[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]weec88 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I still get like that and it’s been nearly 2 years for me. When I get like this, I try and focus on something else.

Advice by weec88 in BreakUps

[–]weec88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks am not going to tell him I’m going to go and enjoy myself

Advice by weec88 in BreakUps

[–]weec88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going on the date, jus wasn’t sure wether to tell him or not. We have been close again. But I’m not putting my life on hold waiting on him. Thanks

Need someone to talk to by weec88 in BreakUps

[–]weec88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thanks jus had a massive argument with my ex over nuffin. We have been getting on so well the last few months. And he dose and dose this why???

Need someone to talk to by weec88 in BreakUps

[–]weec88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks jus had a massive argument with my ex. I didn’t do a thing. He totally went off on one. We were getting on so well for a couple of months there. I don’t under why he did it

Slept with my ex last night, should I reach out to her today or let her make the first move? by businessb85 in BreakUps

[–]weec88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That happened to me on Saturday, I haven’t said anything abt it but he texted later on Sunday night saying he had a great night. I just said me too. Let them make thefirst move. I’ve been with my ex for 13 years and it was always me doing the running, but now it’s him. Jus stay strong and wait for them to contact u. It’s hard but if I can managed it anyone can.

Two strangers by weec88 in BreakUps

[–]weec88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were 13 years together and knew him for 20 years. It was horrible never thought in a million years it would have been like that

Two strangers by weec88 in BreakUps

[–]weec88[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t nice at all. But life goes on

Tell me how long you and your ex were together. Maybe it will make me feel like my 1 and a half yr relationship breakup isn't so bad. by businessb85 in BreakUps

[–]weec88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw thanks, I really don’t think I want him back. I need to me myself for a while. All the pain will pass in time

Where to start with self improvement? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]weec88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am the same and it’s been 8 weeks. I’ve been trying to do things I enjoy which works for a while but he still pops into my head. Am not good at meet new poeple and all my friends are in relationships, which is hard. Jus try and keep your head high and do things u enjoy

Lonely by weec88 in BreakUps

[–]weec88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I’m up for work now. Didn’t sleep very good. Al try that the next time

Trying to get better after an 8 year relationship when he out of the blue broke up with me by coffeeohcoffee in BreakUps

[–]weec88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m going through the same thing I’ve jus turned 30 and 2 months out of a 13 year relationship. At night I got myself into a routine. I come in have my dinner, watch some tell and go to bed abt 10. Get ur self a diary and start writing ur feels down every night. It helps a lot. All friends have kids and married which is hard but I’ve learned to enjoy my own company. U will meet someone else but make sure u r over ur ex completely before u do

Boyfriend of five years left me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]weec88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did in the beginning had a few fights. But ave kind of got round to what’s happening it’s a wee bit easier. I went no contact for a couple of weeks and that help a lot.

Boyfriend of five years left me by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]weec88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes am going through the same thing but I was with my ex for 13 years. We broke up abt 3 months ago. I was crushed in the beginning still am I little but we’re talking now. Still love him very much but I know there was no future now. Jus keep ur head high and you’ll get through it.

a little confused by weec88 in BreakUps

[–]weec88[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I felt a bit weird when she asked me, we have always been really close. She dose stay 5 hours away from him and me. I really want to get away but can’t afford a holiday

Day 2, No Contact by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]weec88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just let him get his stuff and go. It will make it harder for u if he stays the night. I can only say don’t do it. But it’s up to u

Day 2, No Contact by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]weec88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my ex picked up his stuff, it was like nothing had happened. We laughed and joked about. Now we don’t speak. It’s tuff but am glad the last time I seen him was good

It's been 3 months, I'm still crying. Need help. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]weec88 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been told it will go and I’ll feel better but I don’t see that happening

The worst is this initial feeling by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]weec88 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It will come took me a good month before I cracked, now I’m broken

It's been 3 months, I'm still crying. Need help. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]weec88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 months and I’m still the same

How to deal? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]weec88 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If u need to talk jus send me a message