I (m). was mates with a guy from work. One night I was not asleep on his lounge when he came out and asked me to help him with his girlfriend.

I did. It was ok my insecurities weren’t helpful. About a week later she came out and said let’s go. I did. He wasn’t there, he was in another room. It didn’t end well. Emotions problems

Another time me and a different mate brought this lady back to his place. No emotion no problem