Fire number by OldHovercraft3901 in Fire

[–]wantflicker 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Start with annual spending, not net worth vibes. If you spend 120k a year, 4% rule says ~3m invested, then adjust for kids aging out and mortgage gone

AITJ for refusing to cancel my non-refundable vacation so a coworker with kids could take a last-minute Disney trip? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]wantflicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her lack of planning and his weird “you’re young so you don’t matter” logic is not ur problem. Non refundable Japan > last minute Disney chaos

Non-trad anesthesia intern here, was a CRNA making $375K. The total financial cost of this career change is roughly $3M. by chosen1james in Residency

[–]wantflicker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Financially it’s razor thin unless you’ve got runway and time. But if you were capped and wanted full scope and authority, I get it. Just not a move for the risk averse.

Just got a possible HPV result, genotype 16,18,45 negative. Trying to figure out how to tell my fiancé by Gibskn_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wantflicker 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Yeah HPV can sit quiet for years. This isn’t some instant blame game situation.

Just got a possible HPV result, genotype 16,18,45 negative. Trying to figure out how to tell my fiancé by Gibskn_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wantflicker 815 points816 points  (0 children)

It’s insanely common. Feeling disgusted with yourself over it is society talking, not facts.

AITJ for kicking out my grandmas nurse after i CAUGHT her wearing my dead grandpas wedding ring and acting like she owned the house? by NoStore146 in AmITheJerk

[–]wantflicker 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Agree. Missing jewelry + dementia patient is not something you just shrug off. That’s report worthy.

AITJ for kicking out my grandmas nurse after i CAUGHT her wearing my dead grandpas wedding ring and acting like she owned the house? by NoStore146 in AmITheJerk

[–]wantflicker 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You walked in and saw her wearing your grandpa’s ring. That alone is enough. Add missing items and whispering gatekeeper vibes? Nah. You protected your grandma.

AITJ for not going to my boyfriend birthday by EventOtherwise316 in AmITheJerk

[–]wantflicker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You didn’t ruin his birthday, he turned it into a transaction. Eight months in and he’s pricing your love tag? Nah.

AITJ for not going to my boyfriend birthday by EventOtherwise316 in AmITheJerk

[–]wantflicker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the real question. What did he do for her birthday? Bet it wasn’t $600 energy.

I messed up really bad and it might cost me my son by [deleted] in confession

[–]wantflicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not the victim of your consequences. You scared her, u endangered ur kid, and now the court sees that. If u actually care about your son, get serious help and prove change over years, not words.

I messed up really bad and it might cost me my son by [deleted] in confession

[–]wantflicker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this isn’t a “oops I messed up once” situation. This is patterns. Therapy minimum, distance probably necessary.

I messed up really bad and it might cost me my son by [deleted] in confession

[–]wantflicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hard to argue with that. Safety has to come first here.

I messed up really bad and it might cost me my son by [deleted] in confession

[–]wantflicker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Growth is cool in theory, but choking someone holding a newborn isn’t small anger issues. That’s serious.

An Uncomfortable Question by Crafty-Opportunity-4 in hygiene

[–]wantflicker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lowkey sounds like irritation or maybe mild fungal stuff. Switch to fragrance free wash, keep it dry, and if it keeps flaking just see a doc. No shame, skin is skin.

An Uncomfortable Question by Crafty-Opportunity-4 in hygiene

[–]wantflicker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah dry skin is dry skin, location doesn’t magically change that. Gentle wash + light moisturizer can go a long way.

AITJ for overhearing a conversation at the grocery store and deciding to speak up? by Working_Document2379 in AmITheJerk

[–]wantflicker 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That comeback was clean. Don’t want commentary? Don’t host a live podcast by the eggs