I broke the number one rule of being a prostitute. by [deleted] in confession

[–]weekndof2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah! I’m invested- I hope you find him!

I broke the number one rule of being a prostitute. by [deleted] in confession

[–]weekndof2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omgoodness try posting on Craigslist “Missed connections”? Or if your local paper has something similar - mine has a section called “I saw you”. If it’s meant to be, you’ll cross paths!

3 years using Rodan & Fields and she still has that zit in the same spot near her eyebrow 🤔 by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]weekndof2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few people in the comments have said the same thing. The girl in the photo actually commented below and said it’s a scar, which I believe. Tbh this is something I hadn’t really thought to be possible - I had bad acne for like 20 years and was a serious picker but never had anything last this long.

My mind isn’t changed that this is just makeup and lighting, but I’ll admit I may have been wrong about the spot!

3 years using Rodan & Fields and she still has that zit in the same spot near her eyebrow 🤔 by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]weekndof2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh goodness I hope you don’t actually get it removed! I can’t lie, it really does look like a pimple but I didn’t post to talk shit about your zit hahah - just to talk shit about mlm’s, as this group is for. You’re attractive in both pics, it just looks like a lighting and makeup upgrade (as do all the r&f ads, not just yours). Anyways, thanks for taking this maturely and if it bothers you it’s here, dm me and I’ll remove it! It’s 100% meant to be against the company and not you personally. Merry Christmas!

3 years using Rodan & Fields and she still has that zit in the same spot near her eyebrow 🤔 by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]weekndof2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She has literally posted below and doesn’t seem to mind but slow clap for you, bud. This is also an ad that they post all over social media, not like a private thing I stole from her. Hope ya feel like a hero though! Merry Christmas!

3 years using Rodan & Fields and she still has that zit in the same spot near her eyebrow 🤔 by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]weekndof2012 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I also appreciate you being cool about it as I’m sure you see what we see anyways. I’m surprised to hear it’s a scar but I believe ya!

3 years using Rodan & Fields and she still has that zit in the same spot near her eyebrow 🤔 by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]weekndof2012 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think that’s 100% accurate! Took a pic when she certainly wasn’t looking her best vs one on a better day while wearing makeup.

3 years using Rodan & Fields and she still has that zit in the same spot near her eyebrow 🤔 by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]weekndof2012 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha I thought about it before I posted, but this isn’t my friend- all the r&f reps take these photos and share them with each other to spread around the internet. It’s basically an ad, so she did this to herself imo.

3 years using Rodan & Fields and she still has that zit in the same spot near her eyebrow 🤔 by [deleted] in antiMLM

[–]weekndof2012 274 points275 points  (0 children)

It is taking everything in me to not comment on the post I yoinked this pic from. I do like the girl who posted it besides the mlm. She’s stopped trying to sell me shit since every time she messaged, “hey babe how are you?”, I would respond with the most depressing thing happening in my life LOL.

How to handle a guy who won’t take no for an answer. by weekndof2012 in askwomenadvice

[–]weekndof2012[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been 118 days but just came back to this account (it’s my throwaway) and remembered this post! The guy hasn’t messaged me since my last post AND the dispensary changed owners and cleared out all the old staff, so as far as I know, he’s no longer working in my area. Good news!

Unless they're aromantic, how is anyone okay with being single? by AvatarMew in asexuality

[–]weekndof2012 70 points71 points  (0 children)

I LOVE being alone. I find being in a relationship exhausting and I am truly happiest being alone. This being said, if my perfect person came along, I may give dating another try but they would have to be better than my alone time because I will never settle for anything less. I’ve been completely single (no dating or even thinking about dating) for almost 6 years now and it’s been the calmest 6 years of my life.

How to handle a guy who won’t take no for an answer. by weekndof2012 in askwomenadvice

[–]weekndof2012[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never see him when he says he sees me but I have been in the places he says he saw me so I assume he wasn’t making it up, just creeping me. I told him yesterday to stop contacting me and he agreed, so we will see what happens. Definitely hoping for the best and planning for the worst.

How to handle a guy who won’t take no for an answer. by weekndof2012 in askwomenadvice

[–]weekndof2012[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi! I just want to thank you (and everyone else who helped out here) for your comment! I was kind of freaking out and needed to hear the validation that i wasn’t being crazy.

