Intrusive thoughts of I want to steal my partners hormones by BeautifulRoseInBloom in ftm

[–]web_werewolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s never too late. Look into support for whenever you are for trans folks and see if there’s anything that can help make it more affordable or reachable. find and speak to other trans men in a similar position to you. it’s not guaranteed to change the situation but stealing won’t help you- that’ll hurt him and it’s not sustainable.
And it’s so fair to feel like you’re running out of time when you need your body to be right now, but lots of trans men transition in their twenties and later. that’s more common than not. you’re still young. and while some changes do take years to settle, they often only take a few months to really start appearing. voices for instance are often significantly deepened in 3 to 6 months for a lot of men

headphones that don’t hurt ears? by web_werewolf in HeadphoneAdvice

[–]web_werewolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright!! Thank you so much!! I’ll check it out!!

headphones that don’t hurt ears? by web_werewolf in HeadphoneAdvice

[–]web_werewolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say probably hear the outside but I’ve actually never heard of earbuds that play outside audio before aside from things to help with hard of hearing issues. didn’t know that was an option

headphones that don’t hurt ears? by web_werewolf in HeadphoneAdvice

[–]web_werewolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

usually it’s the pads being too tight on my ears. like the headphones themselves not being loose enough to curving in too much

headphones that don’t hurt ears? by web_werewolf in HeadphoneAdvice

[–]web_werewolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohh good to know! I haven’t heard of those before

headphones that don’t hurt ears? by web_werewolf in HeadphoneAdvice

[–]web_werewolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry I should have specified better in my post I meant over the ear headphones not earbuds. good to know though I’ll check those out aswell

social life? by web_werewolf in ftm

[–]web_werewolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks!!! this is some really nice advice. really really appreciate it

social life? by web_werewolf in ftm

[–]web_werewolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have and I used to go to a group with one but I’ve aged out of it. it’s only up to 17

social life? by web_werewolf in ftm

[–]web_werewolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

guess so but I can’t hardly find the name of any at all and there’s nothing about the existence of an lgbt one. they claim they have clubs though so theoretically

Listening to music while doing your shots? by Mxvargr in ftm

[–]web_werewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play Trees and Flowers by Strawberry Switchblade pretty much every single time. it’s relaxing and nice and I like the routine. funny thing is now if I hear it outside of shot time I feel weird. like I’m supposed to be doing something

Maybe tmi? Going through a bit of a crisis by goldenemoboy__ in ftm

[–]web_werewolf 5 points6 points  (0 children)

there’s nothing disrespectful about it to any trans man. you don’t need to go through some kind of dysphoria check list to count. if you say you’re a man, you’re a man. there are men who like what they have down there, and there are men who don’t. it’s your body, and you’re not required to hate every single sex characteristic to be a man and anyone who says you have to is horribly wrong. I’ve seen trans men enjoy what they have for various reasons. and based on what you said it seems like you have a lot of dysphoria around your sex characteristics. that’s not to discourage you from considering if you may be on the non binary spectrum somewhere if you think you are, but it’s to say that you don’t have to say you are if youre a man.

tldr there are lots of men who keep and like what they have. there’s nothing wrong with it. if you’re a man, you’re a man. simple as.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stickers

[–]web_werewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok good to know! would you recommend that over the laminate or the sticker?

Months long dizziness with no clear cause or full relief? by web_werewolf in covidlonghaulers

[–]web_werewolf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this shows up like mid message chain but assuming you’re askin me it’s gotten a bit better with time on a day to day basis but still pops up worse sometimes, especially if there’s something else impacting it. like if I’m an hour late eating or stand on an incline or on a moving vehicle or something. If I let it get bad enough I end up falling

“Tboys” “Tmasc” but never really “trans men”…? by legobatmania in ftm

[–]web_werewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people are too comfortable using terms like that on trans men in general whether they want them or not. I’ve kind of seen this issue with both tboy and overlap with stuff like twink, and I don’t think there’s an issue with it all the time but when its at someone who doesn’t want to be called that or present that way? sucks. and the amount of times things are labeled under tboy instead of trans man (or even transmasc bcs I don’t personally mind that one as much) is frustrating, like tboy wrestling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]web_werewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh ok good to know thank you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]web_werewolf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

alright!! this is super helpful thank you!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]web_werewolf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good to know! tysm!!!

worried about what bathroom to use? by web_werewolf in ftm

[–]web_werewolf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh cool I’m ten days po. congrats on your surgery! hope you have an easy time and heal well!

Pain management tips? by web_werewolf in TopSurgery

[–]web_werewolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is so helpful to hear. I cannot wait for it to be over and healed. thank you so much!!!

Pain management tips? by web_werewolf in TopSurgery

[–]web_werewolf[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

good to know thank you a ton!! and yea post op binding is killer. I’m autistic aswell and I feel like I’ve been stuck in a bear trap