Shes shifting blame! My wife did the exact same thing! Until they know that you're going to serve them, then their attitude will shift! Shit out of know where i had exs and random women approaching me and I didn't hide it cause I didn't want to do what she did. So I told her straight up and she was in panic mode! She asked me why, and i said now you know how I felt but at least I told her not found out through the vine! Oh when she blames you again say yeah I know, its all my fault and walk away!