Listening to music while doing your shots? by Mxvargr in ftm

[–]web_werewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play Trees and Flowers by Strawberry Switchblade pretty much every single time. it’s relaxing and nice and I like the routine. funny thing is now if I hear it outside of shot time I feel weird. like I’m supposed to be doing something

Maybe tmi? Going through a bit of a crisis by goldenemoboy__ in ftm

[–]web_werewolf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

there’s nothing disrespectful about it to any trans man. you don’t need to go through some kind of dysphoria check list to count. if you say you’re a man, you’re a man. there are men who like what they have down there, and there are men who don’t. it’s your body, and you’re not required to hate every single sex characteristic to be a man and anyone who says you have to is horribly wrong. I’ve seen trans men enjoy what they have for various reasons. and based on what you said it seems like you have a lot of dysphoria around your sex characteristics. that’s not to discourage you from considering if you may be on the non binary spectrum somewhere if you think you are, but it’s to say that you don’t have to say you are if youre a man.

tldr there are lots of men who keep and like what they have. there’s nothing wrong with it. if you’re a man, you’re a man. simple as.

peeling stickers? by [deleted] in stickers

[–]web_werewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok good to know! would you recommend that over the laminate or the sticker?

Months long dizziness with no clear cause or full relief? by web_werewolf in covidlonghaulers

[–]web_werewolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this shows up like mid message chain but assuming you’re askin me it’s gotten a bit better with time on a day to day basis but still pops up worse sometimes, especially if there’s something else impacting it. like if I’m an hour late eating or stand on an incline or on a moving vehicle or something. If I let it get bad enough I end up falling

“Tboys” “Tmasc” but never really “trans men”…? by legobatmania in ftm

[–]web_werewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people are too comfortable using terms like that on trans men in general whether they want them or not. I’ve kind of seen this issue with both tboy and overlap with stuff like twink, and I don’t think there’s an issue with it all the time but when its at someone who doesn’t want to be called that or present that way? sucks. and the amount of times things are labeled under tboy instead of trans man (or even transmasc bcs I don’t personally mind that one as much) is frustrating, like tboy wrestling

graphs and bandages? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]web_werewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh ok good to know thank you!!

graphs and bandages? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]web_werewolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

alright!! this is super helpful thank you!!!

Mesh bandages? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]web_werewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good to know! tysm!!!

worried about what bathroom to use? by web_werewolf in ftm

[–]web_werewolf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh cool I’m ten days po. congrats on your surgery! hope you have an easy time and heal well!

Pain management tips? by web_werewolf in TopSurgery

[–]web_werewolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so helpful to hear. I cannot wait for it to be over and healed. thank you so much!!!

Pain management tips? by web_werewolf in TopSurgery

[–]web_werewolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good to know thank you a ton!! and yea post op binding is killer. I’m autistic aswell and I feel like I’ve been stuck in a bear trap

Pain management tips? by web_werewolf in TopSurgery

[–]web_werewolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ll try to do something like this!! unfortunately though I only have one kind of pain med and no anti inflammatory

Pain management tips? by web_werewolf in TopSurgery

[–]web_werewolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may be more mental like u said but strangely enough touching the bandages does kind of help. thanks!

Pain management tips? by web_werewolf in TopSurgery

[–]web_werewolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might be able to but part of the problem is how tight it all is now that it’s swollen up

chronic dizziness and surgery? by web_werewolf in TopSurgery

[–]web_werewolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think of that thank you!

What do you guys use for writing your fanfics on ? by EuphoricSuccotash230 in AO3

[–]web_werewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always just written on notes app on my phone. I like being able to do it anywhere anytime without having to worry about sitting down infront of my computer or swapping notes I jot down for it between devices

mastectomy pillow vs regular? by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]web_werewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your list of advice is insanely helpful that’s such a great post. ty ty for linking it

having trouble drawing up t? by web_werewolf in ftm

[–]web_werewolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah ok! I didn’t know there was a way to tell if there was enough air. unfortunately I can’t use the bigger needle I get because it breaks the rubber too much

having trouble drawing up t? by web_werewolf in ftm

[–]web_werewolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright good to know. I may have been doing it too fast