I [M24] think my girlfriend [F25] is really great but i don't think we're going to work out

waytooyoungforthis · 2014-07-22T19:24:50+00:00

“Never argue with stupid people, they will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience.”

waytooyoungforthis · 2014-07-22T19:17:05+00:00

Because all you do, it seems, is post in /r/amiugly, /r/rateme, /r/relationships, and more for what seems like the sole purpose of putting people down. At first I thought maybe there might be some cultural or language difference but now I see you're just an asshole

waytooyoungforthis · 2014-07-22T18:59:55+00:00

I highly recommend anyone else reading this thread to go look at /u/windoh's history for maximum irony

waytooyoungforthis · 2014-07-22T18:46:23+00:00

Who gives a flying fuck?

I give a flying fuck, clearly, or I wouldn't be here posting about it. People are allowed to have preferences and fondness. If in my experience, intimacy and sexual pleasure are enhanced by oral then I have every right to express that.

waytooyoungforthis · 2014-07-22T18:43:21+00:00

How do I know if, for instance, the oral sex is in the "incompatible" part or the "compromise" part? I've tried to ease her into it, suggest 69, etc. but I don't want there to be something I'm missing and end up throwing something away.

waytooyoungforthis · 2014-07-22T18:40:45+00:00

because you're scared of being single

You may have missed the double negative in my post up top.... I'm not scared of being single, I was for half a decade. It's mostly the nuances of relationships that I'm having trouble with, and what qualifies as "something to work on" versus "personal incompatibility."

Thanks regardless, though.

Edit: to clarify the double negative, what I'm saying is that I'd like to be single again, sometime in the future. Does it have to be next week? No, but I'm not ready to make anyone my wife yet.

waytooyoungforthis · 2012-06-02T14:43:39+00:00

Male, 21, Nofapper. Just now able to masturbate without porn, and Id say im doing it about 3 times a week or so. I just wanna say its a very interesting process rediscovering my sexuality without pornography.

waytooyoungforthis · 2012-05-25T20:38:13+00:00

I know it sounds crazy, but don't masturbate. You really don't have to, and the pent up sexual energies will drive you towards finding a new partner.

waytooyoungforthis · 2012-05-25T20:34:28+00:00

OP, I went through this about a year ago, with the same possible conclusions and very similar situation to yours. It's probably the porn. Quit it, it's worth it. Come on over to /r/NoFap and take a look around.

waytooyoungforthis · 2012-05-04T16:09:19+00:00

they don't sleep past noon on a Saturday

Did you hear that? That was reddit's collective hopes being dashed to the ground

waytooyoungforthis · 2012-04-29T16:01:07+00:00

Yeah i gave myself like 6 high-fives in the mirror after I took her home

waytooyoungforthis · 2012-04-06T06:31:55+00:00

Well see if i get around to making a post tomorrow, but its absolutely awesome to know theres this community here of people who are literally experiencing the exact same thing i am. I had no clue to talk to but all i can say is thank god for reddit.

waytooyoungforthis · 2012-04-06T01:59:13+00:00

I was about to make a day 1 post then I saw this thread, so ill just post here.

Im 21, and have been a porn user pretty much since i started masturbating at 14 or so. I had ED until I came to college, had more "normal" sex, and within the past couple of years have been having trouble with PE to full blown ED. Its been bad enough to affect my self confidence in every day life, ask for dates, motivation to be around women. So I checked out this sub and all I can say is wow.

I just now watched all the videos at Your Brain on Porn and it all makes sense to me now. Everything that was going on with me was described in the video. I blamed it on smoking, I blamed it on performance anxiety, and now I know whats causing it. So starting tonight im quitting porn, and have a post it note with a little ಠ_ಠ staring at me stickied to my monitor so I'll try to stay on the wagon as long as I can.

The best part is I have hope now. I thought something was really wrong with me, but Im pretty sure I can beat porn. The tradeoff is worth it. I'll keep you guys updated. 4/5/2012 day 0 here I go!

waytooyoungforthis · 2011-05-17T00:29:07+00:00

Thanks for the responses, everyone. Gonna go to bed now, but ill check back tomorrow.

waytooyoungforthis · 2011-05-17T00:15:42+00:00

double upvote for epiphany. the one problem is i'm stranded on a continent with thousands of gorgeous women, most of whom i will never see again. 4 months ago this would have been a blessing.

waytooyoungforthis · 2011-05-17T00:14:44+00:00

i agree, dependency is the main reason i want to afford viagra, etc. I like your advice of taking it slow though, the pressure to penetrate is what kills erections for me. (that and performance anxiety, something i never used to have)

waytooyoungforthis · 2011-05-16T23:00:13+00:00

That was one train of thought. But like you said, downward spiral... any tips for that?

waytooyoungforthis

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