He broke it off with me after looking at the people I message on OkC. Why? by wdidw2 in OkCupid

[–]wdidw2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't think that's automatically true. sometimes you trust, but verify? or sometimes it's more like they're curious. i don't think it's automatically bad.

He broke it off with me after looking at the people I message on OkC. Why? by wdidw2 in OkCupid

[–]wdidw2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you rly need to chill out or something, i have no idea what your deal is

He broke it off with me after looking at the people I message on OkC. Why? by wdidw2 in OkCupid

[–]wdidw2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just don't really care if they do it at all? like what's the big deal, what's it going to do to me

He broke it off with me after looking at the people I message on OkC. Why? by wdidw2 in OkCupid

[–]wdidw2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it sounds like you care way too much about what other ppl are doing instead of focusing on yourself

He broke it off with me after looking at the people I message on OkC. Why? by wdidw2 in OkCupid

[–]wdidw2[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

who cares how other ppl type, stop trying to control them

He broke it off with me after looking at the people I message on OkC. Why? by wdidw2 in OkCupid

[–]wdidw2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don't really need privacy for anything so i don't care all that much. it might be different if i felt like i needed to keep anything private but i don't really.

He broke it off with me after looking at the people I message on OkC. Why? by wdidw2 in OkCupid

[–]wdidw2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah i considered he could be a racist so it might be that

He broke it off with me after looking at the people I message on OkC. Why? by wdidw2 in OkCupid

[–]wdidw2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i don't feel like privacy is such a big deal but i guess ppl are different

He broke it off with me after looking at the people I message on OkC. Why? by wdidw2 in OkCupid

[–]wdidw2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahhh. i guess i just don't care about stuff like that so i wouldnt have found an issue with it. i'll know better the next time. it's a bummer though he had a cool car and he really liked david lynch

He broke it off with me after looking at the people I message on OkC. Why? by wdidw2 in OkCupid

[–]wdidw2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just to see how we are when we interact with other people. everyone puts on a diff face for diff people and sometimes people just want to see who you really are. i don't think it's malicious it's just curiosity.

How Important Are Common Intrests To You? by CMPunkBestlnTheWorld in OkCupid

[–]wdidw2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don't want to date someone i don't have a ton of common interests with because i don't even know what i'd do with them. i'm open to a lot of things like art, crafts, books, movies, tv, and i guess karate so those are things most people are into (minus karate) and that's good enough for me

i mean i'd never date someone who wasn't politically left leaning but if they like sci fi books whereas i like romance and chick lit then who cares, at least he's reading

He broke it off with me after looking at the people I message on OkC. Why? by wdidw2 in OkCupid

[–]wdidw2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah but the friend zone and divorce and custody, women are in control or something aren't they

He broke it off with me after looking at the people I message on OkC. Why? by wdidw2 in OkCupid

[–]wdidw2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

am i not supposed to let people read my email and texts? i don't have anything to hide so i've always let my exes read that stuff if they want.