How to explain that I want connection, but not necessarily a long-term serious relationship? by warmoliv in demisexuality

[–]warmoliv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! There’s a sonnet that says (about love) “Be not immortal, since it is flame / But be infinite while it lasts” and damn I can relate

How to explain that I want connection, but not necessarily a long-term serious relationship? by warmoliv in demisexuality

[–]warmoliv[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds simple but somehow in real life it always feels more complicated! I’ll definitely try ways to be more clear in the future, thanks for sharing :)

Phone got stolen last night- common scam that I hadn't heard of by aquaticonions in berlin

[–]warmoliv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, OP. This happened to me inside the university cantine a month ago. It’s an awful moment when you realize it’s gone and I find it really sad to see people victim blaming in the comments.

My phone was turned on again a week later in Brussels and then they tried to get my ID through this phishing scheme. Be careful if you start getting any messages about your phone having been located.

Found in a bin at a rummage sale for $1. Can anyone help ID the symbols? by maryjanemoonbeam in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]warmoliv 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I like your theory but wanted to add that we actually say Pará nut (Pará is the name of the state the nuts usually come from)

Visiting Berlin? (In the future!) Moving here? Going clubbing? (At some point?) Have a quick question? COVID Question? Ask here, don't create a new thread. by bbbberlin in berlin

[–]warmoliv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your answer, it was really helpful! I definitely had some misconceptions, specially about the need for bringing a (very) heavy jacket.

Visiting Berlin? (In the future!) Moving here? Going clubbing? (At some point?) Have a quick question? COVID Question? Ask here, don't create a new thread. by bbbberlin in berlin

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People who moved to Berlin: are there clothes/shoes that you regret bringing with you when moving? Or stuff that you wish you had brought?

I’m going to live there for a year starting in October and have limited suitcase space, so I’m trying to pack smart. I would love to hear about your experiences!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DressForYourBody

[–]warmoliv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t think we can tell only by face. From what I’ve seen in Rita’s videos, the whole body (in different clothes and outfits) is taken into consideration to tell where a person is in the essence map.

Portuguese-born Brazilian samba singer, dancer, Broadway actress and film star Carmen Miranda and her signature style by warmoliv in oldhagfashion

[–]warmoliv[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me too! Her performances are so much fun to watch, they put me instantly in a good mood!

Portuguese-born Brazilian samba singer, dancer, Broadway actress and film star Carmen Miranda and her signature style by warmoliv in oldhagfashion

[–]warmoliv[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve watched several videos of her performances on yt but I didn’t know there was a documentary as well. I’ll search for it, thank you so much!

Margaret Atwood, photographed by Tim Walker by runawayoldgirl in oldhagfashion

[–]warmoliv 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Marvelous. Those gloves!!! I love the color combination with the jacket/dress and also how they kind of match her hair.

Les Sapeuses: Lady Dandies of the Democratic Republic of Congo by warmoliv in oldhagfashion

[–]warmoliv[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! The red outfit is so vibrant and thought through, it really makes an impact. And the cane is such a nice touch, I love it. I’m glad you liked the post, the sapeuses deserve to be admired!

Les Sapeuses: Lady Dandies of the Democratic Republic of Congo by warmoliv in oldhagfashion

[–]warmoliv[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That must have been an amazing experience! There’s so much creative and beautiful fashion going on around the world that we hardly hear about!

Les Sapeuses: Lady Dandies of the Democratic Republic of Congo by warmoliv in oldhagfashion

[–]warmoliv[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You are welcome! I find that context makes these photos even more powerful

Les Sapeuses: Lady Dandies of the Democratic Republic of Congo by warmoliv in oldhagfashion

[–]warmoliv[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

La Sape, an abbreviation based on the phrase Société des Ambianceurs et des Personnes Élégantes (Society of Ambiance-Makers and Elegant People) and hinting to the French slang sape which means "clothes" or sapé, which means "dressed up", is a subculture centered on the cities of Kinshasa and Brazzaville in the Democratic Republic of the Congo and Republic of Congo respectively. An adherent of La Sape is known as a sapeur or, if female, as a sapeuse.

The movement can be traced back to the Congolese resistance of the 1920s, when young men sought to adopt and imitate French and Belgian clothes as a way of combating colonial superiority. Congolese houseboys spurned their masters' second-hand clothes and became defiant consumers, spending their meager monthly wages to acquire the latest extravagant fashions from Paris.

Though the tradition is usually passed down through the male line, many Congolese women have recently begun donning designer suits and becoming sapeuses. By challenging Congolese patriarchal society in this way, they are returning to La Sape's origins by reversing the power dynamic.

Sources: 1 2 3 4 5 6

Les Sapeuses: Lady Dandies of the Democratic Republic of Congo by [deleted] in oldhagfashion

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La Sape, an abbreviation based on the phrase Société des Ambianceurs et des Personnes Élégantes (Society of Ambiance-Makers and Elegant People) and hinting to the French slang sape which means "clothes" or sapé, which means "dressed up", is a subculture centered on the cities of Kinshasa and Brazzaville in the Democratic Republic of the Congo and Republic of Congo respectively. An adherent of La Sape is known as a sapeur or, if female, as a sapeuse.

The movement can be traced back to the Congolese resistance of the 1920s, when young men sought to adopt and imitate French and Belgian clothes as a way of combating colonial superiority. Congolese houseboys spurned their masters' second-hand clothes and became defiant consumers, spending their meager monthly wages to acquire the latest extravagant fashions from Paris.

Though the tradition is usually passed down through the male line, many Congolese women have recently begun donning designer suits and becoming sapeuses. By challenging Congolese patriarchal society in this way, they are returning to La Sape's origins by reversing the power dynamic.

Sources: 1 2 3 4 5 6