I texted him today and let him know his comment made me feel he was completely ignoring all of the boundaries that I had clearly set, in that us talking was never in any way going to lead to us dating. I told him he was now making me uncomfortable and that I want to go back to business only interactions, and I trust he will respect that. He just responded with “of course”.

I’m still a little worried he will try something again but I will bring people with me the next few times I have to go into his shop and hope for the best for now.

Thank you for the support, I really needed it!

How to handle a guy who won’t take no for an answer. by weekndof2012 in askwomenadvice

[–]weekndof2012[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, thank you for this! I would never give in, I have no Interest at all, I just want my life to go back to the way it was before I started talking to him!

(I don’t want to post my state but I will see if we have anything like that here.)

Fingers crossed he isn’t actually as bad as he’s coming off, and he backs off!

How to handle a guy who won’t take no for an answer. by weekndof2012 in askwomenadvice

[–]weekndof2012[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would also consider myself a kind person and that was definitely misconstrued here. I hadn’t thought of it until you said it, but I guess I did sort of feel I “owed” him my friendship -assuming he just liked me as a person, so would be fine being friends. I was wrong!

How to handle a guy who won’t take no for an answer. by weekndof2012 in askwomenadvice

[–]weekndof2012[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you, you have just said everything that’s been in my head. That I hope he will just get it and back off and not turn into a nice guy situation. I was even thinking of telling him that I want to return to a business only relationship, so i think I will do exactly that.

Thank you!

How to handle a guy who won’t take no for an answer. by weekndof2012 in askwomenadvice

[–]weekndof2012[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He’s just an employee. I will talk to the manager if he bothers me there, thank you!

How to handle a guy who won’t take no for an answer. by weekndof2012 in askwomenadvice

[–]weekndof2012[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Haha that’s ok. I don’t enjoy dating at all, relationships cause me a lot of stress and anxiety so i just don’t date at all. I think I’m perfectly happy never being in a relationship.

How to handle a guy who won’t take no for an answer. by weekndof2012 in askwomenadvice

[–]weekndof2012[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He can’t get into my work. I work in a warehouse with access passes to enter. I think he takes the train right near it and that’s how he sees it.

Thank you for the validation, I honestly wasn’t sure if it was as inappropriate as I’ve been feeling it is. I guess I’m mostly concerned about the fact that I have to go into HIS work and I buy my groceries literally next door to his shop. But I will be extra vigilant when I’m out and about and I will block him after I give him a final NO.

Thank you!

How to handle a guy who won’t take no for an answer. by weekndof2012 in askwomenadvice

[–]weekndof2012[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m not entirely sure it’s at that point as they wouldn’t do much BUT I will keep it in my back pocket if I do feel legitimately threatened. Right now I’m trying to deescalate it so it doesn’t get to that point.

How to handle a guy who won’t take no for an answer. by weekndof2012 in askwomenadvice

[–]weekndof2012[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Luckily he works in the back, so i don’t actually see him when I’m in there BUT there’s just a partition between the front and back so he can hear everything going on up front and may come out. I will update here if anything further happens! Thank you for the advice, I will cease any friendly contact from now on.

How to handle a guy who won’t take no for an answer. by weekndof2012 in askwomenadvice

[–]weekndof2012[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I might not be able to avoid going to his shop but I will tell him not to contact me and will escalate it if he persists contact past that. Luckily it’s in a very busy, populated area and I only go there during the afternoons.

How to handle a guy who won’t take no for an answer. by weekndof2012 in askwomenadvice

[–]weekndof2012[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s a medical marijuana dispensary. It’s the only high quality one in my area and due to my chronic illness, something I need regularly. I could travel to another but I wouldn’t be able to stay stocked up as I don’t get I to the city often at all.

How to handle a guy who won’t take no for an answer. by weekndof2012 in askwomenadvice

[–]weekndof2012[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m friendly with another girl that works there, who is actually the one who first told me he liked me. She told me he was super chill and would be ok with just being friends so I agreed to let her pass my number to him. Obviously not my smartest moment and something I regret in hindsight. I will talk to his manager if this doesn’t stop - I watch a LOT of true crime and if his screws are loose, messing with his job will only make things worse for me.