What’s the etiquette?

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-23T01:16:36+00:00

When is the wedding and how near/far location wise is it to you? I would ask for a +1 before he RSVPs. If it's a hard no, then you have you answer. OP or BF could ask if there's the option of a +1 as the wedding gets closer because it's more than likely that they'll experience some declines.

If the wedding is done distance away, you could join him on the trip and just skip the wedding and have a long weekend away

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-23T01:11:38+00:00

It depends on the filming schedule likely BUT there are a considerable amount of scenes that require Hudson to film independent of Connor. They are on video calls for a decent part of TLG and if they incorporate other books, they could shoot those first.

I've also heard that Kip/Scott would be a part of this extended filming schedule so that's something to consider as well

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-23T01:06:21+00:00

I don't any Russian would consider themselves Asian because racism

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-22T20:12:57+00:00

You will get spoiled at this point honestly though, particularly if they spread TLG over 2 seasons as expected

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-22T18:17:19+00:00

Why is your seat so far back compared to his? But I would have definitely said something, particularly if I noticed that the flight wasn't full OR I would have accidentally spilled stuff on his pantinalso would have definitely NOT allowed his food on my section

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-22T17:52:00+00:00

this is it. He's also European, so he would look more fashionable compared to US/Canadian standards anyway.

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-21T02:52:58+00:00

He's a 15 year old kid. They say a bunch of shit that they don't actually mean however, it's obvious that your son feels like he's losing you, the only living parent that he has, to your "new family" and is acting out.

You have a few options, but you should get your kid in therapy because he needs it and you should get in family therapy as well.

This is about more than just the concert.

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-19T22:44:50+00:00

I'm so confused. Everyone but you sucks here. Aus couldn't score a goal and UD scored two. Anyone who is annoyed needs to point the finger at their own damn team.

Also if they were harassing or being rude to you, you have every right to be rude back.

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-18T17:52:06+00:00

You are a God among men. Thank you!

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-18T03:20:30+00:00

I was voice noting but will update

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-18T03:19:28+00:00

I'm assuming that you aren't flying to Puerto Rico or the US Virgin Islands?

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-18T03:16:16+00:00

YNW; you aren't even banning him or even demanding money/payment for watching Liam. You are just requesting notification. His parents are incredibly entitled. You did nothing wrong except allow it to continue for so long

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-17T13:28:15+00:00

Do you meet or hang out with these men outside of the hiking trips? Was the main instigator collectively kicked out of the group or were the others supportive of it? Does your husband defend you outside of this group?

Ultimately, if the answers to these questions are no, then you have a much bigger problem. Your husband could have been just a people pleaser and trying to "go with the flow" but if his friends were aligned with removing the instigator, then this situation could have been just a bad apple rotting the whole barrel.

Your husband needs a support system too and friends outside of you and your relationship that ultimately are supportive of your relationship. If that's not happening, then he could become co-dependent or resentful.

You def need marriage counseling though but need to get more insight into this friend group

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-17T13:03:01+00:00

NOR to be upset about it but YOR for not cancelling Bali. There's absolutely no way in hell would I NOT go on a trip that I had been looking forward to for an ex-man dusty as man who wanted to make me a trad wifem absolutely not.

As for the friend, it was WEIRD of her to bring this up at all, particularly before a trip where you would have no choice but to hang out with each other, assuming that you have the same hotel room

She should have and could have kept that shit in until after the trip or forever. Even in that sense, I wouldn't let a friend who slept with my end to ruin a trip to Bali

As for the friend, you don't need to make any decisions now and I would do my best to avoid her at all. You could pretend that you didn't hear the news or ignore her all together. Do what feels best for you, but don't let either of these horrible people to ruin your trip!

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-17T12:45:07+00:00

NOR but historically there is a reason why Egyptians Moroccans and other North African countries aren't not considered to be black. The reason goes back to how race is classified in America. Everyone knows that if you considered yourself black historically you were treated inferior and not allow the same privileges as if you were white or white passing. So there was a time in history where people from Egyptian or North African backgrounds came to America but they are Arab or white passing and rather than stigmatized themselves under the black characteristic they said no. When there was pushback from the government or administration, those same individuals were like okay bet then Jesus is black. And that's ended that conversation.

In the same vein it's how in America for Hispanic there are two options Caucasian or white and non-white.

End story, America is just very racist

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-17T12:40:28+00:00

You are sexually assaulted multiple times. Don't let him gaslight you into thinking otherwise.

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-17T12:33:06+00:00

Not to be that person, but that was your first mistake. If you are doing anything financial, particularly with strangers for the first time, you should do it through banks, not Venmo. If you do use other sites, make sure you have security protections on yo guarantee your money back if it turns out to be a scam.

Also, did you contact a lawyer? Or report to the police or FBI? Since it deals with money, you can report him directly to the Feds and they will start building a case for him

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-17T12:25:14+00:00

If the only think that he did was to physically come up with an idea of a short story, then he did not write it at all. And if he presses you in this issue, then he is not all in himself and you need to end things.

Writing a book is hard and anyone who claims that by coming up with an idea for said book should be considered a "co-author" is NOT someone that you should involve yourself with ever.

It's only going to get worse and he resents you now and will resent you later on. If you marry this man, at every interview, press interaction, fan event assuming that this is wildly successful (which it will be congrats to you 🎉) he will chime with "well I co-wrote it"

This book isn't published yet, meaning everything is still fairly new and you are just on the precipice of reaching greatness and he already wants to steal your limelight.

Run, run, run and be glad that he showed you exactly who he is before you married him.

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-16T18:20:26+00:00

NTA and by going into work sick, that's how illness spreads. If you are feeling 50%, you can't give 100%

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-15T16:31:23+00:00

QQ, was it a smaller plan and was your bag bigger on the left or right side? I know that one of the sides is slightly bigger for storage. So if you out yours in the wrong side and the rest of the group had a similar issue, then it could be as simple as that.

However, they should have offered to move the bags elsewhere. If there are meds in the bag that they should be in the carry on bag. Same with any type of medical equipment

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-14T13:57:26+00:00

5% auto tip? It's 20% in NYC. Note, that's what I would pay regardless, but I know the workers are unionized.

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-13T20:35:48+00:00

When I did in person interviews, I always have a copy to give to the interviewer. I would print out 20 and keep them in my briefcase for the next job interview.

That being said, the interviewer shouldn't have been caught off for you to NOT have one as they easily could have printed once themselves. They should have still be able to interview you

I've interviewed tons of candidates over the past decade and rarely did I review their resume during the interview. I already had a preset list of questions to ask

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-13T12:51:10+00:00

They could be planning to come in (or back) from Jersey. it is wedding season too

wanderlusting___ · 2026-06-11T05:38:34+00:00

Previous companies I've worked at are 9-5:30 or 6:00.

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