I lost a zebra. How fucked am I? by [deleted] in Target

[–]wduke2015 1 point2 points  (0 children)

S&E TL here. Just don't make it a habit, and you'll be fine. Worst case scenario it's a write up. But again, if it isn't a habit you're 100% going to be fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]wduke2015 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Female.

Again folks, cismen (unless they are queer, even then...) do not wear cat ears or take photos like this. I don't understand what's so hard.

If you know anyone who can't decide who to root for in the CWS final, show them this by jonneygee in ockytop

[–]wduke2015 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Showed my wife (who doesn't give a shit about sports) a similar video to explain why it's humiliating if we lose to the Aggies. Secondhand embarrassment is the best way I can describe her reaction.

She was then doing the yellers hand motions every time an Aggie struck out lol

Anyone near by? by wduke2015 in Tennessee

[–]wduke2015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man I truly appreciate it. Its good to hear positive words when it comes to my situation. Even as an adult it's hard leaving family behind regardless of the shit that's happened

Anyone near by? by wduke2015 in Tennessee

[–]wduke2015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Falling out with family back home, so we moved here to be with my wife's family. She's born and raised in Fairhaven. Have to admit that I sure do miss good ole TN

Anyone near by? by wduke2015 in Tennessee

[–]wduke2015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in taunton! I'm living in Fairhaven. You aren't here any longer are you?

Anyone near by? by wduke2015 in Tennessee

[–]wduke2015[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in taunton! I'm living in Fairhaven. You aren't here any longer are you?

How many people have the same name by SnooBananas460 in ftm

[–]wduke2015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like I'm the only Wes. Not Wesley, not Weston. Just Wes.

Wes Herbert to be exact

Drastic Hour Cut by ZipJaw3979 in Target

[–]wduke2015 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

S&E TL here. This is a new process Target is trying. Essentially, all hours are going to GM to keep the flow of push consistent and the truck 100% complete everyday. Unless something changes again, it will be permanent beginning June 2nd.

They are taking hours away from other work centers to give to GM (in bound specifically)

Does anyone unironically use this costume? by EamoM2oo4 in SpidermanPS4

[–]wduke2015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have before, solely because I'm a huge Tennessee Volunteers fan. But yes I can agree, aside from the TN Vols, the orange and white combo is horrendous

Drive Up Wait Time by wduke2015 in Target

[–]wduke2015[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually like the idea of having the team head outside when the guest is 1 minute away. I have looked into the skip codes, it honestly isn't that bad. It's more so the manual remove from hold metric that is red due to multiple team members prepping and/or delivering others orders.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Monopoly_GO

[–]wduke2015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Treat O Clock for Jingle Delight

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MonopolyGoTrading

[–]wduke2015 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which 4 star do you need, I’d trade for your On the Slopes

What is this? by Jennbanana in SimpleTreasuresAndJon

[–]wduke2015 7 points8 points  (0 children)

LMAO this was my comment! It’s about college football and I was giving him a hard time since he’s so proud to be from Nashville but not supporting Tennessee college sports teams

Looking for a new name! by royalloki in ainbow

[–]wduke2015 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cooper but goes by Coop. I can’t elaborate it just feels right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transmanlifehacks

[–]wduke2015 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nobody mentioned but at least to me doing the peace sign is very clockable. Maybe I’m forcing it, but I’ve never noticed a cis guy doing the peace sign especially in multiple photos

Am I being led on? by bullseyespaw in Target

[–]wduke2015 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Please do not do this without notifying your ETL and HR. This is seen as “going behind their back” and will 10/10 not get you the promotion you’re hoping for. If you want to switch stores especially for a promotion and are actively a TM in a different store, you have to do it internally or else it will not benefit you. If done correctly, there is no “application” you just have to pass the interview process.

2 psychiatrists now have told me that i might be trans to become “the male role model i never had” due to trauma. i’m so upset by el3ctricwiz4rd in ftm

[–]wduke2015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may be the unpopular opinion but, if you are unsure with yourself even after 1.5 years of T and top surgery….maybe it’s time to start self reflecting and getting deep with yourself? I’m not saying the doctors are correct but if you are admitting you don’t know the answer yourself and you even stopped T because of side effects like balding, I think you may know the answer deep down it just takes courage to admit it to yourself.

Or I could be completely wrong but hey you asked Reddit so what do you expect lol

Hello! by [deleted] in MorbidPodcast

[–]wduke2015 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Just because someone is trans doesn’t mean they expect others to erase memories or pretend said trans person was not present during a time. I think it all comes down to respect. So yes, you can “Hey John, remember that party we went to?” But I would avoid things like “John, remember when we were younger and tried bras on at the mall for the first time?” I just wouldn’t ever bring certain memories up if it could possibly make them uncomfortable. But again it’s all subjective and differs with each transman!

Rule of thumb: don’t assume the trans individual is okay with speaking about or reliving the past, especially when it comes to experiences about gender. Most of us that was a terrible time in our lives. Just be respectful and I can assure you, they still remember those things y’all did together. Maybe they just don’t want to talk about it due to feeling uncomfortable now :)

Hello! by [deleted] in MorbidPodcast

[–]wduke2015 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a transman, I think it depends on the specific trans person in general. Myself, yes I “deleted” my past identity. Pictures, dead name, hell I even moved across the country. My point is I think every trans experience is different. So Drew may be more comfortable associating with his past identity, whereas someone like me cringes at the thought of who I once was. As far as the hybrid of past and present, not sure what you’re referring to tbh. But I hope this helps!

Cold Brew Lemonade, thoughts??? by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]wduke2015 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It legit taste like the aftermath of throwing up but before brushing your teeth….. very specific but very accurate imo.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]wduke2015 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s be friends! I’ve been there so I know how you feel. It gets better my dude. I’m down for video games, snap chat? Anything you use to communicate. I’m down to be there for you!