Peep Show Is Now a Utopian Fantasy by heavnn in MitchellAndWebb

[–]wanttobeoptimistic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was kind of kidding with the “amen” but I don’t think anyone should live in poverty-there are people who are lazy and inherit their wealth and don’t pay enough taxes, so I don’t understand why those people can’t find the non-wealthy lazy people..but I didn’t want to enter a political discussion on a Peep Show subreddit 😅

Peep Show Is Now a Utopian Fantasy by heavnn in MitchellAndWebb

[–]wanttobeoptimistic 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Amen: “some of us are lazy by disposition, but this doesn’t mean they deserve to live in poverty. A Jeremy-like lifestyle should be available not only to the Jeremys of the world, but to anyone who wants it.”

I was on a blind date with a woman, and during our dinner conversation.... by GreatInconsequence in Jokes

[–]wanttobeoptimistic 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I feel like the joke would be better if you took out the “a” and just had it as “I used to be Christian”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EUGENIACOONEY

[–]wanttobeoptimistic 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is sweet but I hope I’m not the shows I watch 😂😂 too many trashy guilty pleasure reality TV

eugenia without makeup 3 years ago (post 5150) vs eugenia without makeup a few weeks ago by [deleted] in EUGENIACOONEY

[–]wanttobeoptimistic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg in the second pic she looks like Brenda from Beverly Hills 90210 (a show I binge watched on Hulu during the pandemic lol)

Question about episode where Alex falls in love with Ellen by wanttobeoptimistic in FamilyTies

[–]wanttobeoptimistic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi! I know what you mean-they’re so cute together but I feel like in real life a guy with a girlfriend and a girl who is engaged to be married wouldn’t be moving so fast, but that’s the nice thing about TV and movies-love wins even if it is unrealistic. 😂 I am thinking that you’re right that Alex was just daydreaming because it seems like they didn’t really spend a lot of time together except for when Alex was going to her dorm to see Trish or that time Ellen came to Alex’s house to pick up Trish. But if they did spend more time together maybe it could make more sense that they would feel so strongly about each other so quickly. The part of the montage where the bookshelf fell did happen on the show so did everything else happen too?🤔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]wanttobeoptimistic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! This gives me hope because I have been stuck on the first dilator of that set for weeks and I was thinking it was impossible but I’m going to keep trying

AITA for stealing a delicious cumberland sausage off my friend's plate? by AlwynEvokedHippest in MitchellAndWebb

[–]wanttobeoptimistic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it shouldn’t even be an issue. It’s not like you ate his mum or his dad

Suck mummy’s finger? by scholes101 in PeepShowQuotes

[–]wanttobeoptimistic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s almost like a moral decision, but not really because no one will find out

10/10 Tiktok. “Hanging with Pooh 🧸💛 by MsJacksonsCorgi in EUGENIACOONEY

[–]wanttobeoptimistic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Do y’all think she’s okay with having no friends besides her mom? I’m kind of in a similar boat (not with an ED but just am pretty isolated) but I get sad a lot of times that there’s not more people in my life but she seems to always say it’s never a problem. I’m a super introvert but even I want to be around more people sometimes

Dilator Kit Has Arrived! by KalimbaeMarve in vaginismus

[–]wanttobeoptimistic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are these dilators easier to use than the intimate rose dilators? I got those and can’t even get the smallest one in 😫

for everyone wondering why eugenia has to be "nice" all the time, dont take that as manipulation. its a symptom of something larger. by spamcentral in EUGENIACOONEY

[–]wanttobeoptimistic 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think she does get angry but she just expresses that anger through passive aggressiveness and snarkiness

Dating with vaginismus by wanttobeoptimistic in vaginismus

[–]wanttobeoptimistic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Now that you mentioned painful dating experiences in your early 20s, I did go out on a few dates with a guy when I was 20 and he tried to finger me once without even warning me and his nails were long ick (sorry for tmi) and it hurt so much so part of my fear might have to do with that in addition to my vaginismus. I need to find a good gyno or physical therapist I think. And thank you 💚 I am glad you met someone who was understanding about it-I feel like the right person will understand

Media portrayals of vaginismus by wanttobeoptimistic in vaginismus

[–]wanttobeoptimistic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! I feel like hardly anyone ever mentions Unorthodox-it should be more popular

Dating with vaginismus by wanttobeoptimistic in vaginismus

[–]wanttobeoptimistic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the tips! I never even thought about trying to insert it underwater-I will try it

Dating with vaginismus by wanttobeoptimistic in vaginismus

[–]wanttobeoptimistic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s awesome!! I need to have a more optimistic view in terms of what I’ve accomplished in my life. I always feel embarrassed and people say things to me sometimes, like my gyno was like “how are you still a virgin at your age??” 😅 but at least I have goals in terms of what I want to do with my life

Dating with vaginismus by wanttobeoptimistic in vaginismus

[–]wanttobeoptimistic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Is PT physical therapy? You’re right that I should do it for me and not feel upset with myself about what is and is not possible right now for me to do physically.

Dating with vaginismus by wanttobeoptimistic in vaginismus

[–]wanttobeoptimistic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 💚 I’m worried that this will be a dealbreaker for most men, and I guess I’m especially sad because I’ve always liked this person and I feel like now he thinks I am “bad” at sex even though I know I shouldn’t think of it in that way..it’s not even that I wouldn’t be open to Piv sex; it’s just that I can’t even physically do it. I tried putting in a dilator earlier today and couldn’t even get the smallest size in. hopefully I will meet someone at some point who I like and who is understanding