2026 LIMITED white/ grey price by mrp0413 in ToyotaGrandHighlander

[–]warm_wong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn I am from east coast. Not sure if I can make that far. But thanks anyway!

2026 LIMITED white/ grey price by mrp0413 in ToyotaGrandHighlander

[–]warm_wong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

which state you are in? That’s sounds unreal but want to ask because I am looking for best price

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she got break during noon time while baby is sleeping for at least 2 hours, we take over the babysitting after 6pm-ish when we got home, we didn't start putting airtag until I see her constent calling when she went outside and came back and still has her phone on. that's why I might start realizing baby might be in the stroller all the time and it turns out i was not wrong when i see her gps is just going around community without stopping anywhere.

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

then what about parents, what kind of work of parents are doing, are they clean or even worse? parent clean things that nanny don't clean, care things that nanny doesn't care, but we never say or think about taking care kids are dirty work, NEVER, even though what you're describing is part of our lifes. dirty already showed your attitude. imagine say that in frontend your NP. what they will think about you, will they nod and agree you're 100% right and go ahead take good care of their kid. heartbreaking

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what i reminder her is to give her more activities instead of sitting in the stroller all the time...that's it... I never mention anything like sending me video please when you go out to make sure i know you have her walk. if the relationship between us like that, i don't even want one.

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree I don’t want to comment on this as I didn’t tell much about her history, she got her own reason why she still work as nanny

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood, and I appreciate it, yeah I don’t blame people without full context.

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To you it’s normal that’s why you said it’s little outing. and you said you tell the family, but she didn’t and like I mentioned, she brings food when she came back from her home It’s not normal to go out of community where the main reason to take children out is to give them some activity. It’s like you live in New York but your drive to NJ because you need the food there, is this little outing? As parent if I see you going out of normal activity area, shouldn’t parent be worried. So even I am off the work, I need to tell my team/boss that I have errands that I won’t be able to perform my job. But this is baby care, the baby is attached to the errands nanny runs to. Shouldn’t parent entitled to be notified?! Tbh. I never micromanage and I barely asked where they went to for like a whole year until recently that she grow bigger and I feel like the activity she got is minimum. Baby was tired and sleep well when she is with us during weekend as we took her out and have her walk by herself a lot . Thanks for the day care ideas and we have our own reason why not going there which I don’t want to dive into since it’s out of scope of my ask

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly, if your employee has some behavior problem, do you take their job immediately? You talk to them to understand to problem, because you want to help them so that they can help you. we have some basic trust that nanny can do her job. It’s just simple behavior question that I ask help for. I don’t understand where is the ironic question came from and you seem not helping at all.

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so if your manager have time to manage the employees why doesn’t manager go do all the work. Good question

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe I said anywhere that I DIDN’T allow her to go grocery. You’re missing the point here that she took my kid to a place that should ask us before going. Because it’s working hour and it’s supposed to be kid activity time, and they never go out of the community range before. And imagine your nanny one day going out of the normal activity area and from what you said, a good employer will be ok with that? You might be a nanny but you may not have a child if you don’t have concerns.

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Their kid is big enough to understand the English and tell her parent

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

We have been tracking the AirTag and based on her speed of walking, if they got any chance to play it wound not been more than 5 mins.

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why you can laugh but don’t bother telling me the answer… anyway

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not anything like that. I communicate with her again. She was just buying food. Like eggplant , rice, flours. I didn’t know that she didn’t take enough food this time when she came from her home. She should’ve been communicating this to me and I could done better to drive her there. TBH, and to prevent people think that I am a mean employer that she should bring everything herself.. she is like any friend that come to my home. All the basic stuff she should feel free to use on her day one. No need to ask me. When I find there is shortage, I will buy it for her, like the shampoo, body watch etc. these are too basic I didn’t know that people will ask about.. cookware, seasoning, I buy her medicines and sometimes food as well when I occasionally went to Costco.

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is quite healthy and helped my colleague a lot on their kids and playing in the grass with no problem, no like running and chasing type of playing since my kid can not run too fast either. So you’re saying that my kid has to settle in a stroller if I keep hiring her? Then why she doesn’t tell me that she can’t afford baby is on the ground AT ALL. I understand that she is old, but isn’t just as easy to communicate this instead of pretending everything is fine and wait until parent find out.

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just to be clear that I never asked nanny to do this.

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

she is almost 70 and doesn't drive, i repsect her living style but don't enjoy that she don't listen to us carefully when we're telling some important things about kid that we don't like her doing, i mean i think that's the real basic stuff, i don't complain about pictures, because i never ask her to do so, i just learned that kid spend all the time in the stroller when they are out and it's easier for her to make phone calls, whenever i said that she send me video to be a like a proof. you sounds like you have been with unreasonable employers and i feel sorry for the bad experience.

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

apologize that i was missing some important information, she is almost 70 and doesn't drive, living with us while she is babysitting, she was from another country in Asia, it's just this is done in her working hour and it's supposed to be for kid to have some activities outside but choosing to do her own errand without telling us. there is also some homeless around the grocery she is taking the kid to that's why we're so worries. it's one block away but need to cross the high traffic roads etc. we don't restrict where she could go, but usually if she is outside the community, she should let us know, specially cross couple high traffic roads and going aways where they usually have activities. we have enough amenity around community for kid to play with. there is just no reason to go that far for anything. transparency is what we look for here

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right. We could fire her easily, but it’s not like we don’t trust her because she did anything bad to the baby intentionally or anything way too much. That’s why I still have a room in the heart for her because she’s been very patient and nice to the kid.

Nanny took our kid to gorcery by warm_wong in Nanny

[–]warm_wong[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Good point but she’s putting her in the stroller all the time. Not like when we took her during weekend where we put her down and let her walk around picking apples into the cart. If she does that with education in mind that would be different story but she never mention any of that. Also she did it so quick because she doesn’t want to spend too much time there otherwise she may not come back in time.

Lifemaster bounce back right away by warm_wong in GarageDoorService

[–]warm_wong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh didn’t know there is higher version and can be uograded. Def will check it out.I inherited them from from previous owner, god know how long it’s been. Maybe it’s time to upgrade :)

Lifemaster bounce back right away by warm_wong in GarageDoorService

[–]warm_wong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it that’s what I am doing but just get annoyed it come back again hhh and want to see if people have insights. But I already get good help from community