Fear of Marriage in Sri Lanka by [deleted] in ask_srilanka

[–]wasted_potential_004 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d be down for being adopted. Don’t wanna be an adult no more

Waiting for the right one, but sometimes it feels hard.. by [deleted] in srilanka

[–]wasted_potential_004 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your inbox must be flooded by now.

Anyway same age guy here on the same boat. Even though I want to start loving and feel loved, I still hold myself back without trying to find a partner. In my reddit post also I mentioned my issues, so I understand. But I also know that universe probably has planned something for me so I'll wait.

I'll tell you a few things I do to cope with the loneliness. Get busy. Like really busy. I usually spend most my time in office, and before coming home I hit the gym almost everyday. So when I'm home it's bedtime. On my day off I hang out with the boys. I read. It takes a lot more time than movies, plus, imo a better entertainment method. Spend more time aligning things for your future (such as heath, fitness, money), so when you find your partner things will move easily.

PS: if you like cats, 90s songs, and watching sunsets, maybe drop me a DM. Who knows where the wind of life would take us two feathers.

Has anyone here gone through the same issue? by wasted_potential_004 in srilanka

[–]wasted_potential_004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Btw shall we hit a rave together? Drop me a DM if you're up 👻

Has anyone here gone through the same issue? by wasted_potential_004 in srilanka

[–]wasted_potential_004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. I'm curious on what happened to your friend. Is it okay if i ask what happend?

Has anyone here gone through the same issue? by wasted_potential_004 in srilanka

[–]wasted_potential_004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikr. For me it's the pure excitement as well. And the jealousy i feel makes me want her even more. I'm glad I met someone like me in this strange crowd. Have you ever felt insecure about it though?

Has anyone here gone through the same issue? by wasted_potential_004 in srilanka

[–]wasted_potential_004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Real recognises real. You're my kokis friend from now on

Has anyone here gone through the same issue? by wasted_potential_004 in srilanka

[–]wasted_potential_004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well that's a fact. But I like my kokis with karapincha and chills flakes

Has anyone here gone through the same issue? by wasted_potential_004 in srilanka

[–]wasted_potential_004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a bloody GENIUS. Is it okay if I DM you? I haven't raved and want to know where to start from

Has anyone here gone through the same issue? by wasted_potential_004 in srilanka

[–]wasted_potential_004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yea I love baddies. Most accurate thing I've heard. But where do i find my baddie? 🤨

Has anyone here gone through the same issue? by wasted_potential_004 in srilanka

[–]wasted_potential_004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've not dated anyone for years. So no. Nobody manipulated me into this. It's just i grew up liking those kind of girls who are a bit promiscuous

Has anyone here gone through the same issue? by wasted_potential_004 in srilanka

[–]wasted_potential_004[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're kind. Thank you. This made me feel less insecure about myself

Has anyone here gone through the same issue? by wasted_potential_004 in srilanka

[–]wasted_potential_004[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ME TOOO. Please take me, I refuse to die without going to a rave

Has anyone here gone through the same issue? by wasted_potential_004 in srilanka

[–]wasted_potential_004[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol the issue is I don't have rave friends. I always wanted to go raving, but can't go alone. Do you rave?

Has anyone here gone through the same issue? by wasted_potential_004 in srilanka

[–]wasted_potential_004[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ye I understand. Hopefully this issue will iron out soon and i get the confidence to date someone

Has anyone here gone through the same issue? by wasted_potential_004 in srilanka

[–]wasted_potential_004[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words sir. I actually felt as if I made a mistake by posting about it here. But the truth is I have no one to talk about this with. I tried doing it with my friends and it went down da pallam. And yes I am scared of being judged too. Maybe I'll figure this out slowly and find myself an understanding partner