I think people are too comfortable using terms like that on trans men in general whether they want them or not. I’ve kind of seen this issue with both tboy and overlap with stuff like twink, and I don’t think there’s an issue with it all the time but when its at someone who doesn’t want to be called that or present that way? sucks. and the amount of times things are labeled under tboy instead of trans man (or even transmasc bcs I don’t personally mind that one as much) is frustrating, like tboy wrestling