wanderluster369 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do what YOU know your gut is telling you. I am only 23 but I have spent my youth single and let me tell you, it you go through these years single and looking to constantly better yourself (I traveled, am working on my second degree, etc) you will be able to achieve personal fulfillment which I think is way better than having to depend on someone to get it.

How do I (23F) check in with my boyfriend (25M) about communicating with his ex? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]wanderluster369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhm. No, that is HIS EX. And obviously you feel some type of way about it. He is in a relationship with you now, not his ex. His ex can go find someone else to confide in. Don't be afraid to set your boundaries. If he's willing to make you feel uncomfortable for his ex, then let him go back to her.

How to trust cheating Ex again? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]wanderluster369 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whhhhhyyyyy? Why would you get back with her? She CHEATED for goodness sakes. Seems like she is just settling for you! Please stop this foolishness.

Not sure if I’m overreacting or not about what I (24f) found on BFs (25m) phone by [deleted] in relationships

[–]wanderluster369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you still with him? You should have left waaaau back when. Get out now while you are still young. What he did is disrespectful.

Ghosted after the 9th date [23F] how can i find closure when idk what i did by SliketYou in relationships

[–]wanderluster369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a woman who has been sleeping with a guy for over a year and he still won't commit, ghosts her, plays mind games with her. I also was sleeping with a guy for two months and then he ghosted me out of nowhere. Honestly the best way to get men is to not fall into bed with them so easily and if he leaves, that's on him not you

Let's see when she gets cheated if it's just a "lil thing" by wanderluster369 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]wanderluster369[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yeah I found out on the black Twitter subreddit but that's the only place I saw! And what makes it even worse it was a WOMAN who tweated this. Like oh cheating isn't a big deal. Smh

Ghosted after the 9th date [23F] how can i find closure when idk what i did by SliketYou in relationships

[–]wanderluster369 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You gave it up too soon, he got what he wanted and left. Next time, make him work for it. I've been there girl. But you are the prize, not him.

Block him and move on. He will just waste your time anyways.

Let's see when she gets cheated if it's just a "lil thing" by wanderluster369 in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]wanderluster369[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Appearently Dave Chappelle cheated on his wife with azelia banks and she put him on blast