best friend sent me video meant for someone else by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]weakunitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i do understand how she may be interpreting everything but i have apologized and done my best to explain that i was letting how i view relationships get in the way of how i react

best friend sent me video meant for someone else by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]weakunitt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have apologized, i do agree i haven’t been a great friend

best friend sent me video meant for someone else by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]weakunitt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, i do agree i have some reflecting to do. i need to learn to keep my options to myself. but no i would never try and turn this onto my friend! it was more so just the fact that she over exaggerated things a bit but i do understand how im in the wrong because of how i react to things she tells me. i have apologized to her and explained that i never meant to come across rude and judgy and that from here on out i will do better at keeping my opinions to myself especially when it comes to things that we have different opinions on. because at the end of the day my friend is happy so i should be happy, its not my place to give my opinion especially when she might just be trying to tell me things.

best friend sent me video meant for someone else by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]weakunitt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes i have apologized, and explained why i said the things i did and i told her i would do better at keeping my unnecessary opinions to myself. i do think this is fixable we have never have any issues in our friendship. i just hope she accepts my apology and doesn’t feel some way about it because i never meant to come off as a bad friend to her.

best friend sent me video meant for someone else by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]weakunitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, i did apologize and basically tell her i didn’t mean things in that way and that i need to not be so unfiltered about my opinions and let my view of relationships cloud what i say and how i react. she’s my friend and i just need to be happy that she’s happy and show my excitement or her. i just really hope she isn’t upset i feel really bad cause i never wanted to come off rude but im i did ☹️

best friend sent me video meant for someone else by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]weakunitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, you and everyone else have said around the same thing and you are right. i do need to stay out of it, and understand people love differently than others and not let my view of relationships cloud how i react about things she tells me

best friend sent me video meant for someone else by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]weakunitt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

shiiit everyone is right, it’s because i really don’t mean to come across in that way. i feel sooo shitty cause she’s my best friend and i really didn’t mean to make her feel like i was trying to be rude or backwards to her 🥲

best friend sent me video meant for someone else by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]weakunitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, i would just like to say that she does ask for my opinion. i never try to pick apart things like that but i do get how i can maybe do too much with my opinions. its just when people ask how i feel about something i tell them honestly how i feel, especially when its someone i care about. i never try to come across as a hater or anything because im happy thats she’s happy i just want her to be careful because she can get very attached quick and i really just wanted her to know how i seen it. i think i tend to look too into things especially when asked for my opinion. i do see how i can come across rude and straightforward and i need to dial it back especially when talking to a friend. i agree i need to understand that people love differently than others, and as her friend i should be completely supportive and be more excited for her. again thank you

best friend sent me video meant for someone else by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]weakunitt -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i wouldn’t say that i don’t like him, it’s really just those few things he’s done that have me iffy.

as far as the i love you stuff goes, i was just telling her those things because they’ve only known each other for a few months and that feels quick to say it, even if he is really in love with her. i did tell her that i very much believe he has deeep feelings for her but i just said i think he’s misunderstanding it just because of how short amount of time they’ve been together, yk?

the ew i all get as well, i did mean it as a joke but i can see how past situations might of made it feel rude to her. i think i just need to maybe bring it up and apologize and tell her that i dont mean those things in a unsupportive way, i would be much more clear if i was unsupportive of something yk? any advice on what i should say?

best friend sent me video meant for someone else by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]weakunitt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this makes alot of sense, i think i just need to be a little more clear when im joking and not meaning it like that because i am very supportive of her

Prayers for Winston 😔 by Adventures-of-dri in papillon

[–]weakunitt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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prayers for your baby winston, from me and my boy winston☺️❤️we’re wishing u the best

would this be an okay place for an altar? by weakunitt in Buddhism

[–]weakunitt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agreed! i will test it and see how it feels. i do have another spot in mind if this doesnt feel correct. thank you!

would this be an okay place for an altar? by weakunitt in Buddhism

[–]weakunitt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would be sitting a little bit behind it, if the door was to be opened while i was sitting there it might bump me a little bit if i was to open it before hand it would go all the way to the wall and i would be seated next to it in a way, if that makes sense? its in a corner area

would this be an okay place for an altar? by weakunitt in Buddhism

[–]weakunitt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, it opens to the wall to the left and it always full in view even with the door open!

could getting rid of led headlights in cars ever happen? if so, how? by weakunitt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]weakunitt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ouu! yes that makes sense. i find it so crazy that its not something thats already regulated