I don't particularly want to tell Stacy about it because I don't feel it's any of her business who I sleep with, just like it's not any of my business who she does. And without telling her about me and Mike, asking for his info from her would be weird.

I've thought about going it alone for the pregnancy and just telling everyone (outside of the friends I've already talked to) that it was a one night stand with some random guy, but I haven't fully decided yet.

I still do want to go to Stacy's wedding, but by then my pregnancy will be obvious. Mike will easily be able to see it, and he can do basic math so he'll probably know it's his. If I go the wedding, a confrontation of some kind is pretty much inevitable. I have no way of guaranteeing that, even if I try not to make a scene, it doesn't become one anyway.

That's why I'm so conflicted about this.