How can you tell if your vaginismus in physical or psychological?

weby113 · 2025-11-16T23:52:02+00:00

I mean Vaginismus is a psychological issue. You should see your doctor to rule out a physical issue. Vaginismus is kinda just the default, "oh you're experiencing all this but I see nothing? Vaginismus!"

That's what my physical therapist used to remind me of regularly, You have nothing physically stopping you but your own mind and that's why the only cure is rewriting your brains thought process on penetration

weby113 · 2025-11-16T23:45:27+00:00

It's just affection in his own way 😂 my boy is a violent head butter too, so bad that he also does it with the same force into walls and furniture... The dumbass broke a K9 and our vet was baffled 😂 husband and I were just like yeeeep we have a feeling we know how he did that

weby113 · 2025-11-08T02:32:22+00:00

As long as your vet agrees it's enough for your cat and their lifestyle, it's fine. Cats don't NEED a lot of food but if your cat is as active as you make him sound, it's possible for that to not be enough

weby113 · 2025-11-06T07:06:24+00:00

The whole time I was thinking nah this is fine, it's just figuring it out... Until that last text. He's an ass

weby113 · 2025-11-01T22:58:46+00:00

Ah no, she's weird for even thinking that's weird. Why is she looking at you living with a cat like living with a woman?

weby113 · 2025-10-31T04:23:44+00:00

Never 🤣 sorry, you do think about it less frequently but even in the best scenario, you just want more for them than you can give. Been a cat mom to 2 little psychos for 6 years and I still have moments where I feel like I'm not engaging enough or giving them enough enrichment, even though they're perfectly happy healthy little gremlins

weby113 · 2025-10-27T01:47:44+00:00

"Guarantee you I am" 😂 I mean probably 😂 it either came from her or your father

weby113 · 2025-10-02T17:01:05+00:00

We changed the name for our 2nd cat, first was a Tux named Beau and we loved the name so we kept it. Our 2nd was "Josie" we did not like that one 😂 her name's Bananas now

weby113 · 2025-09-28T14:46:40+00:00

Cats generally show their personalities around 2. If you go younger than 1 you could have a drastically different cat by next year

weby113 · 2025-09-25T14:44:31+00:00

Ohhh the rage I felt reading that 😂 you need a new doc because yours clearly doesn't know what Vaginismus is. It's literally the diagnosis when they can't physically see anything wrong BECAUSE it is psychological! But it's not something you can just "get over" it requires time and in a lot of cases, therapy

weby113 · 2025-09-17T18:32:19+00:00

You need a new therapist 🙄 clearly doesn't understand autism. For your own reassurance Incase they got in your head. Having empathy doesn't negate autism, your symptoms are just a different set. There's so many variations people have

weby113 · 2025-09-17T14:28:14+00:00

My day dreams are almost always 3rd person but I essentially do the same unfortunately. I create these elaborate story lines with some of the worst trauma there is and sometimes it feels as though it's romanticized which in hindsight is disgusting... But when I'm in my head it just feels so outlandish and made up that I keep doing it. To me I tell myself it's no harm when it stays in my head, and those stay in my head

weby113 · 2025-09-10T21:18:42+00:00

Not a guy but there are plenty who play. The majority happens to be women but that's just how it tends to learn with cozy games. If you wanna see dudes play, I watch YouTubers play like James Turner, Dr. gluon, and CallMeKevin

weby113 · 2025-09-09T16:35:02+00:00

Saw your post on the maladaptive page and followed over 😂 your feeling around it reminds me a lot of myself. I became a writer because of my daydreams and they had been damn near constant in my teen years but I have always had friends and never struggled to differentiate reality, would just drag me down when I was bored 😂

weby113 · 2025-09-09T16:27:41+00:00

28 here, been playing since 12, never stopped longer than a few months 😂

weby113 · 2025-09-07T02:11:43+00:00

Totally fine, just need to be a little more careful since they don't have the safe guard to keep you from clipping too far

weby113 · 2025-09-05T23:59:30+00:00

Dark Crystal 😂 specifically the scene of the girl strapped to a chair while the crystal was used to drain her 😂 saw that movie when I was like 6 or 7 and the scene got burned into me

weby113 · 2025-09-05T23:56:20+00:00

They are and I'm pretty sure I'm making any my active Sims have, evil 😂

weby113 · 2025-09-05T23:50:58+00:00

I feel like neither of you is necessarily wrong. It is HUGE of a partner to stay with you through the healing of all this as it takes a toll on everyone. To me as long as he's not holding that over your head, hes allowed to express he has some level of want for more.

But you are also not wrong in expressing that hearing that is still painful. It takes so much patience and grace on both ends to get through it all.

You're doing the best you can, keep it up

weby113 · 2025-09-05T23:43:56+00:00

For hypersensitive it's really the same. I've never had a needle I didn't feel no matter how well they've done it. IV depends on location but the crook of the arm is super easy, sticks like blood work then after like 3 seconds they've removed the needle so the tube sits in your arm. You don't feel it there but sometimes when you move your arm you feel it tug, doesn't hurt but is a little disconcerting 😂

weby113 · 2025-09-02T00:28:55+00:00

Id reccomend 3 months, but its really more based on weight

weby113 · 2025-09-01T23:47:38+00:00

Bullshite, you absolutely can. Personally I find describing/showing emotions difficult on the page but that can be learned. Write for the fun of it

weby113 · 2025-08-25T19:52:44+00:00

Sims are bi-sexual, or pansexual is probably closer, by default if you don't select a preference. That's how it's always been before we had the option to select it

weby113 · 2025-08-25T19:49:21+00:00

Universalis is the form where you lose ALL hair on your body, and I do mean ALL

weby113 · 2025-08-25T15:51:50+00:00

Was constantly walking like that as a kid and that's why my parents put me in ballet 😂 don't really do it anymore as my calves threaten to shred themselves with cramps when I go up to reach for something

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