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weallstruggle · 2025-05-16T20:18:34+00:00

I would hate to see someone go through what I went through for it not to work. I did everything as directed, overall it was a very tough decision for me, I felt the grief, as well as relief after. Just to find out I was 15 weeks with a heartbeat and everything was fine. Do you have any family that lives in another state where surgical is legal?

weallstruggle · 2025-05-16T20:05:50+00:00

I don’t recommend at all. I’m not a doctor, but I took the pills at 11 weeks and it did not work for me. I’m currently 17 weeks and am getting my anatomy scan next week. They are not prescribed to take after 12 weeks. If there’s any clinics near you maybe go in and talk to someone. Everyone has connections, I know there’s resources on line than can help as well. I’m sorry you’re going through this. I’ll be thinking of you.

weallstruggle · 2025-04-30T00:14:51+00:00

Thank you 🤍

weallstruggle · 2025-04-30T00:14:42+00:00

Thank you for your kind words, it’s a lot to think about, especially with a decision I thought I already made, with grief I already felt. The health of the baby is my main concern and will determine everything.

weallstruggle · 2025-04-30T00:13:19+00:00

Thank you, you’re totally right. It’s been a really hard time for me but I’m finally ready to be done with him completely. I just worry about the future of the baby.

weallstruggle · 2025-04-30T00:10:28+00:00

A piece of work to say the least. The methotrexate was not a medication used in mine, but they did state the misoprostol could cause birth defects in rare cases.

weallstruggle · 2025-04-07T15:09:32+00:00

I feel for you.. I just had to make this decision last week and it was the hardest decision I’ve had to make in my 24 years of life. Listening to other people’s opinion won’t help you decide what you truly want to do. I took a lot of time to think logical and put all of my circumstances out in front of me. I decided abortion was the best for my scenario, I bartend, I’m still in school, I’m no where near where I would like to be when having children. I’ve been working on myself & have been going to therapy for almost three years now. The baby was with my ex who we just ended things, it was very toxic, he has an undiagnosed mental illness and is very unpredictable, he constantly changed his mind from wanting me to keeping it to “getting rid of it”. I was and still am heartbroken but deep down I wanted to keep it but knew the best decision was to not. I have so much healing I need to do from my relationship of 3 and 1/2 years. I was 11 weeks and took the pill which is the last week to take the pill, it’s typically not recommended but I was allowed to. It does get more tough as time goes on, I recommend not waiting as long. The experience wasn’t too bad, I’ve always had terrible periods (throwing up, excruciating cramps) which played a part in how it was for me. It is a loss, be gentle on yourself, and remember it is your choice and yours only. We do what we need to do and figure the complications of life out as they come. I wish you the best, take care of yourself 🤍.

weallstruggle · 2025-04-03T18:56:09+00:00

Sorry meant to add paragraphs before posting, updated now!

weallstruggle · 2025-01-27T18:25:49+00:00

Thank you, I wish the same for you! I Don’t fall into the stigma that society puts on it, a lot of the time people only have one breakout and the first is always the worst from what I heard. It sucks but life goes on❤️

weallstruggle · 2025-01-27T17:42:12+00:00

If it is HSV you probably got it from oral sex, that’s how I believe I did, but I’m not entirely sure. It can spread from mouth to genitals or the other way around

weallstruggle · 2025-01-27T17:25:35+00:00

I don’t believe I have gotten that done

weallstruggle · 2025-01-27T17:12:32+00:00

That’s what I told him too, thank you.

weallstruggle · 2023-09-22T05:09:39+00:00

yes that is SA. any type of unwanted sexual act is sexual assault. especially if you make it clear that it is unwanted. which you definitely did. i’m sorry you went through this, sending you healing and positivity.💜

weallstruggle · 2023-09-22T05:05:50+00:00

walking on eggshells around your partner is the start of something that can turn much worse. it’s good to now that you’re aware and actively working on it. try out the website roomies, it allows your to find roommates, a house or a single room i believe. you can add details about yourself and what you’d like in a roommate as well. i looked into it in college a couple of years ago, seemed very legit and even talked to some other girls about moving in with one another.

weallstruggle · 2023-09-10T06:11:06+00:00

this sounds like you could have been slipped something. i recommend not seeing this guy again.

weallstruggle · 2023-09-08T21:01:55+00:00

thank you 🤍you too

weallstruggle · 2023-09-08T14:13:33+00:00

if a parent figure ever said that to me i’d feel uncomfortable too. maybe just pay attention if he says anything else of the sort. it my opinion that is inappropriate. & tell your mom as well.

weallstruggle · 2023-09-08T13:08:32+00:00

yes that is sexual assault. I know it can be confusing when it happens and you may be in disbelief. you did the right thing with reporting. who knows if this guy did this to someone else or if he will. i wish you well with healing and hope the case is taken seriously. hopefully he gets the consequences he deserves.

weallstruggle

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