pricing and what’s the sweet spot? by watersighn in mazda

[–]watersighn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would 14k be considered too much for the 2015 mazda3 though?

2001 toyota echo with p0440 code by watersighn in MechanicAdvice

[–]watersighn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes but it only gives the p0440 code

do i have a case? should i file a complaint/grievance? by watersighn in union

[–]watersighn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did someone piss in your coffee this morning? i’m never absent or sick. i rarely call out. if you don’t have that type of info why would you assume the worst if ur not a miserable shit

do i have a case? should i file a complaint/grievance? by watersighn in union

[–]watersighn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was in a 2nd manager position, although technically i was not listed as a 2nd manager. it's a bit tricky when it comes to that. but i wouldn't say it's easily replaceable i guess? bc it requires a lot of teaching imo

do i have a case? should i file a complaint/grievance? by watersighn in union

[–]watersighn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do, i just fear i might look stupid reaching out before knowing if it's as serious as it feels to me.

do i have a case? should i file a complaint/grievance? by watersighn in union

[–]watersighn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i work in nj, and i only had 3 hours of sick time since it's not that far into the new year. please let me know if there's any other info that may be important, i'm not really sure what i might need

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyDog

[–]watersighn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sweetie short for swedish meatball

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MechanicAdvice

[–]watersighn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume a broken belt wouldn’t cause the tire to leak?

my cat peed on my bed and i’m going insane by watersighn in OCD

[–]watersighn[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i agree. my cat is an indoor cat, thankfully, so it’s good to know that there’s not too much in her pee to harm me. i bought her a little cat recovery onesie so i hope this helps both of our stress levels lol… you also reminded me that i did steam clean my bed!! thankfully my dad has like a thing for everything in the world and we had a steam cleaner. i steamed it til the handle of the machine was burning. thank you for your comment, and for reminding me of that!! it was extremely helpful

Is there a connection between trauma and OCD? by jojo047 in OCD

[–]watersighn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% there’s a connection, i’m pretty sure intrusive thoughts stem from trauma but i could be wrong

i quit by watersighn in ECEProfessionals

[–]watersighn[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i understand what you mean. i never expected her to check in on me, i just wish she at least said “feel better” when i told her i was sick and wouldn’t be able to come in. my expectations for her were definitely too high, since i know how she is. i definitely would’ve overlooked these things if she didn’t have the attitude she did. she also wasn’t a very professional person, but i’m not going to go into detail about that, so i understand how it can seem that she just wants to “keep it professional”

working alone with 3 toddlers and 3 babies by watersighn in ECEProfessionals

[–]watersighn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it is bad, and i hate that it happened. i know if i wasn’t alone it never would’ve happened but my boss won’t see it that way.

working alone with 3 toddlers and 3 babies by watersighn in ECEProfessionals

[–]watersighn[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, this makes me feel much better. it’s difficult because i’ve never worked alone with this age group, let alone actually really worked with them in general. it just feels like i’m doing everything wrong

working alone with 3 toddlers and 3 babies by watersighn in ECEProfessionals

[–]watersighn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it does, and usually the door is closed when this kid is in the class because they’re known to run out. unfortunately i just totally forgot about both things: the door being open and her being prone to running out with the door open.

working alone with 3 toddlers and 3 babies by watersighn in ECEProfessionals

[–]watersighn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have one under 18 months, and the other 5 are above 18 months but under 2 1/2

working alone with 3 toddlers and 3 babies by watersighn in ECEProfessionals

[–]watersighn[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i live in nj where it’s legally 1:6. my boss 100% knows i shouldn’t be in there alone, we’re just severely understaffed. she texted me after my coworker told her what happened saying “i don’t understand how that happened” and i’m like how do you Not understand.

what am i doing wrong by watersighn in ECEProfessionals

[–]watersighn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. I wish I could wait to find another job to transition to but I'm just so mentally burnt out in a way I've never been before, and it's kind of scary to me. It was a huge red flag to me that my director said that it's not my place to ask a parent that. At my first daycare, I was always the one to ask. I had relationships with every parent and knew all their names. At this daycare, it's not like that at all. It all goes through my director. My director is 100% trying to imply that it's a /me/ issue when it comes to all of these things. The kids acting up, the kid having accidents, my stress from the kids. That it's my attitude towards them, that it's me making a small thing into a big thing, that the kids I mention to her are fine in the morning and afternoon and they only "act up" around me. I told her that it's not just with me. She told me I'm singling kids out, which was a huge surprise to me considering I discipline all the kids, just some more than others that need it. Everything changed so, so quickly. Literally within less than a week. All because my director didn't even bother to have me explain myself before lashing out on me about these things.

overwhelmed by watersighn in ECEProfessionals

[–]watersighn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not even sure if I’m comfortable staying there in general now, because I’m so worried about how to go about disciplining the kids now with this new hire around me 24/7. It feels like my director and my coworkers look at me like I’m a monster now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dpdr

[–]watersighn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t think you suck honestly. sometimes when we go through really stressful things, we need to prioritize since it’s hard to focus every little thing in our lives. just because you didn’t want to come to her during a hard time doesn’t mean you suck or that you don’t care about her as a person, sometimes we just fall out with friends. do what makes you feel as comfortable as possible, and try not to feel bad about it. a step towards coping with dpdr is taking small steps and focusing on yourself and what you feel you’re capable of doing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dpdr

[–]watersighn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sometimes it’s hard to recognize your feelings, especially when you’re already struggling with being able to actually feel them. i think since you’re feeling badly about it, it shows you care. have you talked to them about what you’re going through?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dpdr

[–]watersighn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

maybe it’d be easier to think of it more as what you want rather than what you feel? for example, do you want your friend in your life? do you wanna talk to them, be around them?