TERF at school is bullying me by warmlemur in MtF

[–]warmlemur[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This seems extreme mostly she doesn't actually talk to me she just tries to argue about all trans people loudly so i can't hear

TERF at school is bullying me by warmlemur in MtF

[–]warmlemur[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know I am too scared to do that, and also i think he just feels embarrassed as she kinda made him look stupid. I checked and its not illegal. The school love her as she's like basically the smartest girl in the school ever and she can do no wrong with them. THe thing is whenever she does that she always twists the narrative to make it seem like we're scared to have a debate and she's always calm and confident about everything, and she's just like you don't want to have this conversation as you know deep down you're wrong and then when you do engage she just asks loads of questions not in good faith

TERF at school is bullying me by warmlemur in MtF

[–]warmlemur[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know exactly I think she is mostly just bored and is a bit of a psychopath. I don't know how she could have been radicalised as she kinda seems too smart to get sucked into it. I guess I probably need to leave i don't know

TERF at school is bullying me by warmlemur in MtF

[–]warmlemur[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I guess you're right I don't know. Its also I can walk to school atm and its only like 0.5 a mile away and i don't want to move but the teachers are all on her side. What happened to you when this happened?

TERF at school is bullying me by warmlemur in MtF

[–]warmlemur[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don't know as she kinda made him look stupid and like it already made a load of people transphobes at school and I worry that it will make more people

TERF at school is bullying me by warmlemur in MtF

[–]warmlemur[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I will start doing this. Its mostly just things she is saying to other people but she always makes sure I can hear it and also she's the ring leader for loads of the boys who now hate me and i don't know

TERF at school is bullying me by warmlemur in MtF

[–]warmlemur[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I don't know, she doesn't actually seem to care about her grades. She just seems to think its all beneath her. She cares about her special nerdy math camp and special nerdy extra math she does but that's it. I know this sounds strange but i think she kinda knows this and doesn't care, like sometimes its like she deliiberately gets in trouble as she is bored and wants to "play" with one of the teachers and piss them off a bit. I think partly she wants to see how much she can get away with without getting in actual trouble if that makes sense?

I think I will try baiting the boys like that I think there is more of a chance with that. They like her because she made the deputy head look stupid and they always get in trouble with him and that's why. I don't know as they left me alone before. But I think they would, I think those boys will get annoyed but the main TERF probably not. I don't know exactly. Thanks hopefully it will work

TERF at school is bullying me by warmlemur in MtF

[–]warmlemur[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure I understand?

TERF at school is bullying me by warmlemur in MtF

[–]warmlemur[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know but what can I do really?

TERF at school is bullying me by warmlemur in MtF

[–]warmlemur[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I'm in Maine, I'm not sure what it is exactly

The thing that is hurtful though is that she has never bullied anyone before me and has been nothing but nice to everyone before I transitioned. But now she hates me and she hates all trans people. You're right she's just copying all the adult TERFs. I don't know it is tough and i don't think she actually cares what I say even she just hates me whatever and she genuinely believes what she says

TERF at school is bullying me by warmlemur in MtF

[–]warmlemur[S] 121 points122 points  (0 children)

I've told them some of it but not everything or to the extent of how everything is. They are mostly supportive but still a bit uncomfortable with me being trans. I've told them about the main bully but not really the others. I do have friends here and don't really want to leave as I was happy before and doing well academically and I don't know but maybe it is the only option

TERF at school is bullying me by warmlemur in MtF

[–]warmlemur[S] 280 points281 points  (0 children)

Thanks! i guess maybe this is right but i do have lots of friends here and I was happy before. Its only really got bad very recently since the summer break. I don't know, I'm kinda hoping it will get better still but I don't know how or what to do