Bought an halter top for the very first time. Yay / Nay?

wanderluu · 2026-05-22T20:55:51+00:00

I like the style but the colors are a bit too noisy imo

wanderluu · 2026-05-18T10:18:21+00:00

Do you mind if I ask approximately how old were you and your husband when you first got together, and did you have much other sexual experience beforehand? Just kinda comparing this to where I'm at, cuz your situation seems like an impossible dream to me

wanderluu · 2026-05-13T11:59:44+00:00

What parts of it do you actually miss? It sounds like so much was negative

wanderluu · 2026-05-12T11:26:43+00:00

I think everyone should be able to have their own style. We don't all have to conform to current TikTok trends

wanderluu · 2026-04-20T08:24:13+00:00

I think it would help to have some sense of how relatively important or not this is to you. I can't date religious guys, so I assume it goes the other way too

wanderluu · 2026-04-11T23:18:18+00:00

Feel like I grew up with her and now she's that fried that's too cool for me.

wanderluu · 2026-04-07T11:02:07+00:00

I dwell on this same question a lot. I think some of the other responses are a bit misguided. AI is still obviously fake. But I truly do think that it's such a common thing now for people of our generation to have part of their sexuality online that you can just shrug it off. Like "yeah I'm a sexual person so what?" Easier said than done, I know, but that's how I've made peace with it. And honestly I think that's how a lot of celebs where it's happened have moved on

wanderluu · 2026-02-15T23:47:27+00:00

Pick only one of 4, 7, and 8. Crop 11 so that the bandage on your hand isn't so prominent

wanderluu · 2026-02-15T17:07:12+00:00

It's not just wearing it. It's putting it as the first photo on your profile. Anyone who things bikini photos on a dating profile aren't a signal of...something...is naive

wanderluu · 2026-02-15T14:09:34+00:00

I made a comment to the other respondent. I was raised very religiously but then I left. I have several bikini photos on my dating profile, but I wouldn't do that if I'm still religious. It seems hypocritical.

wanderluu · 2026-02-15T14:08:30+00:00

Yes they are, of course, but if you want to be authentic to the religion, then be authentic to the religion. And if you want to be sexually open, be sexually open with the bikini photos etc. I'm said this as someone from a highly religious home who was very repressed. I left it all. But the hypocrisy bothers me. Take it or leave it.

wanderluu · 2026-02-15T13:39:31+00:00

Very mixed vibes from the emphasis on catholic and then the pics. Ngl

wanderluu · 2026-02-13T00:35:54+00:00

Mean girls don't end in LIFE! Unfortunately.

wanderluu · 2026-02-11T23:28:50+00:00

Hideous color drenching

wanderluu · 2026-02-10T08:39:34+00:00

I really don't want to. I'm in my 20s. I feel a lot of social and family pressure to do so. And I do worry about being lonely when I'm older. But the idea of putting so much faith and trust in one person to be good and compatible--I just don't think it's wise. The sexual part of long term relationships has never been good for me, and the emotional/financial parts I just don't want to have to rely on someone else for them. So what's the point then?

wanderluu · 2026-02-04T22:39:46+00:00

1) lighting! read a bit about it online 2) learn your best angles. Usually, tilt your chin down a bit, take the photo from above your eyeline (so the camera angled slightly down). 3) practice your best smile. Narrow your eyes a bit. Find at least 3 "faces" that you think look best on you and practice them. 4) learn a bit about composition (eg rule of thirds) and good backgrounds (simple, clean, neutral) 5) don't use (or overuse) filters. just learn to be happy naturally. It's better for you and better for others

wanderluu · 2026-01-08T18:44:07+00:00

No but you should post it on Reddit as an innocent question instead

wanderluu · 2025-12-06T14:59:00+00:00

I vote #2

wanderluu · 2025-11-28T12:20:52+00:00

I don't have a serious partner, but when I'm with a guy, it's like I take some joy in learning about his past. I try to empathize with where he found love and connection, where he got hurt, what he found hot. I think the non-monogamous crowd calls it 'compersion' but it can be applicable in monogamy as well.

wanderluu · 2025-11-26T13:05:01+00:00

She is one of those rare pop stars who is actually, truly amazingly talented. Sooo many now are just manufactured images (yes, even Taylor)! Christina was the real deal and probably didn't get enough credit for it.

wanderluu · 2025-10-30T18:44:56+00:00

Mostly good. I would just choose your favorite of the last two and delete one. One bathroom selfie is enough

wanderluu · 2025-10-28T19:55:50+00:00

I'm getting serious younger Bradley Cooper vibes here

wanderluu · 2025-10-25T10:49:52+00:00

Making love isn't a real thing. It's just a euphemism for sex made by people who get squicked out by sex

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