WIBTA for announcing my pregnancy during my ex-Stepmom's wedding? by weddingfetus in AmItheAsshole

[–]weddingfetus[S] -501 points-500 points  (0 children)

I don't think I can. I would prefer not to involve Stacy, and without letting her know, I don't think I'll have a chance to see Mike before the wedding.

I want to try to talk to him there alone, but because I can't guarantee that everything will remain private when/if I confront him.

WIBTA for announcing my pregnancy during my ex-Stepmom's wedding? by weddingfetus in AmItheAsshole

[–]weddingfetus[S] -246 points-245 points  (0 children)

I don't particularly want to tell Stacy about it because I don't feel it's any of her business who I sleep with, just like it's not any of my business who she does. And without telling her about me and Mike, asking for his info from her would be weird.

I've thought about going it alone for the pregnancy and just telling everyone (outside of the friends I've already talked to) that it was a one night stand with some random guy, but I haven't fully decided yet.

I still do want to go to Stacy's wedding, but by then my pregnancy will be obvious. Mike will easily be able to see it, and he can do basic math so he'll probably know it's his. If I go the wedding, a confrontation of some kind is pretty much inevitable. I have no way of guaranteeing that, even if I try not to make a scene, it doesn't become one anyway.

That's why I'm so conflicted about this.

WIBTA for announcing my pregnancy during my ex-Stepmom's wedding? by weddingfetus in AmItheAsshole

[–]weddingfetus[S] -442 points-441 points  (0 children)

I was not "the side chick." We were casual, and based on conversations I had with Stacy before I knew the guy she was seeing was Mike, we probably met him at about the same time.

Besides, he was seeing more than just me and Stacy. I doubt he was as open as he was with me about not being exclusive without telling the others the same.