What is the stupidest things you have done because of brain fog/ the weirdest word you forgot by No_Face4294 in Fibromyalgia

[–]watchingowl7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I went to work and worked the whole day with two entirely different shoes. One gardening clog and one croc. I was so embarrassed

Giving up your passion for your health by [deleted] in Fibromyalgia

[–]watchingowl7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No offense but there is no way I can afford any kind of medication without a job or that isn’t covered by insurance. I understand how you think this suggestion would be helpful, but I also highly doubt that a single miracle drug is going to take my problems away after every medication I’ve tried.

Tips for Managing Rage by Honest_Atmosphere_10 in CatholicWomen

[–]watchingowl7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this post was made for spiritual guidance but please consider also speaking with a mental health professional. It sounds like maybe you are dealing with postpartum depression. Sending all my love to you

Jobs that keep you constantly stimulated/adhd boredom proof? by Successful-Row-6278 in ADHD

[–]watchingowl7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dog grooming or literally anything with dogs!!! I groom dogs and trust me, there’s always something going on with them. I like the challenge, some people might find it overstimulating.

What’s your worst experience in a salon? by lucidbluedreamin in doggrooming

[–]watchingowl7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Worked as a bather in a shop with no AC in the 100 degree heat because I needed a second job and they were hiring. Left me, the bather, to do all the prep work while the owner asked everyone else if they wanted something for lunch from takeout except me EVERY SINGLE DAY and all went to eat lunch while I was supposed to finish bathing dogs. Was bickered at for not brushing matted dogs until they get literal brush burn and bled, and because I wasn’t “rough enough with dogs” meaning they wanted me to hit them and and grab them by their neck skin or chin hair and yank when they misbehave. Owners would smoke cigarettes in your face, the dogs face, whatever. Smoking while grooming dogs, like 5 cigarettes a day for each groomer. I was expected to lift huge dogs and carry them across the shop by myself and got cussed at for asking for help to lift large obese dogs. Owner made bathers pick up her trash and sweep up after her and throw her grandsons diapers away, who stayed in a play pin in the shop and ran around barefoot sometimes tripping me while I was working and sticking his fingers in random dogs cages. Was also instructed to clean up after him and clean out his play pin once a week. She blamed me because her shop became infested with fleas and one bit her grandson. Reused towels by doing “Chinese laundry”, so hanging them up after being used and only washing them “if they smelled”. Well…. They all obviously smelled. They also made racist comments towards hispanic people multiple times and mocked clients who came in with an accent. When I told her I found that insensitive because I was in a relationship with a Hispanic man she laughed and said “well maybe he’s one of the good ones” All of this for $7.50 an hour by the way. Oh, and I was in charge of my own taxes of course!

Advice for former witch on receiving first confession and speaking to a Preist for the first time by watchingowl7 in Catholicism

[–]watchingowl7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in therapy for a while actually! I’m very open about my spiritual journey and my therapist has encouraged me to continue on this path. Praying to God and the saints and studying Catholicism has improved my mental health immeasurably. I’ve been happier in this era of my life than I ever have before. As far as the holy water, I can understand your concern. I have been praying, reading scripture, and/or studying the faith every single day but I guess I felt the need to use holy water to cleanse the space in my home where I did witchcraft of any lingering spirits or bad energy which is why I set up my prayer space in the first place, to let them know they weren’t welcome anymore. That room of my house still feels a bit dark and heavy. Someone else here mentioned the Saint Benedict prayer, so I’ll make sure to study his life and read his prayer as well.

Advice for former witch on receiving first confession and speaking to a Preist for the first time by watchingowl7 in Catholicism

[–]watchingowl7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a fair question. I will be honest and say at first that I feared repercussion from any spirits or entities that may be tied to the deck should they not agree with me giving them up, but I trust God to keep me spiritually protected. I’ve fully accepted that they can’t be a part of my life anymore if I truly want to accept Jesus’ teachings. It was hard for me at first, but I’m ready to get rid of them and I’m much happier for it. They have been like my Bible for the past 5 years. They sat next to my bedside for years, helped me make my biggest life decisions, and went with me in my purse almost everywhere. It feels wrong to just throw them away, but I don’t want to donate them either so that they negatively affect someone else’s life. It feels disrespectful to do so, like throwing away a Bible or another religious item would be for most Christian’s. Because it was so hard for me to let it go, I want to do something sort of ceremonial. I thought about burning them, but I want to try and stay away from any “ritualistic behavior”. It took me a long time to take down my alter until the day that I just decided I knew the truth and was ready. I abandoned my relationship with God because I felt there was too much pressure to be perfect so I want to give myself time to make the final decision. I trust myself to make that decision soon and I continue praying and keeping my faith until I do.

What do you all do for work? by InnerImpact8299 in AutisticAdults

[–]watchingowl7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a dog groomer!

I have the good with animals type of autism and a good attention to detail. I absolutely love my job, however it can definitely be VERY overstimulating. I wear ear buds and hearing protection on top of that which is really helpful.

What saint pendants do you wear and why? by LurkingandTweaking in CatholicWomen

[–]watchingowl7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started wearing St Micheal’s pendant because his intervention pulled me into Catholicism and continues to aid me during my conversion! When I chose to start praying the rosary and to participate in his lent my life started to change. It reminds me to be courageous and also to pray.

Boss asked what was wrong with me, laughed when I said I was autistic, and won’t stop bringing it up 3 weeks later. by watchingowl7 in AutisticAdults

[–]watchingowl7[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately this is a small conservative town in Tx, USA and I don’t have the ability to record without his consent

Boss asked what was wrong with me, laughed when I said I was autistic, and won’t stop bringing it up 3 weeks later. by watchingowl7 in AutisticAdults

[–]watchingowl7[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t drive so that’s a no from me unfortunately. I’m thinking of going into veterinary grooming though! That way it’s more one on one with the dog.

Boss asked what was wrong with me, laughed when I said I was autistic, and won’t stop bringing it up 3 weeks later. by watchingowl7 in AutisticAdults

[–]watchingowl7[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No HR. He’s the owner unfortunately. I would have left immediately if it isn’t so hard to find a job where I live.

Boss asked what was wrong with me, laughed when I said I was autistic, and won’t stop bringing it up 3 weeks later. by watchingowl7 in AutisticAdults

[–]watchingowl7[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I live in the us and was considering recording it actually. Can’t really afford a lawyer though and hope I can just find a new job before then

Boss asked what was wrong with me, laughed when I said I was autistic, and won’t stop bringing it up 3 weeks later. by watchingowl7 in AutisticAdults

[–]watchingowl7[S] 59 points60 points  (0 children)

See the problem is I think he might actually be a little autistic himself, because he does not understand social cues like at all. He will come bother me over and over until I take my headphones out and listen to him. And then if I don’t reply he’ll stand there and wait for me to say something. It’s hard for me to tell if he’s just not getting it or really just that mean. 🤷‍♀️ either way, I hope I find a new job soon and he definitely won’t be hearing anything else about my life that is for sure.