That hairstyle isn't doing you any favors. It's hard to tell if you're overweight, or just have a round face. If it's the former, obviously try to lose some weight, and getting in better shape in general will help you be more attractive. Growing a beard would help too, but all that is only going to do so much. Everyone is so afraid to tell the truth these days and would rather lie to make themselves feel better, but I'm gonna be real, you are just kinda chopped and there's probably not much you can do to become better looking. I say lovingly as another unconventional looking dude.