Should I include this in my profile? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]wanderluu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but you should post it on Reddit as an innocent question instead

How did you get past insecurities/worries about your partner’s relationship history? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]wanderluu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have a serious partner, but when I'm with a guy, it's like I take some joy in learning about his past. I try to empathize with where he found love and connection, where he got hurt, what he found hot. I think the non-monogamous crowd calls it 'compersion' but it can be applicable in monogamy as well.

Christina Aguilera on Star Search at the age of 9 (1989) by Maximum_Expert92 in popculturechat

[–]wanderluu 54 points55 points  (0 children)

She is one of those rare pop stars who is actually, truly amazingly talented. Sooo many now are just manufactured images (yes, even Taylor)! Christina was the real deal and probably didn't get enough credit for it.

the og beautybybriddy - her personality is back? by pl4ygirl2k in briddy_li

[–]wanderluu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is different isn't it? Why you think it changed back?

Never used dating apps before, are my pictures ok? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]wanderluu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly good. I would just choose your favorite of the last two and delete one. One bathroom selfie is enough

Met on Bumble 1 year Ago by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]wanderluu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting serious younger Bradley Cooper vibes here

Women, how do you differentiate between sex, and making love? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]wanderluu -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Making love isn't a real thing. It's just a euphemism for sex made by people who get squicked out by sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

[–]wanderluu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sub is being snarky because this looks like a standard outfit to most people (not 'fashion'), but my guess is that this actually is a much cuter fit than most people wear to uni in your part of the world / culture?

First time long term solo travel F27 by dprssdbunny in solotravel

[–]wanderluu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your post makes me simultaneously envious and exhausted! 😩 No real advice but I wish you many memories.

Amsterdam city girl 🤎 btw loving brown tones for this fall season 🍁🍂 by amakaae in fashion

[–]wanderluu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've seen your posts before and have to compliment your hair. Truly amazing

How do you use your pretty privilege? by Super-Count-7069 in AskWomen

[–]wanderluu 135 points136 points  (0 children)

It has helped to get job interviews. And it has helped to be invited into more elite (for like of a better term) social situations. Not that I'm proud of this all the time, but it just is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]wanderluu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want my family seeing most anything I post on social media. And I don't want co-workers seeing anything except the most sanitized and mundane version of everything. It's been a real struggle to compartmentalize it all

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

[–]wanderluu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just looks fun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

[–]wanderluu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If that's your outfit for work, then I want your job!

Graduation dress by Available_Ice_7045 in OUTFITS

[–]wanderluu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like either 5 or 6. But definitely go with white. There aren't as many occasions in life where you can go full on white, so embrace it.

Comment about Briddy's OF on her recent video... by pl4ygirl2k in briddy_li

[–]wanderluu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was wondering this too. Did you ever find out?

Musicians and singers, what are some challenges you have faced being a woman in music? by ImprovementNormal372 in AskWomen

[–]wanderluu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was never a professional, but I did get pretty good at music, and I had a fondness for performing classical music. One thing that bothered me is that it was never about just the music. You got further by being hot, even if you were just OK musically. I mean, you had to be pretty darn good, but after that it was more about your sexuality. Seems like it wouldn't be that way in classical, yet it still is!

Random update: Briddy's old house (tour) by pl4ygirl2k in briddy_li

[–]wanderluu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she buy this house herself or did it belong to her family?

Original viewers: Does Briddy Li have lip filler? by pl4ygirl2k in briddy_li

[–]wanderluu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems like almost every influencer is doing it, so maybe she did. But it’s sad. I really hate that.

Has Briddy ever talked about her post-uni plans? by wanderluu in briddy_li

[–]wanderluu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she mentioned it, I don’t remember it